hardly will you read a thread on relationships that you won't find the ladies talking about wanting a guy to be responsible for this and that.

so, I kinder think......
ladies what makes a guy responsible?
what do you look out in a guy that will make him responsible?


let's discuss

Ability to hunt down the cat

chimerase2:
Ability to hunt down the cat

Cat I don't get it

vizkiz:
this is a thread for the ladies...i don't wanna see any guy here ok??

Tenk you man.....

and the ladies are shying away from speaking their minds and later they will say guys don't know how to treat a lady.

Gflat:


Cat I don't get it

do u hv google translator
Dat translate animals to ibongi things

When he is very agile and good in bed

chimerase2:
do u hv google translator
Dat translate animals to ibongi things

What is ibongi

by being responsible..!

morally; he doesn't have to jump from one skirt to another to prove the assertion that all men are polygamous in nature.
my kinda responsible man doesn't drink heavily, smoke, keep rugged friends and stay out late.
socially; my kinda of responsible man should know there are different societal views for the different genders and so should act accordingly. however there are some societal views I can never and will never take.. you can't look down on me cause I'm not a V, and at the same time praise your fellow waka waka about male about his sexual life.. you will be damned! and absolutely irresponsible..
financially; you don't need billions to build a family/ home and you don't need to dress shabbily and roughly just to act up!! you don't need to impress me with your money, I'm making mine too.. so don't come to me with the mentality that 'all girls want your money' you will look so irresponsible to me and I'd think you don't have any future inspiring things to spend your money on than coming to impress me with your small change.. and that you have nothing of value other than money to add to my life as far as the relationship is concerned!
responsible is when a man know just what his home needs and bring it home in time I.e be able to provide for his family , however there are situations where the man might be cash trap, now irresponsibility is when you just sit down and don't get something going, hoping on one imaginary money to come knocking..(I hate this type of men)
spiritually; just be good.. don't over do biko! self righteous people are highly irresponsible and hypocrites.. and you don't have to be brother so so so or usher so so so before you know what's and what's not right..
mentally; not everybody is blessed with good intellect but just speak +vly and intelligently . . because many marriages failed, you starts having the thoughts that marriages don't worth shit or that you can't probably have a good marital life, you are mentally unstable for judging your life along other people's experiences.. or that all girls want your money because your ex maganized you, apart from the fact that you don't know when to stop spending or the limit you should go on a gf, you are irresponsibly dumb not to know no two different people can ever be the same.
sexually; okk you took me out, got me some wares and you think when we get home I will automatically lay on the bed for you to hump me no one forced you to take a girl out, even if she asked for it. you weren't forced! and to think you would automatically get laid because you spent on your gf speaks of how irresponsible and a boy-man you are.. it should be known that Sex is a mutual agreement and no matter how much you spend or not, you will only get laid if the girl wants it too or agree and not because you bought some things..
you are highly irresponsible if after a night with your side or main chick or even worse your wife, you anxiously couldn't wait till dawn to chat your friends up about the act..



any man without these thinkings or act is a responsible man..!

vizkiz:


and who says these chicks know how to treat a guy right??

They think its just all about sex and cooking food for you

you want to start a 3rd world war of words with those ladies.......

like the one that can't wash his bf cloth that made fp just because the guy ask and she can go to the guy house to eat, ask for Richard card, gifts, good on a date but can't wash the guy cloths.


that's one of the reasons I did ask them oooo

Gflat:



What is ibongi

u dn dey before dey text u slap and u receive amu sharp sharp

Mykel4God:
When he is very agile and good in bed

tar


Nah woman you be?

Islie:


tar


Nah woman you be?

And so what?

chimerase2:
u dn dey before dey text u slap and u receive amu sharp sharp

Can you speak in English?? Please

Mykel4God:

And so what?

can you know what's on their mind when you aren't a she

His ability to have self control

How he tackles situation

How he wisely spends

Alot more... Thinking...

dress sense!!
making wise decisions
ability to maintain/keep a relationship
intelligent judgements..
and, a seasoned and decent speech; Not blabbing around like most nairalanders males do... eteacee

Nmeri17:
well OP to answer yo question, when u get a lady pregnant she will say that you are responsible. I hope that answers yo question

ha

that's did not do justice to the question
let hear the ladies view since.........

mhyra:
dress sense!!
making wise decisions
ability to maintain/keep a relationship
intelligent judgements..
and, a seasoned and decent speech; Not blabbing around like most nairalanders males do... eteacee

Hum!
how many of them have you met you have know that they do blabbed around
or
u just finding ways to give the guys here a bad image

TrishaP:
His ability to have self control

How he tackles situation

How he wisely spends

Alot more... Thinking...

hope you will update us on the rest

mhyra:
dress sense!!
making wise decisions
ability to maintain/keep a relationship
intelligent judgements..
and, a seasoned and decent speech; Not blabbing around like most nairalanders males do... eteacee

i like

That long post for only one question

@quivah

Nah real thesis you write oooo

quivah:

Kia

You try not be small things

dre11:


Kia

You try not be small things

just had to elaborate

I see a responsible man as one who fears God, respects his parents and elderly one. the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

Adaobi12:
I see a responsible man as one who fears God, respects his parents and elderly one. the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

who doesn't fear God?? rapist,armed robbers fear God pass pastors sef.

timmyboy5050:
who doesn't fear God?? rapist,armed robbers fear God pass pastors sef.

that's not true. one who truly fears God won't do any these things you mentioned