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Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Misogynist2014(m): 8:44am On Dec 20, 2014 |
In4matic:This is what I term reality my dear. Polygamy is just like monogamy, forget nollywood. The 'feminists' on Nl won't tell her this. All they care about is +1. 1 Like |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by EfemenaXY: 9:03am On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: Lol! Kudos to you! Someone half as emotionally distraught as the poster's made out to be wouldn't compose so long a letter. Neither will he / her / shim place sooooo much effort towards making it painstakingly legible. Beautiful scripting though. Parts 1 and 2 got me hooked. I'll conceed that much. 4 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 20, 2014 |
soonest: no feminism never brough about women having self worth, fact! It never brought about women having a say, fact! If it brings about non sbservience in women, then you really think its is a good thing? We can argue this. And no, feminists are actually more concerned about the male ego than men are about their own ego. I am not saying that some men are not against feminism for the wrong reasons. You people like attacking the male ego but what do you say we men should do about the female ego? You people have ego but you never see us attack it. And as for the statement: "feminism is here to stay", i would like you to substitute feminism for Islamic Jihad and lets see how you sound. |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Misogynist2014(m): 9:06am On Dec 20, 2014 |
craziebone:I consider my write ups simple, logical and unapologetic. All my write ups are satire, explaining reality with riddles. It may surprise you that reality conflicts with my moniker. I explain my views through my moniker, stressing my views through using misogyny in clear terms, urging all through my signature to understand my views, neglecting the pattern I have used in writing them. Try it now, neglecting misogyny or at best view it as a litrary method, then you will understand what I was trying to pass across. |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 9:12am On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: this is absolutely untrue. While i maintain that the person could be male or female, it is an established fact that women have superior verbal fluency and could articulate better than men. It is often said that the fatest typist is an angry woman. This is supported by some science. So no, from our experience we know that the best articulator, if there is any word as such, is an extreemly emotional woman. You guys always site this as you superiority over us. Why are you making a u-turn now? |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by EfemenaXY: 9:43am On Dec 20, 2014 |
craziebone: Because the story just isn't true. A woman supposedly crushed by her husband deciding to take in a new wife wouldn't come on to nairaland of all places to over emphasise on her lessons "learnt" - especially on his wedding day. She should be curled up in a corner crying her eyes out while close friends and family comfort her. Not her/him/shim profusely sweating it out on here giving out free lessons. By the way, whose looking after her kids while she's on here...scripting? 7 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Sleekyshuga(f): 9:51am On Dec 20, 2014 |
mafioso47:I'll do just that... |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by jumbotron: 9:55am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Wait o, it is a deep insecurity that causes a man to almost pop a vein because a woman has a differing opinion. GUY, so if someone does not agree with you that person is a man hater? Has a "feminist" hurt you? Ah ah, calm your horses. Feminism is not your issue my brother, something else is. Please seek that thing out. Talking about "you must answer them so they do not have monopoly over the airwaves". In present day Nigeria when we are dealing with unemployment, bombings and lack of electricity, your main gripe is women with an opinion different from yours? Not everyone will agree with you in this life. Not every woman will fit what you feel is the prototype of a woman. Please this crusade to silence "feminists" has you looking very somehow. Feminism to you is on the same level as a jihadist movement? Wait...what? You also say "Some feminists desperately wish that women are constantly oppressed so that they (some feminists) stay relevant"...haba guy...seriously, seriously you wrote that with a straight face and conviction? I am unfollowing this thread biko, I just hope you take a chill pill. It is not that serious. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: I said it na. welli done to people who had time to type epistles. The way the story was narrated in form of lessons and showering of praises to the husband would not be the true state of mind of a woman who is truly hurt by her husband marrying another wife. Such a woman will be too hurt and speechless to give lessons. To top it all, the account was just created with this post as the only one. This story is as fictional as nollywood. 6 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 20, 2014 |
I can even tell una who started this fake thread but you have to bribe me first. Hahahahahaaa see screaming on top matter oya nairaland women all ye Feminist EfemenaXY, Cococandy come and learn " lesson " by fire by force After posting fake story we have to re emphasise the " lesson" for all ye sturborn feminist by fire by force hehehehehe 5 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 10:48am On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: How much do you want? 1 Like |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 10:54am On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: One year supply of frozen yogurt |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by EfemenaXY: 11:02am On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: That can be arranged na. So what currency would you like? £££? $$$? Euro?? Or NGN? |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: Ok, I will import it from Russia, the Ruble is currently very cheap and the country very cold. Deal? |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 20, 2014 |
jumbotron: no one is a man hater by disagreeing with me. But the man hater becomes very identifyable when he/she is deliberately missing the point and desperately disingenous. Yea, some feminists(or should i call them misandrists) have hurt people and are still hurting them. Did you see the way that man was harrassed on TV when he was being interviewd on his milestone for puting a ship on a comet? Have you seen how they want to indoctrinate men that they do not have rights to children because in the words of the writer of "Everywoman", bond CAN also develop between a father and child IF HE PLAYS HIS ROLE? By that, she implied that if bond exists between a father and child, then it isn't because it is natural but that he "played his role". It also suggests that men have not been playing their roles. As for the "we have all the problems in Nigeria", my dear, i still have time for other things too. Majority of my time on NL is not spent discussing family issues as the family section is not my most visited. You can come to the foreign affairs if you want to see me. I came in here because i saw this topic on the front page. I am not on a crusade to stop feminism. I only said we can't give them MONOPOLY of the airwave. This means they also have to talk. But we shouldn't allow them to be the only ones speaking and i stated my reason for it. Lastly, it seems you decided to just ignore the emoticons i put after i said that. I was only being sarcastic. Feminism and islamic jihad ARE NOT THE SAME, gat it? I only decided to play a little bit. 1 Like |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 11:15am On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Make I see my loot first but the answer is clear nah Who is writing sorry screaming all over on why you need to sorry must learn from this drama the most? 3 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 11:19am On Dec 20, 2014 |
watching them console each other, hmmm. 1 Like |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 11:32am On Dec 20, 2014 |
I have to go now. I think those who will be swerved will be swerved and those who won't, won't. But i think we have put on here enough of an opposing view to the excesses of feminism which is not too far, if not the same as misandry, so as to dilute the effect of hate. Feminism is beautiful but when it forces women to see themselves as victims when they don't see themselves as such; for some feminists here on NL to force the op to think her decision to stay in polygamy is bad even when the lady wants to stay, makes me ask if feminism the type these women practice is about women's freedom to make their choices. |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Lmao see vexing hehehee the " lesson " was refused to be " learned " sorry, sanu ndo, yi hakuri pele. Better luck next time, for future stories focus more on whinning and emotions than try to teach others Women in the heat of their pain are usually not this calculative and rational to the extent of ignoring their own pain and focusing on teaching others lessons. Dead give away. 7 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by soonest(f): 12:47pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
craziebone: |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 1:19pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soonest: funny too ba? Hehehe. I think i have to go on my knees and ask you to give me the privilege of being your lover. :*:*:* |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by In4matic: 1:35pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
hatelove: OP, God bless you for your decision to stay however you shouldn't see it as a battle between you two women. Welcome her, genuinely love her and be an take her as a kid sister or even a twin and watch your family turn to a mini heaven on earth. The likes of @Jumbotron, I chose not to respond because its alright to have your own opinions about what you think the world and the marriage institution ought to be. My advice is for the OP on the realities of life. Some people here have said you OP maybe a man, maybe a fictional story but incase it is real. Take good advice and stay in your marriage! And do your part. Congratulations on your new wife (yes she is also your wife as well as your husbands) and happy married life |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by LaRoyalHighness(f): 1:42pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Lol... Now 'we' have learnt the lesson.... Please keep this thread alive... I need updates biko... How is the wedding going? Must have started by now.... Right? 3 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LaRoyalHighness: good you have learnt. Wish you Peace profound, soror LaRoyalHighness!!! |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by LaRoyalHighness(f): 2:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Lol... Peace Profound. craziebone: |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LaRoyalHighness: so which lodge do you frequent? |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by zeb04(f): 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
How is the wedding going op.....I need updates too. 4 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
craziebone: Ha ah bros what are you still doing here? I thought you said you had gone [quote author=craziebone post=29046680]I have to go now. I /quote] 3 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Craziebone's the estranged first wife? |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by cococandy(f): 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2:I've been wondering too how someone who should be more concerned about getting her kids out of the claws of impending servitude at hands of a coming stepmother would be more preoccupied with teaching us lessons And insisting it is her fault while subtly praising her husband's patience with her all these years for the heinous crime of going through his phone and calling him out on his womanizing. She obviously loves us too much. Sounds like one them little nairaland boys' fantasy 8 Likes |
Re: HELP: My Husband Wedding Comes Up On Saturday by Wendy80(f): 5:48pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
I'm suspecting U @ craziebone |
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