zaragal:
Help nairalanders my relatnship is crumbling, my bf's mother is against me, she detest me with a great rancour because am from akwa ibom stare she has d mind set dat we re bad pple, we re promiscuous, we re cheats and all, she has always been against sometimes she often tell my bf dat I don't greet her wen I pass on d road and Dats not true I didn't even catch sight of her @ all, because of dis ongoing hatred for me and fear dat my bf loves me a nd is bent on marrying me she called my bf dat she went to see a prophet abt us dat d prophet said I was lyk a python, a pretender, I want to destroy my bf life, I want to strangle and swallow him....my bf hide dis from me for lyk a month until I pestered him to tell me, he himself has neva been comfortable keeping secrets away from me so he did, d mother is so much against me she is warning her son, me on d other hand am not a pretender heaven knows I hav no harm against my bf as a matter of fact I love him so much our religious background re quit opposite, am a born deeper life member, while his mum attends christ embassy, such diabolic prophecy against me is getting really sick and it's crumbling our relationship now my bf has quit, I don't want to beg for love tho but honestly my life without dis guy is like am breathing and not living...am not Ok @ all, I cry everyday I feel terrible pains in my chest which grows by the day as a matter of fact I sometimes find it hard to breathe, nobody knws dis except my self and few close frnds, my state of health is going worse by d day because of the absence of dis guy in my life, I was thinking of proving my innocence to every false accusations made against me, about d promiscuity tin, am still a virgin so I can go to d test and show dem dat am not wat dey think I am, abt the python stuff I was lyk we should go meet another true man of God who Ll pray for me, and come nd see his mum nd tell him d truth cos am not a python or wateva she meant its obvious d prophet is a false one, but here my bf said if I do all dis I ll b forcing myself into d family...pls wat should I do...am confused, am scared, pls advice

sexylogan:


My advice is that you pray very hard.
You can't force her to love you and you never know the kind of problems someone close to her had after
marrying someone from your state. However, if you pray and it's God'swill for you and your bf to get
married, nothing will stop it.
Be of good character and don't ever give her an excuse to accuse you of wrongdoing.
If this is meant to be, your bf will stand by your side through thick and thin.
I know it's not easy so keep praying.
The Lord is your strength.

ammyluv2002:
Nne, biko put yourself together! Yes! You love him but do you want to kill yourself for him? You don't need to prove anything, what will be will be. It's difficult but you just have to move on and if he's truly yours , he will come back. Dont ever feel bad about yourself or your state, you are wonderfully made by God Almighty so don't ket anyone take that away from you just hold tight to your virginity cause it's priceless

Thank God, you are a born again Christian so you should know by now that only God can fight for you

ritababe:
i dont understand, you guys think its easy to just let someone you love go or it seems you guys dont understand what it means to be in love.

zaragal:
Help nairalanders my relatnship is crumbling, my bf's mother is against me, she detest me with a great rancour because am from akwa ibom stare she has d mind set dat we re bad pple, we re promiscuous, we re cheats and all, she has always been against sometimes she often tell my bf dat I don't greet her wen I pass on d road and Dats not true I didn't even catch sight of her @ all, because of dis ongoing hatred for me and fear dat my bf loves me a nd is bent on marrying me she called my bf dat she went to see a prophet abt us dat d prophet said I was lyk a python, a pretender, I want to destroy my bf life, I want to strangle and swallow him....my bf hide dis from me for lyk a month until I pestered him to tell me, he himself has neva been comfortable keeping secrets away from me so he did, d mother is so much against me she is warning her son, me on d other hand am not a pretender heaven knows I hav no harm against my bf as a matter of fact I love him so much our religious background re quit opposite, am a born deeper life member, while his mum attends christ embassy, such diabolic prophecy against me is getting really sick and it's crumbling our relationship now my bf has quit, I don't want to beg for love tho but honestly my life without dis guy is like am breathing and not living...am not Ok @ all, I cry everyday I feel terrible pains in my chest which grows by the day as a matter of fact I sometimes find it hard to breathe, nobody knws dis except my self and few close frnds, my state of health is going worse by d day because of the absence of dis guy in my life, I was thinking of proving my innocence to every false accusations made against me, about d promiscuity tin, am still a virgin so I can go to d test and show dem dat am not wat dey think I am, abt the python stuff I was lyk we should go meet another true man of God who Ll pray for me, and come nd see his mum nd tell him d truth cos am not a python or wateva she meant its obvious d prophet is a false one, but here my bf said if I do all dis I ll b forcing myself into d family...pls wat should I do...am confused, am scared, pls advice

zaragal:
Help nairalanders my relatnship is crumbling, my bf's mother is against me, she detest me with a great rancour because am from akwa ibom stare she has d mind set dat we re bad pple, we re promiscuous, we re cheats and all, she has always been against sometimes she often tell my bf dat I don't greet her wen I pass on d road and Dats not true I didn't even catch sight of her @ all, because of dis ongoing hatred for me and fear dat my bf loves me a nd is bent on marrying me she called my bf dat she went to see a prophet abt us dat d prophet said I was lyk a python, a pretender, I want to destroy my bf life, I want to strangle and swallow him....my bf hide dis from me for lyk a month until I pestered him to tell me, he himself has neva been comfortable keeping secrets away from me so he did, d mother is so much against me she is warning her son, me on d other hand am not a pretender heaven knows I hav no harm against my bf as a matter of fact I love him so much our religious background re quit opposite, am a born deeper life member, while his mum attends christ embassy, such diabolic prophecy against me is getting really sick and it's crumbling our relationship now my bf has quit, I don't want to beg for love tho but honestly my life without dis guy is like am breathing and not living...am not Ok @ all, I cry everyday I feel terrible pains in my chest which grows by the day as a matter of fact I sometimes find it hard to breathe, nobody knws dis except my self and few close frnds, my state of health is going worse by d day because of the absence of dis guy in my life, I was thinking of proving my innocence to every false accusations made against me, about d promiscuity tin, am still a virgin so I can go to d test and show dem dat am not wat dey think I am, abt the python stuff I was lyk we should go meet another true man of God who Ll pray for me, and come nd see his mum nd tell him d truth cos am not a python or wateva she meant its obvious d prophet is a false one, but here my bf said if I do all dis I ll b forcing myself into d family...pls wat should I do...am confused, am scared, pls advice

MrCork:


...hangon...u want usto hep u coz u hate yor boy friend mum coz she from Akum bong??.....ok..we are confused.

...Are u light skin?

zaragal:


Try reading the post again!!!

recentelder:
Your life without your bf......., is an idol that must b removed frm you heart if you really want breakthru. Pray n fast and allow God to perfect it

Afrok:
Mtchew.... He is still ur boyfriend and not even a fiance, so why are U boiling? Abeg free the guy if his mother won't bow. Believe me, "it's better to marry a bad man than to have a wicked in-law (mother)". One man's food is another man's poison and vice versa.

If ur behaviour and ur boyfriend can't convince his mother otherwise about U, I think it's better U leave d guy coz there are indications that he'll succumb to pressures from his mum.

zaragal:


Try reading the post again!!!

Tantidora:


so u want her force the guy's mum to love her ?
The guy himself do not love her. His mum "prophecy" was just a perfect excuse for him to call it quit.
Op dnt force urself into a family th@ does not want u in the 1st place.
(obsertion is not love)
Believe me u wil get over this

MrCork:


...hangon...u want usto hep u coz u hate yor boy friend mum coz she from Akum bong??.....ok..we are confused.

...Are u light skin?

ritababe:


breakingup with the guy is the last option, i guess she knows that thats why she came here for advice.

SHE NEEDS OPTIONS BEFORE GOING FOR THE LAST OPTION.