Why do most girls mind go dirty when you greet them nicely or talk to them like a gentleman?

I had an encounter with a very pretty girl recently and it marvelled me. This girl was one of those corporate sales girls who was working in the evenings in my community. It was a promotional activity they were carring out for a company and part of the requirement was the provision of the customer's name and phone number; according to her for record purposes. I humbly obliged by giving her the information as requested.

The next day after a hard days work (a Friday) I stopped by at where she was carring out her duties to cool off before getting home. She saw me came in with a different car.

She approached me with an intimidating smile and asked me whether both cars she saw me drive belongs to me. I answered in the affirmative.

She called me the next day telling me she wants to see me. I said sure I'll send my driver to pick her to my office somewhere in Ikoyi during launch hour on a Monday. so that I will listen to whatever she had to discuss with me.

She said no I should please make it the next day which was a Saturday and even suggested the hotel we were to meet, describing in detail the location of the place to me. I obliged and located the place. She was already there, dressed to kill. I was taken aback. The moment I saw her the way she was, I told her I could not stay as I was required in my office urgently. I therefore gave her enough cash and then gave her my e-mail address telling her to send me a mail on whatever subject we would have discussed If have had the time to stay.

She sent me a very sexually explicit mail. Why?

wow,if i must say thats a very shameful act.On the part of the woman,she has dehumanised herself,her intergrity as a woman.

well all the same differenet strokes for different folks.
all women are not that way ,their r still the good and disciplined ones out there.

take am easy sha,is one of those things.

It's very simple. She's a loose girl who has no qualms about using her sexuality to get what she wants. She likes you, feels you're rich, and wants to 'play' with you.

I think it is also possible that she's being encouraged to do this to secure your business for her company.

@uche Girl you took the words from my mouth.
@ Cle---- Some girls are really something else. You shouldnt even waste a second of your time thinking about her. In my humble opinion she is not even worth the thread and dont be surprised. There are many of them out there. the only difference is that they bear different names

lol. good answer uche....

as for the gurl, she wants to enjoy life..............
some r just greedy. what is wrong with gurls and rides.

@twinkledew. I wish i knew o

She's a golddigger. Leave her alone. Don't let her discourage you from meeting other girls though. Bahh seriously, you were also loose. You met her and decided to discuss [i]business [/i]at a hotel?

Duhh.... Like u didn't know what u were going to meet. Besides, u sent a car to pick her up.. if it's business she wants to do, she'll take her office car and come meet you. Haha.. this is hilarious. Anyways i no blame the girl jo. She see u come with two diff cars, and also agreed to meet at a hotel.. She prolly thought u knew what she wanted.

And ermm.. you're nice ooo, you gave her money after she seduced you. Can i have some money too.. Sugar-pie, honey, can we meet at a hotel beside my house? Ohh.. don't forget to send your driver to pick me up.

hot- angel, I like what you said about me being loose. May be; It seems I took things for granted. I've come across girls such as this several times. But this one went the extra mile. I keep to my word on promises no mater what it takes. I fulfill my promises whether it is a mistaken promise or an intentional promise. Anyway Lagbaja nothing for you!!!!.

Nothing for her ke? U already gave her money. Anyways be careful with girls like her.

Thanks girlie, you are truly hot-angel. I'll keep this advise in my achieves for future references.

u r welcome.

guy u don pack up,big time pack up...that kind of thing happened 2 u and u are here feelin very holy wit urself..a lot of guys come on to gurls who arent interested in them in worse ways...look, in the states,..if a gurl likes a guy she can let him know..in not so many words...u see a gurl like that,who likes u and u run...cleptus..or wats ur name...u don pack up big time...

Man, in the States it might be deferent. Here on my own little portion of Planet Earth, if a girl does what she did, she is considered loose or wayward. Holiness does not come in here because I, as well as other guys might have played our own part of the opposite of that word. In our culture, Guys are suppose to be the ones doing the courting, not the other way round. But if it happens to be the girl doing it , it must be done in a very decent manner. If not it is called immorality. How can one vouch for such girls with STDs all about town?

Man, it is not every man that goes gaga seeing a lady half naked or completely nude. Sorry to say that but some of us still believe our ladies deserve some level of respect and should not be taken for granted (maybe) because of economic hardship or pure greed.

What the @*@#$$? Fain sissy dey shase u, n u run comot? U com even drop doe for am. Kai, ole boi, u fall my hand no bi small.

Man, it is not every man that goes gaga seeing a lady half naked or completely nude. Sorry to say that but some of us still believe our ladies deserve some level of respect and should not be taken for granted (maybe) because of economic hardship or pure greed.



@cletus

men i really respect ya opinion.

sounds interesting

guy u don pack up,big time pack up...that kind of thing happened 2 u and u are here feelin very holy wit yourself..a lot of guys come on to girls who arent interested in them in worse ways...look, in the states,..if a girl likes a guy she can let him know..in not so many words...u see a girl like that,who likes u and u run...cleptus..or wats your name...u don pack up big time...


you made my point, A gurl likes you and you are acting like a 40 yr old vigin who is been seduced for the first tyme. I dont think such an opportunity would pass me by.

one more thing why give her money if you dont like her or think she is a gold digger

Damn..The babe know what she doin--she probaly lookin for a bobo to pay her bills or so--Next thing u know--ur left in the hotel butt ass naked--babe don rob u for errythin and bounce--WOMAN ARE EVIL I TELL YA..lol..well not all

@cletuskpelle--can we see the email--

U don Bleep up, U suppose use ur opportunity..... na ppl like this go dey hunt after the girl when she don go marry ur brother for future........

abi, how una see am

err first of all the moment i changed pages i forgot ur name

anyway, yeah u are quite silly if u expect us to sit here and honestlhy believe tht u had no clue what this girl was up to u definately deserve her. first of all giving her money and ur email big mistake. look act like an adult dont put urself in positions that u feel uncomfortable about, and be a man, stand up to her tell her u are not interested, DO NOT GIVE HER MONEY BECAUSE U ARE JUST FUELING HER STUPIDITY, and fueling ur ego as well. anyway keep acting like a puppy, when girls say bingo come u come. u have to be smart my friend and we no I feel no sympathy for ur silliness.

@Katherinae,
U r a really harsh girl without even the smallest iota of rapport.
Mcyoh of spb

@Katherinae
Haba take am easy on the guy.

@ topic i think you knew what you were getting your self into right from the word go!, i mean come on now!.
a girl is coming unto you and you had no idea of what she wanted?
seriously it don't take too much to put 1 and 2 together!

i guess you were just playing big boy aka Mr nice! i guess you learnt your lesson, not all gals are gold diggers like the aforementioned girl though , the girl was plainly greedy.

u shouldn't be surpirsed cos am sure u knew wat she wanted from the get go.

i agree wiht u ikamefa, finally someone wit some sense, whenever guys want to be friends wiht me i say no, because next thing u know they are in love wiht u and i wont be teh air head who goes oh no i had no idea lets be friends. as for u mathways i have nothing to say to u, its not about being harsh, i have two brothers who girls are constantly hunting so i have a lot of experience in telling guys to be smart and not get them selves in compromising situations. whenver i loose another guy friend becasue of his silly feelings towards me, i have learnt not to feel sorry about it. i had to learn to be smart there is nothing wrong with being flattered if an opposite sex likes u, but if u feel no feelings towards her then dont give her money seriously. next thing u know u will slip and mistakenly fall in to bed with her, and hurt her feelings, because intitially u never had feelings for her, so my dear leave her alone, and be smart.

bye the way mathway u sound like u have been in this situation, hence y u support him

she only want your money,stay away from her.

Absolutely no issue here.
The girl just met the wrong guy or rather, you met the wrong girl.

Wonder if you know what some men would do to be in your shoes.

@katherinae
kudos kath,don't mind those criticizers,dem yab because she(plezant)has never got such chance.
But let me ask oo!?how sure are we to know that cletuskpella no commit something bad with that harlot.how can he spend his time to give the mammon huge sum of cash and after which email address follows,just like that,no peck,no touching body,nothing nothing,no be say i dey insinuate something but, check am noow.

Dude, you want to know why she sent you a sexually explicit mail Ain't that obvious ? It's because you were playing daft Did you seriously not know what she was up to from the start First the killer smile, then the other body language and then an invitation to discuss "business" in a hotel on a saturday Common guy, you knew exactly what was coming to you from the first moment. Abeg no come fool us into believing that you're surprised about your encounter , and I bet you enjoyed every moment of it

why are you guys looking at the girl in one angle only, or dont you think she can do it for the quot below?

I think it is also possible that she's being encouraged to do this to secure your business for her company

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If it was not for the money and things you got she would not like you.There are millions of men in Lagos, but very few gentlemen like Cletus.Let it not be construed that leopard's calmness is cowardice. I had been in that kind of situation.