sukkot:
what is FMCG ?

Mayosky15754:


You see ur life?

jmoore:

Ewu gambia!!

tosyne2much:
What kind of silly replies am I seeing up there ? Is it that people lack question answering skill or what ?

Did the OP complain about the money ? He only said "does courtesy demand he gives her T-fare for every visit "

OP, it's not a bad idea giving t-fare each time she comes, it will only be a silly thing if she thinks it is mandatory you pay for every visit

Financial pressure shouldnt be one sided.. Both sides have something to lose in a relationship. Any lady who is not ready to lose in terms of finance has no business being in a relationship

speaktogen:
I luv ur maturity! *no homo*

Oluwatosean:
if nah u invite ha(yes), if she cum on ha own(nope)

DDeliverer:
Nwanne, you are taking stinginess to a whole new level..

Dalu.

Samsonklin:

Real niqqa talking. Thumbsup man

DDeliverer:
Nwanne, you are taking stinginess to a whole new level..

Dalu.

tosyne2much:
What kind of silly replies am I seeing up there ? Is it that people lack question answering skill or what ?

Did the OP complain about the money ? He only said "does courtesy demand he gives her T-fare for every visit "

OP, it's not a bad idea giving t-fare each time she comes, it will only be a silly thing if she thinks it is mandatory you pay for every visit

Financial pressure shouldnt be one sided.. Both sides have something to lose in a relationship. Any lady who is not ready to lose in terms of finance has no business being in a relationship

sexyseun:
The OP isn't worried about giving the girl the TF, he is only concerned that the TF is just 150 naira which the girl should be able to have "sometimes" @ OP: Dont give her TF all the time, if she sends you a bad sms next time, gladly know she is only after your money, because i know you wont give her exactly 150 when she visits, it might be 1000 or 2000. Girls should sometimes learn to be independent naaaa!!!!

ideology:


Some guys are funny though.
they think supporting ladies all the time makes them likable better still nice guys or gentlemen.

In fact most of these dudes are bad guys, trying to attract ladies by supporting everything they do.

If I may say, guys are the ones spoiling ladies, by making them feel that is the way and Its their right to get anything they want, all guys need to do is to say "yes " to them.

In the OP's case the girl is thinking it's her right maybe because that appears to be the norm or because Op has been doing it all along.

Sometimes I marvel at the mentality/views of some folks on relationship matters. What is the role of a lady in relationships?? is it just to be a receiver??
What is 150 that she couldn't pay for herself if she's really loves the guy!!

back in university days, some ladies would say that they want to visit me, well, i'll reply my door is open, they could visit but Let me know when they are coming. Guess what, they will say that they are not coming till I invite them. I just told them that I don't invite people to visit me, because I don't get invited when I visit others including them, I visit because I care. I tell you none of them visited me till I graduated. that showed you the mindset of some ladies, probably because that's how They have been treated all along, they now feel its the norm or their right.

Even during NYSC, my no is no, a lady once said if not that She knew me she would call me gay because I don't give a damn, I can be jovial and nice but when it comes to serious issues I stick to my stand.

@ochilikoko, if you invited her, sorry bro you should at least appreciate for for coming, better still if you want to see her visit her, or she wants to see you let her visit you on her own.

ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

tosyne2much:
May God bless you bro

I don't know why dudes here try as much as possible to hide the truth and start spewing poo just to portray an attractive person in the sight of the ladies.. There's a trending topic in the section titled" Why is gold digging more of a woman thing and I was amazed at the comments I saw.. A dude was just blabbing even when the truth is staring at him. That's one thing I will never do. Let any lady who wants to hate me for the truth hate me

Ladies should also be able to contribute in relationship rather than mounting financial pressure on the dude. However, I don't keep friends who are not ready to lose, so why would there be an exception to the ladies ? I've got friends in school who are not ready to lose one naira even as we call ourselves friend. They visit when they feel you will fill their stomach when they come visiting

DjHypno:
That's why I hate some Naija girls... I've got one that each time she comes over, there's always a nag when she calls that she's now home. She actually takes a bike of #200 to and fro and I do give her #1000 for Tfare, still this biatch will still complain that it's too small, "don't you think I'm bigger than 1k".
What do we call this kind of girl nairalanders? Her matter tire me.

brito:




Lolz,

DDeliverer:
Nwanne, you are taking stinginess to a whole new level..

Dalu.

ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

sexylogan:
Haba, you are angry over N150?
Bro, you stingy die oh...

stagger:
This OP man. You think you have started to spend. Wait until you get married. Then you will know the meaning of the word spending. You get luck sef say na provocative text she send you. Wait until your wife seizes your car keys or locks the door and puts the key where you can't find it. You will beg for mercy that day. Women are powerful o. No joke with them.

ideology:

She obviously had money in mind while coming, its business. She invested 200 wants to make profits.

Hehehe,

DjHypno:
Lol... Still got me laughing....

holatin:
Hmmmmmn
Must you pay tithe every Sunday ?