zizman:
is it compulsory? where did this tradition originate from? if the world is calling for gender equality why must
this be so? doesn't this make a lady look like a "property" of her man? what are your thoughts ?

mkpakanaodogwu:
Is it a must for a man to pay bride price of a lady?

Elantracey:
hmmmm I need to know too .

Evina:
All these gender equality talks!

The westerners who introduced the subject, take on their husbands name. Do you have more money, success and fame than Beyonce? Who proudly calls herself Mrs carter on her tours?

The females in under developed countries who don't fully grasp the subject, are causing problems for themselves.

Property of a man, what is wrong in being his property? So long as that property is not being misused or abused, kini big deal?

zizman:
is it compulsory? where did this tradition originate from? if the world is calling for gender equality why must
this be so? doesn't this make a lady look like a "property" of her man? what are your thoughts ?

FrancisTony:

Every woman is subjected to her own opinion. They don't need to dwell on Beyonce's own.

Yes! Beyonce doesn't have a problem answering Mrs. Carter.

Chimamanda Adichie and Joke Silva own differs.
Omotola decided to hyphenate her own even though her career hasn't blossomed before she got married.
Different strokes for different folks.

By the way, Is Beyonce really a role model.

mkpakanaodogwu:
Is it a must for a man to pay bride price of a lady?

FrancisTony:

Every woman is subjected to her own opinion. They don't need to dwell on Beyonce's own.

Yes! Beyonce doesn't have a problem answering Mrs. Carter.

Chimamanda Adichie and Joke Silva own differs.
Omotola decided to hyphenate her own even though her career hasn't blossomed before she got married.
Different strokes for different folks.

By the way, Is Beyonce really a role model.

adebisicutie:


Very shallow girl, don't mind her. Is Beyonce now the standard for how women should live their lives who's talking about money, typical Nigerians always thinking everything is about money. It's a western tradition to change to the husbands surname so if anyone decides not to follow that tradition that's their prerogative as long as the 2 parties are okay with with. Even a Muslim had told me it's the same in Islam, it's very myopic to think everyone must follow some tradition that is even foreign . Chimamanda Adichie is not any less married than those who choose to change to their husband's surname

iykedare:


All These hungry feminists sef? Any woman who feels so big to use the husband 's name should simply stay unmarried.

Chimamanda ,of a sudden, has become a role model to These frustrated single women. It shall be well with you all.

adebisicutie:


Very shallow girl, don't mind her. Is Beyonce now the standard for how women should live their lives who's talking about money, typical Nigerians always thinking everything is about money. It's a western tradition to change to the husbands surname so if anyone decides not to follow that tradition that's their prerogative as long as the 2 parties are okay with with. Chimamanda Adichie is not any less married than those who choose to change to their husband's surname

FrancisTony:

1) I'm a male.

2) Chimamanda is a role model to both single and married.
...just so you don't know, Chimamanda is married to Dr. Ivara Isege.

Evina:
All these gender equality talks!

The westerners who introduced the subject, take on their husbands name. Do you have more money, success and fame than Beyonce? Who proudly calls herself Mrs carter on her tours?

The females in under developed countries who don't fully grasp the subject, are causing problems for themselves.

Property of a man, what is wrong in being his property? So long as that property is not being misused or abused, kini big deal?

adebisicutie:


Why are you even bothering to reply someone who says Beyonce is more of a role model than Chimamanda Adichie how many African men can survive if their wives decide to emulate Beyonce? The same people who are always ranting about what Tiwa is wearing as a married woman is telling us a woman who's career is centered around seduction and dressing scantily even as a mother and wife is who African women should use as a role model very confused fellow.

Beyoncé has taken her husbands name so therefore Beyonce is the role model married women should have regardless of everything else she does or stands for whereas Chimamanda Adichie who lives a decent life, dresses modestly and such is now a bad role model because she didn't take her husbands surname.

Dude is a joke

Evina:


Property of a man, what is wrong in being his property??

adebisicutie:
Nigerian women the joker above says this should be your model

Instead of Chimamanda Adichie who is a well educated and well dressed woman who is proud to wear her natural hair and has not whitened her skin

cococandy:

Accept my sympathy. Congratulations.