MzNelly:
"Woo" in this context means walking up to a guy and asking him to be more than a friend to you. Like.... "Will you be my boyfriend?"

Now, why shouldn't you do that? Read on:

1. It's a man's world. Let HIM do the "chyking."

2. His respect for you will decrease, even if it's just a LITTLE, trust me.

3. There's a 99.9% chance he'll turn you down.

4. If he doesn't turn you down, he won't take you seriously.

5. If he does turn you down, his friends will hear about it. Get ready to be labelled all sorts of names.

6. His ego will feel bruised. He's a man. All men like to feel on top of every situation.

7. There are tons of guys who'd ask you out. Must you do that to yourself?

8. If you send him signals and he doesn't pick up on the hints, HE'S NOT INTO YOU.

9. Ignore these feminists. You and a man don't share any equal rights. Pfft.

10. It's Biblically wrong. You doubt? ---Genesis 3:16

"Woo" him at your own risk.

@No. 10, only when it suits women, that's when they will remember the BIBLE... @ No. 1, women (most) argue that it isn't a man's world.... They (women) run the world.

MzNelly:


They regret it and it's something they won't ever do again.

Hmmmmmm... But your signature is some how contradicting this your topic.

Lady that's your own business opinion , I have lot of ladies make the first move. Not that they that walk up to me straight up but they do it in steps and most of them we had great relationship and am even friends with many of them even if we are not together.... They trust me that's is enough. I can even lay down my life to protect ones trust

SeverusSnape:

Hmmmmmm... But your signature is some how contradicting this your topic.

I didn't say woo him, did I?
I said FIND HIM; and when you do, drop your hints.
If he doesn't take 'em.....you know what to do.

Blakjewelry:
Lady that's your own business opinion , I have lot of ladies make the first move. Not that they that walk up to me straight up but they do it in steps and most of them we had great relationship and am even friends with many of them even if we are not together.... They trust me that's is enough. I can even lay down my life to protect ones trust

If you at least went through my write up, you'd understand that I'm not against women "doing it in steps."

It is the "toasting" part I am castigating.
You dig?

passionate88:
@No. 10, only when it suits women, that's when they will remember the BIBLE... @ No. 1, women (most) argue that it isn't a man's world.... They (women) run the world.

You said it yourself. Most women.

Wetin consign me on top their matter?

MzNelly:


I didn't say woo him, did I?
I said FIND HIM; and when you do, drop your hints.
If he doesn't take 'em.....you know what to do.

Well, It's almost the same thing.

MzNelly:


I didn't say woo him, did I?
I said FIND HIM; and when you do, drop your hints.
If he doesn't take 'em.....you know what to do.

yaaga,,,,,GREENLIGHT z much more preferable

SeverusSnape:

Well, It's almost the same thing.

It's not, Sir. There's a VERY CLEAR difference.

Don't stick your tongue out at me.

MzNelly:


It's not, Sir. There's a VERY CLEAR difference.

Don't stick your tongue out at me.

Hey!... It's just an icon!
BTW, there's not a "VERY CLEAR" difference

MzNelly:


If you at least went through my write up, you'd understand that I'm not against women "doing it in steps."

It is the "toasting" part I am castigating.
You dig?

You are right about the toasting part, if a girl approach me directly without green light, I had been scared shirtless, I guess we guys are hardwire differently. But I like guuls with the bolls....... Lol

SeverusSnape:

Hey!... It's just an icon!
BTW, there's not a "VERY CLEAR" difference

Are you Albus Snape?

There is a clear difference. Should I explain this?

MzNelly:


Are you Albus Snape?

There is a clear difference. Should I explain this?

No, I'm Severus

I can explain my self, Like I said, they're almost the same in the sense that; the wooing is verbal while the "hints" are more of body languages and behaviors toward the guy. The both have same objective, So She's doing the same thing in different ways.

SeverusSnape:

No, I'm Severus

I can explain my self, Like I said, they're almost the same in the sense that; the wooing is verbal while the "hints" are more of body languages and behaviors toward the guy. The both have same objective, So She's doing the same thing in different ways.

Have you ever answered Albus Snape?

They have the same objective but they're going about in different ways.

Reason being that the "verbal wooing" is of more consequence than dropping hints.

Am I making any sense?

I won't advise any lady to woo a guy. I once tried it ,( he led me on sha) it didn't go well. we are still friends, but there is a crack. I can't bring myself to look him in the face out of shame. to worsen the whole thing, he fell in love with a friend I introduced to him.

Craziest thing have ever done.

MzNelly:


Have you ever answered Albus Snape?

They have the same objective but they're going about in different ways.

Reason being that the "verbal wooing" is of more consequence than dropping hints.

Am I making any sense?

Hmmmmmm
Yes, you're making sense
I rest my case for peace to reign

MzNelly:


Have you ever answered Albus Snape?

They have the same objective but they're going about in different ways.

Reason being that the "verbal wooing" is of more consequence than dropping hints.

Am I making any sense?

Hmmmmmm
Yes, you're making sense
I rest my case for peace to reign

Adaobi12:
I won't advise any lady to woo a guy. I once tried it ,( he led me on sha) it didn't go well. we are still friends, but there is a crack. I can't bring myself to look him in the face out of shame. to worsen the whole thing, he fell in love with a friend I introduced to him.

Craziest thing have ever done.

Ehya
Hope you're good now, tho?

Let these ladies learn from experience.

Adaobi12:
I won't advise any lady to woo a guy. I once tried it ,( he led me on sha) it didn't go well. we are still friends, but there is a crack. I can't bring myself to look him in the face out of shame. to worsen the whole thing, he fell in love with a friend I introduced to him.

Craziest thing have ever done.

chai ndo

SeverusSnape:

Hmmmmmm
Yes, you're making sense
I rest my case for peace to reign

We were never at war.

Would you at least tell me if you've ever answered Albus?

Op you are right.
Wise ladies don't woo guys. They relax and enjoy the thrills of being wooed.
Reason is because, while a guy would graciously endure the pains of being rejected, most girls would take rejection to an often deadly extent.
So, ladies wait while the guys do the ' toasting' to avoid stories that touch.

Adaobi12:
I won't advise any lady to woo a guy. I once tried it ,( he led me on sha) it didn't go well. we are still friends, but there is a crack. I can't bring myself to look him in the face out of shame. to worsen the whole thing, he fell in love with a friend I introduced to him.

Craziest thing have ever done.

chooiii,,,,,well d beauty of such tins happening z dat d lesson z well learned.1nce beaten,twice shy.

donpeey22:
Op you are right.
Wise ladies don't woo guys. They relax and enjoy the thrills of being wooed.
Reason is because, while a guy would graciously endure the pains of being rejected, most girls would take rejection to an often deadly extent.
So, ladies wait while the guys do the ' toasting' to avoid stories that touch.

on point

chimerase2:
chai ndo

. chime ndo nke gikwa

So on point.
I cant even try it,i wl rather die in silence..
I smell fp

Adaobi12:
. chime ndo nke gikwa

oya we need to talk is urgent

MzNelly:


We were never at war.

Would you at least tell me if you've ever answered Albus?

No, I've not.

it is very dangerous to woo a guy directly. Just try and get his attention. Get him to like u if d feeling is mutual it will work out and if it is not better leave him alone
@op you are very correct

feminists and their sympathizers everywhere saying worthless nonsense.......personally speaking and generally summarizing..... it's not in a woman's place to woo a guy.....i have had ladies who got so attracted to me that they lost their sense of proportion and walked up to blab about whatever thing they felt for me.......guess what? i always turned them down and told my pals how desperate these ladies are about me.......very good way to bully a lady and undermine her pride and dignity....let the guy do the wooing....yours is to flash him some green lights ........anything further than this and you would be seen as one who is 'too desperate to get laid'

alexis007:
feminists and their sympathizers everywhere saying worthless nonsense.......personally speaking and generally summarizing..... it's not in a woman's place to woo a guy.....i have had ladies who got so attracted to me that they lost their sense of proportion and walked up to blab about whatever thing they felt for me.......guess what? i always turned them down and told my pals how desperate these ladies are about me.......very good way to bully a lady and undermine her pride and dignity....let the guy do the wooing....yours is to flash him some green lights ........anything further than this and you would be seen as one who is 'too desperate to get laid'

You're so correct I could cry.

Where are the feminists na....

Some people are out here just to spoil others people's market

MzNelly:


You're so correct I could cry.

don't mind those who think you came up with this kinda post cus you have a third world mentality. the day a Lady who has had the privilege to come across your post defies it by making the first move and wooing a guy in direct terms..... that day she would understand that naija isn't America