Recently I was reading an article where there was this man who was being beaten by his wife
and when asked he said he was not sat on
while his neighbours say his phone is always checked by the wife and
spends his holidays at the wifes home place
and the children only love the wife;s relatives
Men can be good to sit on. sure and the way they swear they are not sat on

if we are talking about European women sitting on their husbands, then YES
but in this case is about Nigerian women sitting on their husbands, then NO
because not all Nigerian men know what the word ROMANCE means.

no I meant Nigerian women control their men
and even beat them up

i dont know where u got your facts from but from what i have seen so far, it is the other way round. some or most naija men no dey take shiit like that ooo. its only few that can be submissive to their women not those like me that dont take ish from them.

Well, as far as Nigeria is concerned, a typical nigerian family has the man as the head and the everything of the family.
as for the man that allows his wife to beat him, he'd better wake up now

If you see any Nigerian woman controlling her Husband. DON'T BLAME HER.

You know why? It means she's finaly stopped being a PUSH OVER. Her husband must have shown her PEPPER, and now she's taking over, Telling him "NO". No more push overs.

Majority of the Nigerian woman that 'sit' on her husbands, arent doing it because they are mean. They are just in the 'pay back' time.

To an extent of beating your husband?
am not surprised.
men are so easy to control though here they will swear no woman control
them when they are hen pecked

No way under18, itz not as easy as it sounds
maybe it happens somewhere else but itz very rare in nigeria, except if the woman is using charm (jazz) on the man.

anyway you won't understand coz you're under 18

Its surprising how u all scream abuse women are at the receiving end and men desrve it when they are on the receiving end.
Ladies u cant eat your cake and have it

@ topic
Dont beleive it is common.

Cant happen. If it does, it s just here and there.
Not a very common thing.
Na big disgrace to the guy concerned, imagine, being
beaten by ur wife Sacrilage!

Have guys considered maybe the guy is only being a gentleman- "Wont hit his wife?". The wife on the other may just be riding on this fact!

Women must not beat their husbands, and men must not beat their wives. So there's nothing to discuss here.