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Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 10:35pm On Jan 03, 2015
We av all gone through breakups at some point in our lives, a lot of people av bin able to get their broken pieces together and forged ahead whilst others still wallow in d pain of hrtbreak. There are a lot of remedies we come across in books such as not being alone,not singing emotional songs,not doing d fins u guys used to do etc, to me I wud jst simply put it dat those fins are beta said dan done. One would ask y I said dat, yes I wud answer u.....different strokes for different folks is d simple answer, people differ, d way I might act towards sumfin might not b d way u wud react towards dat same fin!
Anyways to cut the long story short, I want us to discuss practical examples of how we have handled our hrtbrks and forgotten our ex..... for me I want to learn from pple cus I haven't bin able to get past my ex and it's annoying.
So pple let's discuss,interact and learn!
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by LuckyLadolce(m): 10:43pm On Jan 03, 2015
I deleted every of her contacts on my fone. Buh now we r back again grin
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 10:46pm On Jan 03, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
I deleted every of her contacts on my fone. Buh now we r back again grin

Awww u lucky, I deleted all contacts from my fon as well now Bt d funny fin is dat I have his numb stuck in my head so to me it's of no use deleting contact.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by DesperateGuy(m): 10:51pm On Jan 03, 2015
U cnt forget ur ex, its d price u pay for once loving them. We jus try our best to accept the situation at hand and move on with our life.

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Re: Getting Past Your Ex by beautycrush24(f): 11:02pm On Jan 03, 2015
KissQ:
We av all gone through breakups at some point in our lives, a lot of people av bin able to get their broken pieces together and forged ahead whilst others still wallow in d pain of hrtbreak. There are a lot of remedies we come across in books such as not being alone,not singing emotional songs,not doing d fins u guys used to do etc, to me I wud jst simply put it dat those fins are beta said dan done. One would ask y I said dat, yes I wud answer u.....different strokes for different folks is d simple answer, people differ, d way I might act towards sumfin might not b d way u wud react towards dat same fin!
Anyways to cut the long story short, I want us to discuss practical examples of how we have handled our hrtbrks and forgotten our ex..... for me I want to learn from pple cus I haven't bin able to get past my ex and it's annoying.
So pple let's discuss,interact and learn!
I didnt have to do anything. He banged my besty and d stupid feelings disappeared
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by LuckyLadolce(m): 11:09pm On Jan 03, 2015
KissQ:


Awww u lucky, I deleted all contacts from my fon as well now Bt d funny fin is dat I have his numb stuck in my head so to me it's of no use deleting contact.
hmmm. Buh do u still love and want him back? If yes.. pray hard u will get him back if ur love is genuine. Believe me.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:10pm On Jan 03, 2015
beautycrush24:

I didnt have to do anything. He banged my besty and d stupid feelings disappeared

R u kidding me...some guys sha smh
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:11pm On Jan 03, 2015
DesperateGuy:
U cnt forget ur ex, its d price u pay for once loving them. We jus try our best to accept the situation at hand and move on with our life.

Hmmm I fink I agree wif u!
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:14pm On Jan 03, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
hmmm. Buh do u still love and want him back? If yes.. pray hard u will get him back if ur love is genuine. Believe me.

Sure I still love n want him back,bt I dnt want to build castles in d air, wat if he doesn't eventually cum bk, dnt u fink it's beta to jst move on?
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by beautycrush24(f): 11:16pm On Jan 03, 2015
KissQ:


R u kidding me...some guys sha smh
No kidding babe. But i was more disappointed in the girl.
Back to u, i think getting over an ex you were crazy about is almost impossible. You just have to make a firm decision to learn to live without them.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Newkidoo(m): 11:17pm On Jan 03, 2015
Better way of getting past exes is self love.. Immerse yourself in yourself.. I tried it.. It works..

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Re: Getting Past Your Ex by LuckyLadolce(m): 11:20pm On Jan 03, 2015
KissQ:


Sure I still love n want him back,bt I dnt want to build castles in d air, wat if he doesn't eventually cum bk, dnt u fink it's beta to jst move on?
its better to move on though.. buh remember devil doesn't want what is gud for u to stay. Thus, u av to fight back too by praying hard. Then if he doesn't come back. I believe u will still be fine.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:23pm On Jan 03, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
its better to move on though.. buh remember devil doesn't want what is gud for u to stay. Thus, u av to fight back too by praying hard. Then if he doesn't come back. I believe u will still be fine.

Fnkz though
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:27pm On Jan 03, 2015
beautycrush24:

No kidding babe. But i was more disappointed in the girl.
Back to u, i think getting over an ex you were crazy about is almost impossible. You just have to make a firm decision to learn to live without them.

Am actually trying very hard on this 1 bt mehn according to u it's almost impossible, sometimes I jst feel like calling him,other tyms I feel like adding him bk on bbm and most of my fwends who dnt knw we broke up already still ask me abt him n I pretend n tell dem he's fyn, dats wen it even hits me d more... am jst tired sha, bt darris God
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Tymax(m): 11:37pm On Jan 03, 2015
beautycrush24:

I didnt have to do anything. He banged my besty and d stupid feelings disappeared
Eeya. She just had to seduce the poor guy.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:40pm On Jan 03, 2015
Tymax:

Eeya. She just had to seduce the poor guy.

Lol! And d poor guy didn't av wat is called self control ryt?

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Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Tymax(m): 11:43pm On Jan 03, 2015
KissQ:


Lol! And d poor guy didn't av wat is called self control ryt?
Hmmm it may be spiritual...you know.

D tin wey guys eyes don see for dis life ehn. sad
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 11:49pm On Jan 03, 2015
Tymax:

Hmmm it may be spiritual...you know.

D tin wey guys eyes don see for dis life ehn. sad

Lol...such no b only spiritual na mental! Wetin guys don see, tell me
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by LuckyLadolce(m): 12:03am On Jan 04, 2015
KissQ:


Fnkz though
uwc my dear. All the best
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Tymax(m): 12:03am On Jan 04, 2015
KissQ:


Lol...such no b only spiritual na mental! Wetin guys don see, tell me
See ehn, to be a man is not beans. Everyday you go out to work and you see ladies "dressed to kill" somebody. Why? You wan buy something for shoprite you will see them there as well, looking "dangerous". Even church sef. Make I no talk campus own. lipsrsealed

Imagine these scenarios happening everyday for a year- that's a whole 365 days! Haba, we try.

One more thing: I'm not trying to endorse infidelity... grin

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Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Jamean(f): 12:13am On Jan 04, 2015
KissQ.... Mi yerhuwe grin
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Lisaflex(f): 4:12am On Jan 04, 2015
Tymax:



One more thing: I'm not trying to endorse infidelity... grin
was beginning 2 wonder wot u wer getting at wt d whole defense tn
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by beautycrush24(f): 6:30am On Jan 04, 2015
KissQ:


Am actually trying very hard on this 1 bt mehn according to u it's almost impossible, sometimes I jst feel like calling him,other tyms I feel like adding him bk on bbm and most of my fwends who dnt knw we broke up already still ask me abt him n I pretend n tell dem he's fyn, dats wen it even hits me d more... am jst tired sha, bt darris God
if its something you can still sort out, then go ahead without blinking. Do not allow pride get in d way. But if its not 'sortable' then there's no need hiding it from friends. Let them know its over. With time you'll get used to his absence.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by Tymax(m): 8:05am On Jan 04, 2015
Lisaflex:

was beginning 2 wonder wot u wer getting at wt d whole defense tn
grin wink Just wanted to show that guys are human beings too. We are not perfect and thus can be manipulated.
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 8:36am On Jan 04, 2015
beautycrush24:

if its something you can still sort out, then go ahead without blinking. Do not allow pride get in d way. But if its not 'sortable' then there's no need hiding it from friends. Let them know its over. With time you'll get used to his absence.

Aii, fnkz
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 8:37am On Jan 04, 2015
Jamean:
KissQ.... Mi yerhuwe grin

Niovo mi yonre, mavo na

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Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 8:38am On Jan 04, 2015
Tymax:

See ehn, to be a man is not beans. Everyday you go out to work and you see ladies "dressed to kill" somebody. Why? You wan buy something for shoprite you will see them there as well, looking "dangerous". Even church sef. Make I no talk campus own. lipsrsealed

Imagine these scenarios happening everyday for a year- that's a whole 365 days! Haba, we try.

One more thing: I'm not trying to endorse infidelity... grin

Lol
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by chimerase2: 8:40am On Jan 04, 2015
She deleted me everiwia dat is deletable
But she couldn't delete de fone I bought for her cheesy
And ma number cus ma number is built inside her cheesy
But hey the both parities have moved on cheesy
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2015
Lisaflex:

was beginning 2 wonder wot u wer getting at wt d whole defense tn

Same here oo
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 12:24pm On Jan 04, 2015
chimerase2:
She deleted me everiwia dat is deletable
But she couldn't delete de fone I bought for her cheesy
And ma number cus ma number is built inside her cheesy
But hey the both parities have moved on cheesy

Hmmmmm
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by yemicoal(m): 12:27pm On Jan 04, 2015
KissQ:
We av all gone through breakups at some point in our lives, a lot of people av bin able to get their broken pieces together and forged ahead whilst others still wallow in d pain of hrtbreak. There are a lot of remedies we come across in books such as not being alone,not singing emotional songs,not doing d fins u guys used to do etc, to me I wud jst simply put it dat those fins are beta said dan done. One would ask y I said dat, yes I wud answer u.....different strokes for different folks is d simple answer, people differ, d way I might act towards sumfin might not b d way u wud react towards dat same fin!
Anyways to cut the long story short, I want us to discuss practical examples of how we have handled our hrtbrks and forgotten our ex..... for me I want to learn from pple cus I haven't bin able to get past my ex and it's annoying.
So pple let's discuss,interact and learn!
come to daddy, u will forget him n a day!
Re: Getting Past Your Ex by KissQ(f): 12:46pm On Jan 04, 2015
yemicoal:
come to daddy, u will forget him n a day!

Lol!!!! R u serz..wat can daddy do to mk me forget him grin

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