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| My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Liability(m): 10:11am On Jan 05, 2015 |
as am typing this to you guys in nairaland, i write with tears in my eye, swollen redness as a result of what i am currently experiencing. 3 years back after my O'level, i felt i have arrived, having the freedom to do what every woman dreams of doing; having a wonderful relationship, achieve her goals educational, financial, marital, sex..ual and otherwise. With this euphoric cloud that encapsulated me, i met Daniel, whom i later discovered was a blatant and a wicked liar. We dated for like 2 years, throughout that period i didnt have the opportunity to know his family. He works in Abuja and I was in Lagos. So he visited evry weeked. Things changed for me when i got pregnant for Daniel, my parents were so upset with me that they told me to show them who was responsible for my condition. Daniel admitted to it but shocked both me and my family that he cannot marry me. That he will rent a house for me, where i will stay, deliver and nurture the baby until before he will marry me. He kept his promise, iam with his baby now he is 3 months old now. But till day i have not been to his family house. Am in agony right now, my dreams have been shattered already. I spent the christmas and New year with bitterness. He didnt make enough provisions that will see me and the baby till january. Yesterday, a kind hearted man, gave my baby a christmas presents of 5 thousand naira, which i will forever be grateful to him,because then the kerosine i had had finshed and little food was left for me to cook. Everyday i cry, everyday i wish all this will end. I want to be happy again. I want to smile again. I have learnt my lessons. Never. I want to be me again, the better me. **sob** nairalanders please Advise me. |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:11am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Ok  I wil advice you to take things easy......i know is not easy, you are a still a young girl and all hopes are not lost. Am not here to criticize you but to advice you. Why the agony, your baby is supposed to be your joy, for God that has taking you this far will surely see you through. Please don't swear for the father of your child because of your experience, cos that will definitely affect your child. Just be prayer... Try and learn a handwork to enable take care of yourself, who knows you can still go back to school to fulfill your dream No man is worth dying for.... Please remove that stigma that you are suffering that people must pity you, instead put on a great face when you come outside and be happy, people will ask u*sis how you take do am, I de envy for * and the will put the enemies to shame. Stay happy and remain blessed  4 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Liability(m): 10:14am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:good morning sister |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Nobody: 10:15am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Is it the same guy that dumped you for cooking with onga?  That guy is wicked..  6 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by fnep2smooth(m): 10:15am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Sorry dear but I can't advise you till you change your name. I hate liability |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:16am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Liability:morning dear hope you slept well well |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:18am On Jan 05, 2015 |
fnep2smooth:anything for likes abi. Use your head, this is just a moniker not her name. Yeye de smell 1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by purplesummer(f): 10:20am On Jan 05, 2015 |
There's no need to keep languishing in bitterness. You are already a single mother now so you should only be thinking of what should be the way forward. Advice: Quit the bitter feeling and start planning a brand new future for yourself, your life doesn't depend ona man called daniel. Don't resign to fate. Many single mums are still making it big in the society. Good luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by mizjules(f): 10:22am On Jan 05, 2015 |
The new year new me didn't apply to many after all !3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by vizkiz: 10:23am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony: everybody knows the op as a troll 1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by fnep2smooth(m): 10:24am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:Hey lady... Am not here to exchange words I have been watching you silently and I discovered that you are a trouble maker. Pls free me.. Am not jobless like you. Go find all this woman wrapper in romance section and play with. Please. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Tallesty1(m): 10:25am On Jan 05, 2015 |
YoungWizzy. Liability. ireneony. Onila. And any moniker that has blaze in it. These are the people that I do not take serious on Nairaland. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Redoil: 10:28am On Jan 05, 2015 |
I will advice you to go back to ur parent house with the baby and forget about the igbo man called daniel. It is now a norm among our gurls to be a single mother and for ur information all the ladies above me and below me form saint are single mothers |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ChynoBEATS: 10:29am On Jan 05, 2015 |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:33am On Jan 05, 2015 |
fnep2smooth:and yet you are in romance section eating your vomits |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by free2ryhme: 10:33am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Liability: Are you writing an epistle or for your gullibles online? 2 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:35am On Jan 05, 2015 |
vizkiz:how?  |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by juianne95(f): 10:38am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:cos she's a liar-ability |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by fnep2smooth(m): 10:39am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:Lady .... I have been here even before you come across this site. Stay away from me and stop quoting me. I don't exchange words with people like you. I no be woman wrapper. Your notice me is too much .. Please I use what ever GOD you serve beg you. Free me.... Am only here to catch fun and mingle with people. Please 4 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:40am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:you don't take them serious but you were serious enough to write their names on your comment. @your dp  , that your chiko or rainbow trousers resemble mc Hammer pants 2 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by dechandel(f): 10:40am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Lie-bility i missed you 1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by vizkiz: 10:41am On Jan 05, 2015 |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:42am On Jan 05, 2015 |
fnep2smooth:blood of Jesus! Guy, you and friend ugly nor be small 1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:44am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ChynoBEATS:haha wetin I do na, abeg make Una free me jore |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by fnep2smooth(m): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:The last tin I will do is to start exchanging words with you. 1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2015 |
vizkiz:na true you talk her dp is very funny .She said she is now dating seun yet she is having baby for another man lwkmd1 Like |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:49am On Jan 05, 2015 |
fnep2smooth:guy you ugly, am just saying the truth...check my signature |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Tallesty1(m): 10:54am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:ah! my mistake. I should have said "their posts". They way unah dey take fabricate stories dey tire me walahi. Leave my trouser alone, i ain't going home yet. |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 10:57am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:go through my thread, I have never fabricated any stories |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by fnep2smooth(m): 11:03am On Jan 05, 2015 |
ireneony:I didn't see anything wrong with my look. Lady please stop fooling yourself here. Do you think this is life you are living. I don't even see any atom of a decent and attractive lady in you. Having all those like don't show you are beautiful. Live a decent life and let a brother be. Am not your type. Nairaland just de shack you as if na your papa get am. Stay cool please 5 Likes |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by ireneony(f): 11:12am On Jan 05, 2015 |
fnep2smooth:eyah am more concerned about the broken roof above your head @your dp |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Sunkyphil(m): 11:25am On Jan 05, 2015 |
COME op na every time u dey get problem ni  |
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