Kachisbarbie:


I am happy someone has good comprehension skills. Not asking me if I can marry a broke nigga, I am sure there are so many Financial status between rich/poor.

So, why is it that when people hear Love isn't all about money, the first question they ask if Can you marry a broke guy?.
There is a big difference between a broke guy and a hustling young man. Even if he is broke, ain't there instances a couple got married and doors started opening?

Yes. My siggy is exactly what I am saying. They are not mutually exclusive...love/money can actually co-exist in a relationship and vice-versa.
The problem is, when people see you marry a rich man, they say it's because of money. Forgetting that a good % of rich men wives suffer neglect.

Ab025:
@poster.....i agree with u but the actions of most Nigerian ladies speak otherwise, they find a way to link their luv to money. infact they have succeeded in scaring me to think twice whenever i start trippin nowadays....xpecially now am searching for a woman to make my wife, am now xtra-careful...

i just hope the lots change, its a new year already

CFCfan:
I'm liking karchisbarbie lately.
This thread is one of the reasons why

Aprime:


She's a smart woman.
But she tackles herself down with her threads.
Now she's says ‘go to the rich and marry for love’ then next she says ‘relationship isn't all about money’.

emusmith:


Vocabulary Emeretus!

This is One thread I will gladly read over and over again because....

It concerns guys......

I read someone's PM and it reads:...Don't fall in love for money but fall in love where money resides (paraphrased)

To be continued...

Yes, that was my siggy. If at all one should insist on dating/marrying a rich guy, be nice enough to love him too. So that when the money is lacking - there would be something to hold the relationship

People should read before commenting biko, even the title reads...Love/Relationship Isn't ALL ABOUT MONEY!. I can't remember succinctly stating either should be absent - but don't just give the lady money and feel that's all!!


NOW GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR MODIFIED POST...

Kachisbarbie:


Yes, that was my siggy. If at all one should insist on dating/marrying a rich guy, be nice enough to love him too. So that when the money is lacking - there would be something to hold the relationship

People should read before commenting biko, even the title reads...Love/Relationship Isn't ALL ABOUT MONEY!. I can't remember succinctly stating either should be absent - but don't just give the lady money and feel that's all!!


NOW GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR MODIFIED POST...

Kachisbarbie:

Kachisbarbie:


Read my siggy - get the implicit meaning. Then read the thread again and tell me the difference.

Thanks

emusmith:

Love, to a large extent, is motivated in the presence of money and vice versa (in most relationships).

But, money should not be the yardstick for giving your love to the opposite

Marrying A Wealthy Man HAS SAME RISKS As Marrying A Poor Man! Quote Me Anywhere!


PICKS UP MIC: Love and Money are the ingredients I have chosen to spice up my marriage!

To round up: Every guy should look out for one or more trait they love in their to- be wives: that thing that when you see it in her or she acts it spurs your love for her...

Nice one

Money shouldnt be the damn yardstick !!

Kachisbarbie:


Yes, that was my siggy. If at all one should insist on dating/marrying a rich guy, be nice enough to love him too. So that when the money is lacking - there would be something to hold the relationship

People should read before commenting biko, even the title reads...Love/Relationship Isn't ALL ABOUT MONEY!. I can't remember succinctly stating either should be absent - but don't just give the lady money and feel that's all!!


NOW GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR MODIFIED POST...

Kachisbarbie:

emusmith:

Years ago, I had a colleague who was sleeping with a wealthy man's wife. How? The man was a Rig Worker. He makes millions. Even when he was back, he barely attends to her! The woman was dying for ATTENTION, LOVE, CARE, ROMANCE and SWEET WORDS and my
colleague had all of that! ( I don't support this). A time came, she had to be watching indecency unusually!

chibic:
I used to think that for a young man to have an affair with a married woman..then such dude is either jobless or have a very low self esteem..that is,the jobless ones do it cos of the money they will get from their sugar mummies while the low self esteemed ones are unable to toast a woman.hence,they are se.x starved and will accept any opportunity for a free se.x..it baffles me to see a young dude working and doing good for himself descend so low to that..abi young and beautiful singles no dey una side?

Beamborla:
It's true! Love and relationship is not all about money. That still does not account for the level of stinginess guys exhibit in this our generation... I'm not the asking type neither am I the collecting type but stingy guys irks me a lot. It's really easy to persecute the ladies for asking but I'm sure we all know there are guys out there who feed on ladies and funny enough the ladies involved don't complain, infact, they are always happy and eager to give and would do anything to get that money even if they don't have it at that moment.

AbuMikey:
Story for the god!
OP, can You marry a Broke dude?

You may not need money to date someone, but You sure need money to sustain loving that someone.

Any Lady that says they can date a guy without money is just deceiving Herself.


Last Bullet: EVERY Girl is a POTENTIAL Gold digger!

AbuMikey:
Story for the god!
OP, can You marry a Broke dude?

You may not need money to date someone, but You sure need money to sustain loving that someone.

Any Lady that says they can date a guy without money is just deceiving Herself.


Last Bullet: EVERY Girl is a POTENTIAL Gold digger!

GiftyGlee:



This is just foolish talk... it's annoying. Love and money MAY be related, but not the way you paint it....and please, all girls are NOT potential gold diggers, some are just not into all this wealth or money.

AbuMikey:


I had a rethink, when the other guy quoted Me, and I really think, right now, not all girls are gold diggers.