GoodFaith:
all4naija:
I pray Nigerian men doesn't meet you as a panel in any type of interview
If you dislike for Nigerian man

SemuhleB:
Chronic womanisers, flirts, liars and cheats. Funny, ambitious, religious and generous.

P.S no offence intended. This is simple my opinion

SemuhleB:
he is also a Nigerian man

legallyblonde:
it is simple ur opinion.tks for speaking the truth

all4naija:
Why are you twisting my words? Isn't having concubines outside the home cheating? Nigerian culture gives men the right to do that without taking it as serious matter.

GoodFaith:

He might have a Nigerian father and American mother

SemuhleB:
I think he is biracial if I remember correctly

all4naija:
Why are you twisting my words? Isn't having concubines outside the home cheating? Nigerian culture gives men the right to do that without taking it as serious matter.

SemuhleB:
I think he is biracial if I remember correctly. Nigerian father and white mother but he is still Nigerian at the end of the day

lefulefu:

awhh so if i tell u dat u have pretty eyes does dat make me a flirt?

GoodFaith:

U can call him a Nigerian but he have some type of dislike for Nigerian men

gsainttrinity:


Having Concubines. . . Hmmm well i don't know of any culture that endorses it. But does not mean it didn't exist then as it is now. . And yes it is cheating and its cheating because those that indulged in it always does it in sneaky manner. Its not a cultural issue, it is a human issue.

Having concubines exist in all cultures. . From middle east to european cultures. From Africa to southern America and even in the Northern part of it. Even our modern society is not an exemption but this does not mean it is culturally permisive.

I don't even know how i would explain it again sef.!

SemuhleB:
lol have you see some of his comments. He is always fighting everyone against Nigeria. Just go through some of his comments. Theb again i think he should be taken lightly. He is just a troll. https://www.nairaland.com/2073925/nigerian-artiste-dbanj-shows-new/10

all4naija:
It is in Nigeria due to the chauvinistic practices by men! They are not to be questioned when they do cheat as men. Stop preaching. It is not necessarily required of you to express your views.

SemuhleB:
he is also a Nigerian man

all4naija:
They don't get it. When you say the truth on the bad things about Nigerian culture people would line up to deny them. It is not helping to find solutions in that society. And, I am not going to be a part of that!

GoodFaith:

Are Nigerian women or other women innocent?
Women cheat too

all4naija:
They don't get it. When you say the truth on the bad things about Nigerian culture people would line up to deny them. It is not helping to find solutions in that society. And, I am not going to be a part of that!

all4naija:
It is in Nigeria due to the chauvinistic practices by men! They are not to be questioned when they do cheat as men. Stop preaching. It is not necessarily required of you to express your views.

GoodFaith:

I don't want to be part of Nigerian problem
dishonest
419
corruption
Nigerias have issue and Nigerian that live in foreign countries are not better

all4naija:
Nigerian women cheat but they are at disadvantage of the cultural rights. Men can go scat-free for cheating but we cannot. There is no argument women cheat too. More married men cheat in Nigeria and cannot be questioned by anybody.

legallyblonde:
stop being this bitter.this is a thread to just hear other's opinion and have fun,why so bitter?! if you have any animosity with naija then you have got it with the millions on nairaland o.and meanwhile.....


insult me and hear your lineage's history!

Bwahaha... You can cry me a river for saying what is happening in the Nigerian society.

You looked defeated though. That is an empty threat!

gogoqueen:
I am American and am dating a Nigerian man, love him! He is hard working, caring,intelligent and knows how to pick his women(lol). Only one thing, he's sooo far away, United Arab Emirates . I hate that it will be 3 months till I see him. I also hate to say this and I really don't feel like this about him but in the back of my mind I wonder is this real? I have been scammed by a Nigerian man (boy) before. Fell for his lies... I should have known were lies. This guy is totally opposite but its just that one Nigerian kind of placed a label on Nigerian men for me.

GoodFaith:

U are a ladies
women cheat on the DL-- Nigerian women today are not better than Nigerian men in the area of cheating
yes it is bad
Women are having better education and jobs today

all4naija:
Blame that on culture and men chauvinist attitude in Nigeria. It is time women start to fight for their rights in that country.

gsainttrinity:
What i am still trying to clearify here is that if Nigerian men cheats, it has nothing to do with our culture or custom of our tradition.

I give example: my grand father married two wives but even after his death, his wives (all late now) always eulogise on how he was a principled man that never had concubines (cheating in their own terms).

But he had two wives. Polygamy was the acceptable law of the community (same way monogamy has replaced it in recent times).
He married a secound wife because he needed more children which was very excential since he needed more hands to work in his hectares of agricultural farmland (i visited a part of it recently my brother no be joke o. In ten years you can not clear the potion of farmland they cultivated every season.) this he did without tractor, herbicide or harvester. Just his hoe and cutlass.

But my grand mother couldn't give birth to more kid due to age and strength so the man got a younger wife that produced his additional labourers in his vine yard.


No body should generalise on the attitude of a people without understanding the dynamics of their existence (NIGERIA)


Modern Nigerian men cheat on their foreign partners because they are a means to an end. This is a result of a situation which would require another lengthy text to kowatiate.

My homie All4naija you have been away from home too long try and comeback so that you understood your fellow country men better.

There are always two sides to a coin.

all4naija:
Bwahaha... You can cry me a river for saying what is happening in the Nigerian society.

You looked defeated though. That is an empty threat!

legallyblonde:
i'm not bashing you fool,not in '15.just telling you not to suck out the fun in a thread made primarily for cool naija fun,ewu angola!!

GoodFaith:

Sorry, I will not blame it on culture
40 year ago men can have 20 kids
Today it take a real man to be a father for just two kids
culture and attitudes are changing
people cheat---Americans and Europeans cheat too