striktlymi:


More like she doing the chores when I am away at work. I just want to come back and meet the place as it should be, everyday.

No need waiting till weekend to get the place done.

So you won't meet her when you return? Or you get back, she leaves? *coughing*

striktlymi:


Hmmm...

Makes sense!

Thanks!

You're welcome. I can absolutely understand you. I have the same "problems".

Now get the luxury of having a cosy home when you return from work without having yourself to force to do things you don'T feel like doing.

Life is short!

cococandy:
Good if she doesn't spend nights in your house to reduce risk of temptations.

Body no be wood. Soon u don't enter unplanned parenthood.

And maintain professionalism at all times. No calling by first names or idle chit chat:

Thanks for the tips!

elantraceey:



How tedious is your job?


If you stay alone i actually don't see much work there , or do you have friends that usually comes and lither everywhere?

The job is quite tasking...though more brain work than physical exertion.

Um...I have a grouchy friend who come to pass the night at will but again boys will be boys

striktlymi:


Its not that bad!

No go put ogbanje for your house or put a Delilah o.
On a serious note I don't think you need a live in help

carefreewannabe:
It sort of irritates me that so many people think of s*ex because of the question the OP asked.
Is this not the country in which most people were brought up by conservative and highly religious parents, where children are trained better than anywhere else?

wondering

Story.
Even the OP is not 100percent sure of himself. If not he wouldn't create this thread

cococandy:


Story.
Even the OP is not 100percent sure of himself. If not he wouldn't create this thread

I didn't know he created it because of such issues.

officialEGO:


So you won't meet her when you return? Or you get back, she leaves? *coughing*

Thinking of an arrangement where she may have a key to the apartment.

That would necessarily imply that I know her well enough.

So it could be that kinda arrangement. I cone home to meeet no one but a neat home and the kitchen smelling nice.

carefreewannabe:


You're welcome. I can absolutely understand you. I have the same "problems".

Now get the luxury of having a cosy home when you return from work without having yourself to force to do things you don'T feel like doing.

Life is short!

Your understanding is impeccable!

So on point!

carefreewannabe:


I didn't know he created it because of such issues.

Obviously. Why the emphasis on the femaleness of the househelp. If he was getting a male house help,I wouldn't see hin concerned like this.

remsonik:

No go put ogbanje for your house or put a Delilah o.
On a serious note I don't think you need a live in help

Hehehehe....

Live in?? Not at all...

Though the place is big enough but I like my privacy.

She definitely will not pass the night.

cococandy:


Story.
Even the OP is not 100percent sure of himself. If not he wouldn't create this thread

A man is as weak as he makes himself. That's what I like to believe anyways.

striktlymi:



A man is as weak as he makes himself. .

great

striktlymi:


Your understanding is impeccable!

So on point!

If you opened this thread because you worry that you may get your self into something that you were tempted into, get an unattractive woman to do the work. Simples.

Did you open the thread because you worry you may be s*exually tempted into doing something?

cococandy:


Obviously. Why the emphasis on the femaleness of the househelp. If he was getting a male house help,I wouldn't see hin concerned like this.

My concern is not necessarily because it's a female. Just that its not usual in this part if the world for single guys to have house helps, let alone it being a female.

I am very sure my neighbors would jump for joy to see a regular female go up my place. Me thinks they are getting worried.

carefreewannabe:


If you opened this thread because you worry that you may get your self into something that you were tempted into, get an unattractive woman to do the work. Simples.

Did you open the thread because you worry you may be s*exually tempted into doing something?

Nah...

If it's sex then I won't bother with the thread. My presence is scary enough for any female.

striktlymi:


Nah...

If it's sex then I won't bother with the thread. My presence is scary enough for any female.

Why?

I don't believe you.

striktlymi:
Thinking seriously of getting one who would help with the house chores to include preparing my meals.

Ready her dowry too

carefreewannabe:


Why?

I don't believe you.

Hehehehe...

Let's just say the 'ladies' wish I pay them more attention than I give for the now.

striktlymi:



Hehehehe...

Let's just say the 'ladies' wish I pay them more attention than I give for the now.

I understand.

jnrbayano:


Ready her dowry too

Lol!!!

Can't make me wife do the chores brah.

Funny thing is, when I eventually get the lady I am willing to pay dowry for, I may be forced to do those chores I run away from now.

striktlymi:


Thinking of an arrangement where she may have a key to the apartment.

That would necessarily imply that I know her well enough.

So it could be that kinda arrangement. I cone home to meeet no one but a neat home and the kitchen smelling nice.

Nice arrangement if you could work that out.

striktlymi:



Lol!!!

Can't make me wife do the chores brah.

Funny thing is, when I eventually get the lady I am willing to pay dowry for, I may be forced to do those chores I run away from now.

Gone thru some of your previous threads,u are a character I swear and I have this feeling u don't see having a gf or wife as a big deal.
Anyway cute picture I must say

striktlymi:



Lol!!!

Can't make me wife do the chores brah.

Funny thing is, when I eventually get the lady I am willing to pay dowry for, I may be forced to do those chores I run away from now.

The only way I will support this move is if the lady is unattractive (not good looking) in face and in body.

But you really need a woman in your life bro. You will still need her supervision should you be doing the bold by then.

FKBZ:

Gone thru some of your previous threads,u are a character I swear and I have this feeling u don't see having a gf or wife as a big deal.
Anyway cute picture I must say

Lol!

Yes, I can be that crazy in da head.

Um...you could say I am one of those crazy fellows who can remain single for life if the don't get what they are looking for in a lady.


Thanks!

carefreewannabe:
It sort of irritates me that so many people think of s*ex because of the question the OP asked.
Is this not the country in which most people were brought up by conservative and highly religious parents, where children are trained better than anywhere else?

wondering

siddon there and keep wondering na

jnrbayano:


The only way I will support this move is if the lady is unattractive (not good looking) in face and in body.

But you really need a woman in your life bro. You will still need her supervision should you be doing the bold by then.

Don't we all need someone or something in our lives? Wouldn't mind a lady being around to knock some sense into this hard skull of mine but not just any lady.


The house help need not be drop dead gorgeous but at least she should be presentable. Still thinking about it though.

joe17:
E go make sense if she ends up being ur wife

Buh bros, seriously I fink u need a wife instead

Thirded

@op, like more seriously

striktlymi:


Lol!

Yes, I can be that crazy in da head.

Um...you could say I am one of those crazy fellows who can remain single for life if the don't get what they are looking for in a lady.


Thanks!

Anyway when u see the real thing called love,u won't mind over pampering a grown up.....lol

Fraih:


Thirded

@op, like more seriously

Lol!!!

Dont worry if I am thinking of having a wife it won't be because I need someone to cook and keep the place tidy.

FKBZ:

Anyway when u see the real thing called love,u won't mind over pampering a grown up.....lol

Hehehehe...

I have done a review of my sentiments over pampering a lady I call gf. There are circumstances I am required to pamper her.

@OP

Run as faster as your leg can carry you . Stating from experience , any lady you bring in in such circumstance must surely seduce you , whether she's a day time maid or full time one does not matter . Unless of course , if your girl friend is cohabiting with you .