jingh:
For every debatives topic on nairaland, there is a counter thread !
jingh law

Sanchez01:

Sure, particularly when it's debatable. Wouldn't you agree?

Sanchez01:
NB: Before my head is called for, I’d want NLers to know these are some of the things I’ve picked up as cues from extroverts (ladies) and why I believe they’re better off in relationships.

1. Extroverts are fun to be with: Girls who are extroverts cherish every itty bits of their conversations and can make 6 long hours seem like 2 when you’re with them. When you have a lady as an extrovert, be prepared for moments of delights and gists as they just get to make sure that the gists they share are worth passing time.

2. They are not secretive: *whispers* ladies, here’s a secret. The worst way to deal with a man is to hide things from him. While introverted girls will apologize and say “sorry, that’s just me” (if at all they can), extroverted girls really have little or nothing to hide because they end up opening up in the course of passing time. And since keeping secrets is on the negative side of relationships, keeping them means weakness to introverts and strengths to extroverts.

3. They have a good sense of humour: A girl who speaks her mind freely would likely ‘spice’ her conversations with undocumented literary elements that would in turn make her conversations interesting. A true sense of humour can truly be found in those who cherish conversations and discussions. Best of all, extroverted girls can make you laugh at no cost!

4. They don’t pile up your wrongs: Introverted girls can pile up your wrongs just becacause they lack the strength to tell them to your face, and worst of all, they often leave you to think you’ve been forgiven when it’s not so. Since introverted girls hardly speak up, they unconsciously delight in record the number of times you’ve wronged them. You would think they have a greater internal storage capacity than their counterparts. Biko, life is too short to reserve 8 Gigabyte of internal memory for recording wrong doings!

5. They’re the best social media chatters: Have you ever been on a social media and a lady goes:
Girl: I
You: Hi, how are you?
Girl: fyn
…
(And then you wait for further messages and nothing comes and you decide to reply with “k”)
You: k
Girl: k (end of chat)
Biko, you need not be told, she’s one wicked introvert! Typical extroverted girls won’t chat with you that way. Never!

6. Extroverted girls are DYNAMIC!: Since there are little or no dull moments with them, they sometimes suggest what you guys could do to spice up your chats, discussions etc., just in case they sense it’s becoming boring. Spontaneous or dynamic, as many would call it, they are always there to turn things around as long as it involves them. So, fellas, just in case you have an extrovert for a gf, biko put your mind at rest because she is a natural event planner, even if it’s just the two of you!

7. They hardly pretend: You just have to love them for this Ladies who are extroverts hardly coat themselves in sugar to look like something else. You can easily see through them and know them just few hours of meeting them. Unlike their counterparts who smile sheepishly and stay mute almost every time, extroverted girls don’t mind sharing their ugly pasts as long as they like you. This is an endearing quality for me!

8. They are easily accepted: Guys, if your bae is an extrovert and you feel it’s about time your siblings know her, be rest assured that the likeness will come naturally. The meeting could be awkward at first but within an hour or two, they start feeling relaxed and then the real them comes up again. We all love people who are natural and true to themselves, don’t we?

9. They make better wives: Yes, I talk am! Girls who are extroverts are fun loving people, adventurous and more romantic to deal with than one whose mind is hardly known. The beauty of a happy home is when both partners talk about anything endlessly, without feeling odd or out of place. Secrets are minimal and the discussions are endless if you intend taking one as a wife. So far she’s happy, all other things are settled.

10. They can be more trusted than introverts: This is perhaps a secret not known to many. Contrary to Japhet04’s claim about “shy girls won’t cheat on you”, extroverted girls are quite easy to deal with than the “talk nao” kind of girls. True, they can be out-going and all but that does not mean they are wild in all. Once a girl who happens to be an extrovert find that listening and smiling nature in you, be positive that what they want is in you and they have decided to stick to you.

11. They’re more experienced on almost every subject matter: So true! Extroverted girls have a wider knowledge of topical issues, ranging from relationships, s3x, religion, politics, music, fashion, movies, just name it. Perhaps the reason for this is because of their conversational lifestyle which is a plus to them without knowing it. Their experience on subject matters make them readily available for discussions when the need arises, and just in case you have one as a guy, feel free to discuss what you have in mind and if she refuses to respond, then understand she’s not interested at that point in time.

12. Not all extroverted girls are party freaks: Another big one! That she’s an extrovert does not imply she’s a s3x, party, money, or whatever freak, wrong! Most extroverts enjoy the company of gist-partners, their lovers, family or friends. They just need someone to spend time with and not just in drinking away tomorrow. Even the so-called “shy” girls perform wonders just as Moses parted the Red Sea than the ‘unshy’ girls *Imagine what readers are thinking. Chai! Dirty minds*

Please feel free to add to the points mentioned
Cc
Naijaboiy
Safarigirl
Ellagold35
Oluwatola5
Cuteniva

(To all introverts on the forum, I don't hate you o! These are just facts!! )

dechandel:
That number 5 can be very annoying
I always do it whenever i want someone to disappear off my list

Tallesty1:
To cheat no dey hard them...

Sanchez01:

An introvert I guess?

Japhet04:
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cuteniva:
nyc write up

smackimorn:
13. You Spend more On Extroverts :-

KingCheezyPuff:
5.) °•°I'm Iintroverted but I'll talk you ta sleep on bbm,that's how I do.
Introverted doesn't mean we can't hold conversation.
...Anyway carry on with ya extroveted woman love!

cuteniva:
nyc write up