[quote author=tobechi20 post=29661123][/quote] gud one op... U just hit d nail on d head.... I love u for dis!

[quote author=sexynabila post=29707515][tnk u op....am saving dis page

cytochromeC:


Husbands and wives are not scarce, Good people are just generally scarce. There are enough males to go round the females. Our preferences just brings about the scarcity. Everyone wants to settle down with mr \mrs perfect. I have scores of male friends who desperately want to settle down, these are guys who can get a girl to marry them in 48hours, but they all have preferences and unrealistic expectations, hence the wife material scarcity and lamentation. The same applies to my female friends. A lady lamenting of husband scarcity probably has 2men disturbing her for marriage, but for one reason or the other, be it genuine or unrealistic, she is not interested and she keeps looking for husband in sokoto when he's just in her shokoto.

...But I must say that in as much as people, both genders have unrealistic expectations when searching for spouses, one should NOT be forced to settle for any human just to bow to societal pressure.

You have spoken well. I agree with you.

italo:
Tobechi20, what we should be working towards is good stable marriages.

It is God's plan for continuing the human race.

So it is beneficial to the society at large. It is good for the upbringing of good children. It is good for the wellbeing of the spouses too.

The approach you have taken is one aimed at watering down the inestimable importance of marriage.

That is the work of the devil. That's why he and his agents are trying to force the rest of us to accept gay unions as marriage, legalize and promote abortion, pornographyy, casual premarital sex etc. The devil knows that all these will weaken the institution of marriage. And when marriage is weakened, society will fall apart. Humanity will be destroyed.

Women were more loved and respected when society took marriage more importantly. Since society started promoting all those vices above, women have been terribly disrespected. Sometimes they're even treated like animals whose worth are only in servicing the pleasures of men.

If you doubt look at our music videos. You see women shaking their bum bums and guys pouring champagne all over them and slapping them.

I dont even want to talk about the humiliating dehumanization of women in pornography.

No woman or man was designed to raise children alone. 95% of those single mothers and divorcees will still be preyed upon and used as guinea pigs to satisfy the sexual urges of other people's husbands. Husbands who will fight tooth and nail to safeguard the unity of their own proper families.

Do you know that it is scientifically proven that a woman carries the DNA of any man she has unprotected sex with for the rest of her life?

Think about the mental and spiritual consequences of this.

*I strongly condemn violence and unjust manipulation from men and women alike.

What I advocate is good, loving, stable and holy marriages for men and women.

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Etoshil18:
Seriously, im overwhelmed with wht im reading hia..the even days are near..

don't be deceived. What you are reading is a thread of frustration. Marriage is beautiful when properly entered. It is when u enter with fight u will remain with the fight.

Didn't know when I clicked liked .....
this made a lot of sense.
Thanks Op