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Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by virginboy1(m): 9:24pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
mutter:please,what is the essence of bringing more kids into this world when taking care of one ain't an easy job. Please Sir be objective,because i can see you are just been subjective with the matter.Thank you 10 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by mutter(f): 9:29pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: Now is it only the rich that are allowed to have children. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1:you have to sit down and talk to them now,this is your life we're talking about,your future. 5 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
This is sad. My inlaw's dad married 3 wives. First wife had no child. So it started with my inlaw's mum(2nd wife) He was d eldest and had a good paying job in an oil company. A very down to earth man and can use his last kobo to help d needy. When d dad saw he has a down to earth happening boy as d first son, guess what? He started making plan 4 d 4th wife. Meanwhile d guy is d bread winner in d family. It was really affecting him even with his good pay. He called and warned his dad sternly or else he should count him off as his son. Yes, it got to an extent he started looking for work outside d country. Once he got one, he moved with his family. He said if he didn't do it that way, he will never ever amount to anything. So @op has d right to be angry and mad. Assuming @op married a wife that don't like too much extended family wahala nko? What of if he didn't make it big on time? Even girls of nowadays r very skeptical of marrying a first son with football team behind him. So he is right to be mad. @op, d earlier u start looking for way to help urself to become somebody in life d better. Goodluck. 9 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: You can share any responsibility with your siblings, the older ones are not much younger. Don't think you have to do it all by yourself and don't you even try. Love yourself first. 5 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1:only do your best you can,don't,and never stress yourself to please them. even the Bible says love your neighbor as yourself,never more than yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by fpeter(f): 10:06pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Are your parents learned people? Do they understand the use of contraceptives? Have they gone to the hospital for family planning? I guess you're above 18....sit with both of them and express your feelings, fears and worries but be very respectful and careful not to hurt their feelings. Especially in your mum's condition she doesn't need to be judged or troubled to avoid raising her BP. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by bullabong(m): 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Well said,I believe if you take this advice all will be well. Sai Buhari |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by omoadeleye(m): 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
lololooll, your mama too like kondo, but not only you will want to suffer the consequences we too as a nation will share it too, cause your mom is giving birth in a geometric progression, and everything will just be increasing in amount, but all only if your all can work in farm, so maybe you have to use your kick and force that foetus out |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: 95% of the respondents on this thread fully understand your concerns. You are right to be concerned. It's unsafe for one thing. And let's not pretend in this society we aren't expected to take care of our siblings. Even my cousins expect things from me. We get it. You shouldn't feel guilty for having these thoughts. You need to speak to your mother. As someone else pointed out, you shouldn't take it for granted that they have the family planning and health education they need to make these decisions. Please, talk to your mother. 5 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
In this age when pregnancy is full of complications. Pls talk to your parents biko.My mum died during childbirth when I was a kid.The baby was still birth.Sometimes I wish the baby never happened .Commit everything into God's hands,he has a purpose in everything. I hope this will be the final and I pray God will see your mum through. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by dammywapes(m): 10:17pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Davidson267:You Ehn ? Davidson267:You Ehn ? |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Abbey2sam(m): 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: Did your father and mother relieve the Borden on you already? You're just been paranoia.....at least they can still take care of there children |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by dammywapes(m): 10:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Shhhh. This one is strong. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by aboystar: 10:24pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Psalm 121 My dear. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by easystudy101: 10:26pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: So ya mama give hersef bele, abi? What of d prick wey supply the spermatozoa? |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by kaima1984(f): 10:31pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Pls buy a cartoon of CD n present it t your old man |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by dammywapes(m): 10:36pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
kaima1984:? |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by dammywapes(m): 10:37pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
dammywapes:I don't know what to contribute so i keep shut. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by stanisbaratheon: 10:38pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
mutter:what do you mean by that?? |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by gebest: 10:39pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
That is why u must vote for CHANGE |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
FriedPlantain:It is time to do something about the Nigerian population. The people keep reproducing like fish. Jeez! Something is wrong with those families! 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by stanisbaratheon: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Abbey2sam: please be reasonable this is someone's life we're talking about here. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by lepasharon(f): 10:56pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Aww.. i wish my mum would have another baby..I want a baby sister Its nice to have a little one around 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Pamcrest(f): 10:58pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Op, besides the financial burden that u seemed worried about, there's really not much u can do. Except to advise your parents to go for family planning since they can't keep away from each other. Or is it that they are looking for a particular gender because I can't fathom why your mum is getting pregnant after 8yrs n 8 kids already! Just talk to them n get them to seek counsellling. My humble submission 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by stigman(m): 11:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: The answer you seek is here with you which is family planning, educate your mum on that, we have drugs for that |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by fulanigirl(f): 11:02pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
mutter: I don't think you're being fair to this young man. It's not only the rich that should have kids but they already have a lot of kids they can't look after. Why bring a child into the world when you are unable to take care of them? Why burden your child with the responsibility of a family he had no input in the decision of creating? They are making his life difficult, limiting his potentials as well as the other children. No 26 year old should have the burden of a 50 year old man. This should be the time where he gets on his own two feet and finds himself as a man not taking care of the responsibly of his parents 9 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by PrettySpicey(f): 11:11pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
It is too late now to do something about this pregnancy as it's underway already. But finding out about family planning and educating your mum on it might help prevent future 'unplanned' pregnancies. You also need to be a 'man' and speak with Your dad. While he might lose his temper and be vexed with you, you have to try as he needs to be less 'passionate' with Your mum. Finally, you need to prepare yourself. Since it's apparent what responsibilities lie ahead of you, do the best You can to arm yourself with skills that would better Your chances. Good luck. |
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