Pls what does he mean by this. He didnt explain but said he regret marrying a good girl like me.



We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

it means he means what he said.


but seriously if he was mean when he said it , then I think you need to check your actions if there's anything you do that he doesn't like but if you can't see or find any, then you need to discuss with him on the issue

And you don't know what you're doing to him that made him say so? You want us to tell you abi ??

ok

Before I give you wrong ideas, was he angry when he said it?

U av probably fallen short of his expectations of you. Ask him, he shud be able to tell u b4 he starts playing away match

sorry.. i shouldn't dabble into marriage issues.. but u brought it out so i can talk freely.

erhmm
i think se.x isn't fun for him.. esp if u just lay there like a frigid eskimo waiting for him to be done.


then really, good girls could be annoyingly self-righteous..

most married bad girls are broken. they have seen all. they just wanna make things work out right.

so my two cents is,

work on ur se.x life..
drop all self righteous ideas and get real


better still.. he is ur Husband. u should talk about everything. ask him whats really wrong and what u could do to make things better..

That awkward moment when people start taking bigass serious

alutacontinua:
That awkward moment when people start taking bigass serious

Lol!

We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

bigass:
We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

He thinks you are boring in bed.

bigass:
We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

u already know where d problem lies. U don't starve ur husband sex. If he needs it during d week, wot does he do and if u need it, wot do u do? No matter how tired I am after work, if my hubby wants s.ex, I give him. he'll say jst relax, i'll do d job

bigass:
We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

@ bolded, as a virgin, u learn as days/months go by. I was very very naive wen I got married but now, I'm superb. My hubby is surprised and even asking wot i've bin watching. U av to spice up for him. He is URS and URS alone

Week day sex isnt possible I wake up 5 come back by 8 sometimes 9 tired from work. I am usually too tired to have sex. I wont even get turned on. I cant do oral because I feel its dirty and sin. Putting his organ in my mouth isnt not for me I can never do it and I wonder how some women do it.

bigass:
Week day sex isnt possible I wake up 5 come back by 8 sometimes 9 tired from work. I am usually too tired to have sex. I wont even get turned on. I cant do oral because I feel its dirty and sin. Putting his organ in my mouth isnt not for me I can never do it and I wonder how some women do it.

I believe you came here for some very real advice. If you wanted to preach, you would have chosen a different platform.

Having said that, you had better given this your approach some serious thought. 1st, for your husband to say stuff like that, he views sex as an art, something he truly enjoys. It is an important part of why he married you and to consider that he has weekend sex appointments with you is not only boring and predictable but tasteless. So, for five days a week, you are his room mate (aka guy friend) and then at the weekend, you become his legal sex partner. There is even the possibility that you guys do it once in the weekend. And then there is the weekend you are in your cycle.

Babe! That is just pure torture! And to consider that when you guys get to do it, it is the same tasteless sex will drive any full-blooded man insane!

Sin? You better talk to your pastor whom are you sinning against when you perform orals.

For your information, there are girls out there who will do these stuff for free to land a frustrated husband as theirs.

I had to check your dp ," no apologies" for being a stalker,you too reason your username na? from What I saw and you said you married as a virgin

Don`t worry you will get there with time but only if you are open to it. I mean your husband showing you what he wants. Alone giving your partner joy is a satisfaction on it`s own and when you have an open mind you gain more. I mean not everyone is cut out for everything but are you planning to remain on this amateur level till pension

Well, a bad girl is a bad girl simple. You better up your game before it is late.

Read in btw the lines, you will understand.

Not being sexually compatible is one reason why we have high rate of divorce these days.Many girls just get marry and they go and sleep.Wake up and satisfy your hubby, no excuses oo.

Your dp and moniker seems not to have any correlation with the charactar your story is portraying. I'm kinda lost!

Hmmmn. You better go and buy karma sutra and start practicing all the styles there oh. Don't come back later to start crying crocodile tears for us oh.

bigass:
Week day sex isnt possible I wake up 5 come back by 8 sometimes 9 tired from work. I am usually too tired to have sex. I wont even get turned on. I cant do oral because I feel its dirty and sin. Putting his organ in my mouth isnt not for me I can never do it and I wonder how some women do it.

S*ex can be very relaxing after a long day. You need to learn to enjoy it. I have the feeling you have not yet discovered the pleasure about it.

When your husband is freshly bathed, there is nothing dirty about oral s*ex and he is your husband so I am asking myself who told you that it was a sin? You shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it though.

na everything dem dey ask self. we should go study ur hubbys mind for u. smart peeps always know wot to do. much of d reason why he is already regretting.

You have a bigass and dunno how to use it. Smh
















I'm gonna marry a bad girl too

You already know the answer

.........your Job makes you practice sunday sunday medicine on your husband

..........and During sex, you act like a flight attendant. very formal

..........despite the sunday sunday medicine you administer, yet you do not go down on your kneel and bless "him"

.........you expect him to keep jumping up because he met you a virgin. as if you were the only one that got married a virgin

........if you do not retrace your steps, what is gonna hit you is doing press up

Attention seeker . Now that you have been noticed , I suggest you vamoose . Thank me later .

Makes me remember what my hubby told me some days back "so u are shy ehn, don't u know u are a married woman now and must be wild? Don't u know every married woman is a bad girl in the bedroom? "

Mrs.try and loosen up oo.Make another girl no go help u oo.Lol

It's well

emeraldoe:
@ bolded, as a virgin, u learn as days/months go by. I was very very naive wen I got married but now, I'm superb. My hubby is surprised and even asking wot i've bin watching. U av to spice up for him. He is URS and URS alone

bigass:
Pls what does he mean by this. He didnt explain but said he regret marrying a good girl like me.



We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

So, I looked at your profile pic when I read your post. And I realised something.
























There's no way you married as a virgin with that arss!

bigass:
Week day sex isnt possible I wake up 5 come back by 8 sometimes 9 tired from work. I am usually too tired to have sex. I wont even get turned on. I cant do oral because I feel its dirty and sin. Putting his organ in my mouth isnt not for me I can never do it and I wonder how some women do it.

CHOI!
Oga don enter one chance

5minsmadness:


So, I looked at your profile pic when I read your post. And I realised something.
There's no way you married as a virgin with that arss!

I wonder why ppl don't realise that. When u go through her topics sef, she's very active in the sexuality section and has opened topics of her sexua.l conquest there. It's a sensible topic though but def. not from her.

bigass:
Pls what does he mean by this. He didnt explain but said he regret marrying a good girl like me.



We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

When I see women that talk like u. I sometimes ask myself what people like u think marriage is? Do u think it just ends on dancing and taking pix and then cutting ur wedding cake? Or do u think it's lying down like a piece of wood and being in ur own words "official during sex".

What most women virgins and non virgins 4get is that if u dont work on ur marriage it will fall apart. U have to work on ur behaviour, ur sex life and everything. I know a woman who after two years of marriage brought a house help into her house and almost lost her husband to the house help. Why cos she wasn't experimenting with her husband. She came home one day and saw the kind of acrobatic style the husband was doing with the girl. She later told my wife and I that in other to keep her home she started learning and doing all those styles and her husband is now coming home everyday.

Women should learn to communicate with their partners. Talk to the man. U married him so talk to him. U will see a lot will change if u do.

bigass:
Pls what does he mean by this. He didnt explain but said he regret marrying a good girl like me.



We have sex only on weekends because of my job and I don't give oral. I am very formal when it comes to sex. I married as a virgin

I doubt if your story is true with that big a$s I am seeing.

I am definitely marrying someone with that kind of a$$ but it will be everyday..

alutacontinua:
That awkward moment when people start taking bigass serious

Abi o..