@iamsynord,

Honestly, coming to this platform for advice is like adding salt to a fresh wound. However, after reading your confession i was moved. I can tell you that you have solved the problem 50% by coming out and admitting that you have a problem.

Take these steps and you will be free;

1. Stand before a mirror and say to yourself that I am going to stop this act.
2. Set up a reminder of every 5 minutes on your phone or tablet (if any)

The above steps is to build it in your sub-conscious mind

3. Identify the bridge and cut it off...(I must admit that this is the hardest part but I tell you can). Things that will awlays want to remind you of the fantasies and make you want to go back e.g watching of porn, clubbing, vulgar communication, retaining their contacts on your phone etc

4. Take an inventory of your friends and discard fast those that will further corrupt your mind and destroy your life.

5. Since you have burnt the bridge, nature those not obey vacuum, so, you must replace those bad stuffs with positive things.

6. Decide to always feed your mind and imagination with only valuable, life-enriching, good and positive materials and thoughts. e.g buy books on breaking addiction to bad habits and read, choose the kind of programme you watch. Any prog that will want to remind you of your past run from it.

7. Give your life to Christ TOTALLY and let Jesus be your number one.

God bless you.

showafrica:
I saw this story in 2012...how come it's surfacing again and you are still 27yrs since then. Something is fishy here

did you really see this story in 2012

ultraGM:
It is never bad idea to get married quickly, my fear is if you continue one woman nay never satisfy you.

And go for deliverance prayer, devil is working to destroy you, because as I can see you are destined to be great, greatness is on your very soon

Ate you born in June?

Is his predicament peculiar to those born in June? I have such tendencies at times.

my candid 1cent...you need to seek God in prayers...get a well experienced MOG..
Try giving your bank a standing order to save your money in an account you won't
access and lastly try seeing a good shrink, rehab might be good too.

9jatatafo:


The guy Libido too high and he fit get problem with his wife in the future. The guy is fed up with olosho and him marrying one is out of the equation. I hope you dey feel me. Thanks bro

your advice still makes zero sense.

since u knw ur body chemistry dt u cant hold ur body 4 long b4 avin sex den go to ur girl and explain tins to her on aw to solve dis,Obviously it's 4 u guys to get married.But if she says she is nt yet ready. My broda,do d needfull.Go 4 d lesser sin by leavin her and get married to some1 els who's ready..Far better dan commiting Fornication wc is d bigger sin

Check this site for help: www.jw.org. key words "addiction " read how u can cultivate self control. Remember the implications hiv/aids etc
U can over come it if u determined. Thnx.

They are all over the place, these days you can hardly differentiate who is a prostitute and who is not. Forget the confirmed ones, i mean the ones that live in the hotels or stand on the road we still have the normal looking ones who work in the office, live with their parents but once you approach them then the 'how much you go give me' comes to play. Bottom line now is that girls no send anybody again no girl wants to give it give free of charge anymore you must pay money. Even wives at home if their husbands are not dropping correct money they go outside to catch their fun. Thats the new age infact it seems now that in every 5 girls you see today 4 are into runs. The So called born again are not exempted, on Sundays they are the choir members, ushers etc but moments later they are back in business.

You just have to know where to draw the line so it doesnt disrupt your future plans. The one thing you can do is to keep your eyes away from girls generally and declare a spiritual battle against them if not you cant escape their seductive looks, dressing, dance steps and all. Someone even said they use charm these days to trap guys ones you go in you cant stop coming for more. Be careful and stay alive man.

Guy, pesn need to flog u live pigeon till e die. Datz d only solution...

Coolcash1:
@iamsynord,

Honestly, coming to this platform for advice is like adding salt to a fresh wound. However, after reading your confession i was moved. I can tell you that you have solved the problem 50% by coming out and admitting that you have a problem.

Take these steps and you will be free;

1. Stand before a mirror and say to yourself that I am going to stop this act.
2. Set up a reminder of every 5 minutes on your phone or tablet (if any)

The above steps is to build it in your sub-conscious mind

3. Identify the bridge and cut it off...(I must admit that this is the hardest part but I tell you can). Things that will awlays want to remind you of the fantasies and make you want to go back e.g watching of porn, clubbing, vulgar communication, retaining their contacts on your phone etc

4. Take an inventory of your friends and discard fast those that will further corrupt your mind and destroy your life.

5. Since you have burnt the bridge, nature those not obey vacuum, so, you must replace those bad stuffs with positive things.

6. Decide to always feed your mind and imagination with only valuable, life-enriching, good and positive materials and thoughts. e.g buy books on breaking addiction to bad habits and read, choose the kind of programme you watch. Any prog that will want to remind you of your past run from it.

7. Give your life to Christ TOTALLY and let Jesus be your number one.

God bless you.

this is the best and perharps the most educated post so far.the truth is that most people criticising the op are in this shit,yet rather than learn from this they rub salt to injury and criticise.

thanks man,i ve gained a lot from this.

Old gist

u have been going to olosho's b4 u met ur gf,nd she told u no sex b4 marriage,if u know u can't cope in a sexless relationship,y did u accept her terms at d first place,I tink u better tell her how u feel,if she still insist no sex,nd u know u still can't cope,den walk away nd look 4 a woman who is willing,dey r out dere,dan 4 u going to meet all dese olosh's.
As 4 me I can't go into a sexless relationship,unless I want to drive my man into d arms of anoda woman,especially in dis cold weather for 2,after all body no be firewood

Anyway we are different.I was sometimes in your shoe but I changed that day I received an hot slap from ashi when trying to finger her.I took a step to toast a babe,she agreed,she gave me the best fvcking of my life,later met another and keep meeting and we never stop meeting

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hahaha pussyeater and pussyaddict make una come see something o

Unibenstudent:
how come u didnt know?

am a learner

Sweetmarriage:


I want to post your question to our facebook community page where you will see more answers. On facebook, search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission.

go ahead ..

Sweetmarriage:


I want to post your question to our facebook community page where you will see more answers. On facebook, search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission.

Go ahead bro

@Op. I don't think you have a problem. Guess it's your calling. At the right time, you will stop patronizing those ladies. Not your fault having high libido. Your Gf is out of it. Cos you have been seeing the escorts at your teen age before she came into your life. Count yourself lucky. Most men don't have what you have. They are all over Nairaland.
Please don't quote me.

All girls are dsame no need wasting ur money on slut just look for a girl dat can satisfy ur sexual urge

Go to www.livingseed.org. You will find help

folabayo1:
am a learner

u don't llok like one facially

Guy, stop worrying. U need it, i was worse than U but today I'm fine. Just live your life dude

The onely person who can help U is GOD run to Him. Don't let Satan destory Ur eternity. Come to JESUS He will deliever U from the spirit of fornication.

My people, don't mind this guy jare. He. Has achieved his aim and objectives for posting the rubbish. he just wanted to show his "momentary" financial means. How can anyones joystick be wiser and stronger than its onwner If he has that kind of means why can't he go and marry the girl or look elsewhere if the girl isn't serious - which I don't think so As hubby scarce reach for town

Lol! :-D :-D

MrPearce:
u need one of this..
if u like lose d key.... u are on ur own

Give your life to Christ before you ruin your health and soul at the same time. Then, pray at the sight of temptation and run- yes run. It is only a fool that will see death that will kill him and not run.

op is not teling the truth. Lier!!!!! Fake story

dechandel:
No. The op is a pyscho
Started sleeping with pros.ever since he was a teen
The girlfriend needs no blame here. The op needs serious mental evaluation and deliverance maybe

Conji is a bastard!

ronald4lif:



Which area them port to?

Na Wuse 2 and Gwarimpa dem de now

You need to surrender your life to Christ and He shall deliver you from such urge. The Lord will give u the grace to delay gratification and then get married.