InZA:


Like say you sef no like gist


So this is where you are now abi


You will not do and go back to lomance lection

wetin you dey do for here?

patrickdarlins:
tanks jor.....

some ladies tho...can never overcome temptation oo

SMH

yea u can say that again

Intresting story but the part that I refuse to accept was when you said you slept @ the park till the next day and this dude appead the next morning like an angel or agbero and that was it! Ok let me pretend I belive that part of the story it could be the guy grown up in indian .just saying tho...

Wanna tell my story too. But let me find him first.... Will run back here yo give you guys the gist.

elantraceey:


wetin you dey do for here?

I'm listening to testimonies.

I met my husband on Facebook. Then I was just coming out from a broken relationship of 4years I needed to get over the break up and I started accepting friend requests that I had ignored and after a while, a pop up message came in. He was and is still a comedian. We started as friends and ended up married after one year of Friendship, and two years of dating. I have no regrets marrying him.

this kind question you just asked, if you know what this question done cause ,only if I can answer it will I be able to open my email account

I met her in church. We became friends. Just friends, serving God faithfully in youth ministry.
Later, my heart began to skip abit for her. The mere thought of her brought smiles to my heart.

At first, I felt concerned that I was taking the friendship more than I had thought. "What is wrong with me?" I asked myself.

I prayed about it. I got the assurance that all was well. I told her I loved her and would want to marry her. Turned out she was convinced about me too. Two years later, she became my my wife and has been so four years now. We have been happy ever after. I thank God for everything.

November 2005... The day remains fresh in my memory, it was a sunny Thursday afternoon.
I was walking down the road in school when he walked up to me. We talked briefly and we became friends. We just clicked and I later gave him a chance. Something was just different about him

Timbuktou:
Otta, 2003: Sunday afternoon, went to drop off dad's car at the mechanic, had no change(bike fare was #30 and I had a #1000 note on me) and decided to enjoy a walk home. I decide to explore a new route and, viola, I come upon a business centre and decide to put a call through to a friend make we for hang out; see we had phones but no airtime in those days.

Someone was on the phone when I got there so, I had to wait my turn. In the meantime, there was a lovely looking gyal sitting by the side eating ofada rice and as I was hungry I asked to join, and with the most dazzling smile made to give me the dish, I said thanks and said I was kidding and asked her name which she told me. So, I put my phone on silent mode, took their phone and dialled my number twice and told them the guy didn't pick, I totally forgot to call my homey.

I get home and dial the number and asked to speak to her, it turns out she was the daughter of the phone centre woman and I only had the chance to chat her up because mom was attending to another customer. Anyway, her mom tells me to call her own phone and I say it's not going through. She hands over the phone to daugjter and I proceed to introduce myself "erm, I'm the guy that asked for rice now now. Please, don't hang up". Somehow, she found it funny and the rest is history. We're currently trying for baby number 2. Hehehehe.

Really like ur story

InZA:


I'm listening to testimonies.

Me too

bukkylois:
Wanna tell my story too. But let me find him first.... Will run back here yo give you guys the gist.

Let God guide you. There are deceivers out there.

uzolexis:


Really like ur story

Interesting.

Chillisauce:


Any relationship more than 2 yrs , with kurukere road. Run for your life

Lies... It all depends on terms and conditions

i'm a sucker for love , and that has earned me this unpleasant single status. I believe in love. I will gladly wait for love than hurry down the aisle without love.

I know i will come back here to update my story before the yr runs out. Its going to be a lovely story.

Dont touch the dial. Stay tuned!

lovely stories..I pray God that love shall never cease in your various homes....damn! i smiled reading thru ya'all posts & now i'm wishing i gat such story to share as well...it'z well though...once again, plz keep d fire of love burning in your homes cus i might come back in 50 yrs time to create a thread that will read "bn married for 50 yrs or more?tell us ur beautifull/happy home stories" & i sure wanna see ya'all that posted these awesome love stories today, posting that day........so shall it be!

I really like this thread. I had began 2 develop marriage n relationship phobia cos of stories I hear and a terrible experience I just had recently. This thread kinda gives me hope....but i'm still on a relationship break sha, don't know when i'll put myself out there again, I just wanna be in my shell, I feel so safe here,like no one can hurt me.

InZA:
To those who dated and got married within 6months to a year... I celebrate you guys, really I do.....because it's not something I can do. The least number of time I would want to court my woman is '2years"..its not like there's too much time on my hands though...and i know that longevity doesn't always resonate with validity, but I would like to believe that I've known her enough before I commit to a life time partnership.

But that's just me.

We are all different

Just as our faces are different

Our love experiences and preferences are different.


Please keep it coming with those lovely stories.

I like that u said that is just you. Different strokes, I guess. Before I met the lovely man I married, I'd been in two long-term relationships. I knew them oh so well. First was (may still be) a psychopath who was a possessive freak. The other was a liar who, despite claiming he loved me and my son, had any available chic.


My husband was ready and open, so was I. All it took was our willingness to make things work. Like everything else in life, marriage is a risk.

Short Story:
My husband (then fiance) and I attended marriage counselling for 3 months. In our opening class, we were 47 couples, and during the introduction we were asked to state the duration of our relationships. See landlords dem. 6, 7, 8, 9 years. Out of fear, I said one year, but we'd only dated for 3/4 months.
Believe me, when we had the class wrap party, only 16 couples were remaining, and it was the long-term people that had either broken up due to irreconcilable issues (the class was that intense and effective) or stopped coming because they didn't want to go ahead.

Moral lesson: not how far(long) but how well.

bukkylois:
Wanna tell my story too. But let me find him first.... Will run back here yo give you guys the gist.

It can start now. Reply my pm.

mollytinrox:



I like that u said that is just you. Different strokes, I guess. Before I met the lovely man I married, I'd been in two long-term relationships. I knew them oh so well. First was (may still be) a psychopath who was a possessive freak. The other was a liar who, despite claiming he loved me and my son, had any available chic.


My husband was ready and open, so was I. All it took was our willingness to make things work. Like everything else in life, marriage is a risk.

Short Story:
My husband (then fiance) and I attended marriage counselling for 3 months. In our opening class, we were 47 couples, and during the introduction we were asked to state the duration of our relationships. See landlords dem. 6, 7, 8, 9 years. Out of fear, I said one year, but we'd only dated for 3/4 months.
Believe me, when we had the class wrap party, only 16 couples were remaining, and it was the long-term people that had either broken up due to irreconcilable issues (the class was that intense and effective) or stopped coming because they didn't want to go ahead.

Moral lesson: not how far(long) but how well.

Molly I really like this and your story is really touching. I agree with you on the time frame because of a post I read on the romance section where a poster said when someone is for you, you will know because the holy spirit will tell you sort of and it doesn't matter how long you have known the person. It might just be two months and you are walking down the aisle.

For example my sister was in a relationship for about 4 years. When she met her husband, he went straight to the point and they got married within a year of meeting.

Honestly I love dis thread. Am a firm believer in love, though love has not really find me, funny enuf am like a pillar to my friends, course mate, even in fellowship and in ma families, every one comes to mi for advice more like a councilor but my love story is kinda......... But I blve one day love will find mi. And for all of u dat shared ur wonderful stories boundless love and happiness will remain in ur home till eternity.

Wonderful stories, wish I have one to tell.. Hmmmm, love is a beautiful thng.

MINE IS TALL, DARK, SEXY ND REALY RICH ND CARING, I COULDNT BREATH FOR SECONDS WHEN I FIRST MET HIM. HE WAS SO PERFECT I DIDNT BELEIVE ND I ASKED GOD IF IT WAS REAL, ND HE SAID "LOVE UR DREAMING" ........... ND DEN I WOKE UP. STILL HOPIN TO MEET HIM IN REALITY...

uzolexis:
I really like this thread. I had began 2 develop marriage n relationship phobia cos of stories I hear and a terrible experience I just had recently. This thread kinda gives me hope....but i'm still on a relationship break sha, don't know when i'll put myself out there again, I just wanna be in my shell, I feel so safe here,like no one can hurt me.

get ready to come out of that shell. Remember its a year of settlement

InZA:



I find it "interesting" that people often suggest the bolded, but my concern is, we are not talking about changing cars, or shoes or kitchen wares, these are actual, living, breathing people with the capacity to feel hurt, dejected, frustrated and a whole lot of other emotions that find themselves rooted in heart breaks/breakups and the moving on decision.

That said, I really understand what you're saying, you've made really strong points. Summarily, I think my fear is the thought of being responsible for breaking someone's heart.... I detest the thought of that and believe you me it's not because I'm a people pleaser, neither is it because I want to remain perpetually in people's good graces. But that's just me.... I'd rather not go into a relationship than go into one that might end up with me likely breaking her heart. That's just me

I'm queer I know

People are not as fragile as you think.

Most have a healthy emotional immune system - and would bounce back in a bit.

And we're not talking cute, harmless little puppies here either.

I met her inside d BRT while returning frm office.
D rest is history

maryhaam:
Love is a beautiful thing,loooooool

dont get it twisted..

elantraceey:


We don't need halfbaked stories please

i wan hear ur story

Odunharry:

i wan hear ur story

I never get o

InZA:
[size=16pt]Please people, it's not just about where you met your spouse, but also how you met, the intricacies, queerness or humor involved, their responses and other little little things you can chip in [/size].

Today is Sunday, relax and share that story, then later in the day, both of you can even have hot seexx to close the day.

chaii....