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Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 7:27pm On Jan 22, 2015
I believe that many of the traditional roles of men
and women are valid and essential to creating and
preserving the right dynamics in a relationship, and
some of us are too quick to dismiss those customs
that have been established over many centuries or
even thousands of years, and which made the
relationships between men and women work much
better before than they do today. Therefore, when it
come to initiating a contact and making a move on
someone you are attracted to and would like to
meet and potentially date, it’s ultimately a man’s job
to be the initiator and to make that first move. This
is one of the qualities that makes a guy come
across as both strong and attractive to a woman
who he is approaching – her seeing that he is
capable of doing that and also her realizing that he
doesn’t wait for things to happen; he takes his life
into his own hands, and he creates his own
opportunities, despite the risks of failure involved in
making that move.
However, many women face the frustrating
situation with guys who don’t show initiative even
thought these men appear to be interested. This
could be someone as close as your school mate or
a colleague who you see and talk to every day, amd
who flirts with you and asks you personal questions
about your dating life and your views on dating in
general, but who doesn’t seem to able to take it to
the next level and ask you out. Or, it could be an
employee of a store you frequent at, who is always
extra friendly with you and tries to have a
conversation with you when you come in without
actually asking you out. You almost expect him to
finally invite you for coffee or a movie, and yet he
never gets there. And sometimes, it’s a neighbor
who clearly stares at you when he sees you as long
as your are in his view, but he never approaches
you to introduce himself or have a normal
conversation with you to get to know you a little
better. He might even make you feel uncomfortable
by staring at you , but all he is really doing is
admiring what he sees. All these guys have one
thing in common – they don’t make a move
because they are either shy or don’t know what to
say, or they are afraid you might not be available.
It’s also possible that they have been brainwashed
with all the advice about the importance of being a
challenge with women and are therefore playing
hard to get – not because they want to but because
they have been told that that’s the right way to be.
So, if you are interested in getting to know that guy,
you have a choice: either waiting for him to actually
make a move and ask you out one day or be
proactive yourself. Which way are you going to go?
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by TRADELYN: 7:34pm On Jan 22, 2015
Nooo...!
He'll surely find a way to tell her if he's truly interested.

Today, there are over 1,001 means to express yourself.
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 22, 2015
NO.
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2015
TRADELYN:
Nooo...!
He'll surely find a way to tell her if he's truly interested.

Today, there are over 1,001 means to express yourself.
can you mention em
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2015
Yields:
NO.
why

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