niceguy3:
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I was enjoying the comments till I got here, I wanted to ignore but my spirit just won't let me and then I liked your comment and then quoted you to ask one thing, please my love answer me ok

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Abeg where you dey when God dey share sense

Nice write up

rokiatu:
Yea thanks indeed very rare. Destiny brought us back together.

destiny brought u guys back together? Can I ask a question pls..how did it happen? Did u guys really date till he asked u to marry him..pls I rily wnt to understand the phrase "destiny brought us back together" waiting..thanks

And now you're tending to maturity and has really become a "thinking" human, why don't you stop jumping from one lady to the other in the name of love? why don't you reserve that your unconditional love for the lady or man you would marry? why don't vow now that you would henceforth sleep with only and only the lady or man you would get married to?
All these resolutions would worth more than the mistakes you made in your past love life... including that of your first love.

NiceMan4:
Dating is good, it exposes both of you. You know yourselves better, and yes, no one is perfect, but you are aware of each other's imperfections, you work to adjust it.

I know many people will argue that dating helps you to know the right man or woman-there is actually no perfect one, dating only helps us to get familar with each other, along with our good and bad sides. Because of that argument, people continue to jump from one girl/boy to another in search of mr or mrs right, and most times this search is frustrating because non of those you meet seem to be right in your perception, so who then is the right or perfect one? Are you perfect to start with? At the end of the day, we hurt ourselves instead of finding what we desired.

These are the effects of dating who you'll not marry.

You feel guilty of your past deeds. Especially the females, you remember all the rough play you had with some guys back then, and you feel guilty.

You are hurt: As one relationship terminate and the other, there are always tears of heartbreak.

You may develope feelings for your past lovers, and then you may just cheat. This can kill your marriage, you know.

You are likely to love your present spouse less than you normally would.. Because you've loved several men or women before, and it seems love is not even real again.

You may be ashamed of some people you dated before, especially when you attain greatness.

Please, keep to one boy or girl and be faithful to him or her. Let your first love also be your last love. I know what I'm saying. The love and affection you share is unqualifiable.

Abeg 1pack of chilled energy drinks for OP.. You too much!!

The effects is not so bad.its just like practicing what should be done when you finally settle down altho it culd get bad sometimes if d other person had high hopes of geting married.

I bookd space on ths thread

one bastard
hide ma post

nairaland and pdp tinz

there is god o

MzNelly:
99% of everyone on earth won't get married to their "first love."

Yes, welcome to reality.

After 8 years am gettin married to mine by July

Lily4star:
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I was enjoying the comments till I got here, I wanted to ignore but my spirit just won't let me and then I liked your comment and then quoted you to ask one thing, please my love answer me ok

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Abeg where you dey when God dey share sense

rotfl..... You really got me all cracked up....girl u r evil...

elantraceey:
ok

elantraceey,,everywhere u go...

I completely agree Why open the stew you won't taste eventually? To avoid regrets and stories that touch date with much sense

elantraceey:
ok

the great Ellan, first time of me seeing u type just 2 letters only

MzNelly:
99% of everyone on earth won't get married to their "first love."

Yes, welcome to reality.

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First love starts in High Schools...then they grow apart.

Who in High school is thinking about marriage?

Marrying the first love points to early marriage which in today's society is bound to fail. Unless we are talking about marriage and not a lasting one, it is an aberration.

So you are very correct!
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rokiatu:
lol I don't relate my happiness to only a man really, I believe we are solely responsible for our own happiness. But no doubt he make my life brighter, he's a wonderful guy. I couldn't ask for better. But I'd don't think am happy because he's my first love but rather because he's the man for me.

You have my respects!
I wish younger women (and men) will learn from this.

You are responsible for your own happiness and if you are not happy with yourself, nobody else can make you happy neither can you make someone else happy!

Neroze:
[br ] wch 1 b d wash na? Lol!

no mind dem jare

Why date someone I can't marry? It's like me buying leggings.

ArchEnemy:
Well done op, there are some simple points to note
-Never ever date someone you cannot marry. Dont even do it for the dating experience...it may ve complications

- Look before you leap.Dont jump into dating just because of mere attraction, do a brief study and know if the person is your type. If not,One day the scales are going to fall from your eyes and then dislike will overtake the lust.

yes oo, my frnd is dating a girl who he loves so much, but the girl family d go Cele= a fact he did nt knw b4 dating her, he told me if he had known she was a Cele member, him for no date am..
I just d imagine hw d wedding go d, 4 d guy church (Catholic), the girl parents go just jass in with White Garment.....background check is always gud oo.

ayokunlei:


the great Ellan, first time of me seeing u type just 2 letters only

hehehe , great elan ke



I'm supposed to edit that post o but i reasoned that it was going to be long so i just lost interest.

Lily4star:
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I was enjoying the comments till I got here, I wanted to ignore but my spirit just won't let me and then I liked your comment and then quoted you to ask one thing, please my love answer me ok

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Abeg where you dey when God dey share sense

You just made my day

Lily4star:
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I was enjoying the comments till I got here, I wanted to ignore but my spirit just won't let me and then I liked your comment and then quoted you to ask one thing, please my love answer me ok

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Abeg where you dey when God dey share sense

You just made my day

elantraceey:



hehehe , great elan ke



I'm supposed to edit that post o but i reasoned that it was going to be long so i just lost interest.

abi nao.

Needless dating: reasons for failed marriages here and there.

Dating is a hobby like golfing, skiing , reading or surfing. Something u do in ur spare time to relax, or to kill boredom or to explore. If u wan marry, then u should be talking about Courtship which is like a "light year" off my list.

MzNelly:


Lol

Life is not white and grey, anymore.

The times have changed.

This is OUR reality.

Tha mean trend and styles controls what you do and wh you shouldn't?

rokiatu:
I got married to mine.

*CHISOS* One of My NL crush is married? hw come na?







*DANBROWN*

[quote author=NiceMan4 post=30088237]Dating is good, it exposes both of you. You know yourselves better, and yes, no one is perfect, but you are aware of each other's imperfections, you work to adjust it. These are the effects of dating who you'll not marry. You are hurt: As one relationship terminate and the other, there are always tears of heartbreak. You are likely to love your present spouse less than you normally would.. Because you've loved several men or women before, and it seems love is not even real again. Please, keep to one boy or girl and be faithful to him or her. Let your first love also be your last love. I know what I'm saying. The love and affection you share is unqualifiable.[if u know what you are saying,share your experience with us]

Who you help?

I pray on this 21days fasting ending today to have a suitable lady that will say yes i will marry you