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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by mirexxx(f): 8:00am On Jan 27, 2015
zick19:


Lolz, so far itz you.... Eventhough u re a fulani, u re still mine.
hehehe smiley
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 8:00am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. Not all Yoruba women do all the things you just listed .
I totally agree with you but I am yet to see

I hate generalizations but I haven't seen any

I hate also complicated family backgrounds
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by mirexxx(f): 8:01am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
danny will see this oo...nothing can stop me from showing
lols cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 8:06am On Jan 27, 2015
Kingsasian:
Sure, y not? The funniest aspect of my life is that I have never been close to any lady from my own tribe which is the ibibios. The only tribe that am always attracted to and is as well attracted to me is igbo especially those from Imo state. Two out of every three ladies I come in contact with are from there. Even my present gf too. I believe I will definitely get married outside my culture and I so much luv the igbo culture.

I think we swap lol

Efik Ibibio annangs girls rock

Good shape
Good manners
Good cooks
Good skin
They are very neat ...neatest tribe

Oh they can take care of men ..the questions is can you handle it

I will use Viagra as analgesic

If my wife catch me ehhh

I am gone

Lol
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 27, 2015
I can marry anyone from anywhere as long as I want her and she wants me.

Why? Because I wouldn't be able to help falling in love with the person I would fall in love with.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by lasheez(m): 8:29am On Jan 27, 2015
jemimaa01:
ofcos I can,and in fact I will,cos I ain't marrying no fulani niccur,das all... cheesy
Jemimaa! are you Fulani? Whali jam
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 8:59am On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:


Agreed ...but majority of them do these 90% from what I have observed in Lagos and Ibadan

I love cooking for my wife on Saturdays and I enjoy going to market to surprise her and as a way to assist her but I just can't just go to market

Price a Yoruba woman something and if the prices doesn't go her way she will resort to insults like araroro,agbaya etc

Its just bad ..iI can't stand them

My neighbour will curse the hell out of her kids and will give the kid plates to buy foods in morning and I just can't have such people as my wife


I repeat not all...90% of what I have seen ..I think they don't frawn on divorce also so this just made up my submission

My own personal opinion and I love good food. I can't stand the sight of ewedu it makes me want to throw up

Pls my personal opinion and taste not generalizations
. that's not enough reason to generalize, esp in a forum like this. them go soon bash you.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by ITbomb(m): 9:08am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. I hope she doesn't see this. Anyway congrays for getting yourself a pretty wife. is she Yoruba?
Stop following and liking my posts o.
I SAID I DON'T WANT
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Kingsasian(m): 9:15am On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:


I think we swap lol

Efik Ibibio annangs girls rock

Good shape
Good manners
Good cooks
Good skin
They are very neat ...neatest tribe

Oh they can take care of men ..the questions is can you handle it

I will use Viagra as analgesic

If my wife catch me ehhh

I am gone

Lol
. Hahahahahahaha, yea annang babes rock sha but igbo babes are up to dat standard as well. They are caring, beautiful, good cooks, neat and can handle a man too...lol. Urs is gud dat u are married but I still dey pray make God keep my own for me becos I still have two more years to go...she knws herself if she sees this post. Bros u too mch
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 10:06am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. that's not enough reason to generalize, esp in a forum like this. them go soon bash you.
this is not politics section nobody will bash him,the generalization is not just fair
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 12:10pm On Jan 27, 2015
Kingsasian:
. Hahahahahahaha, yea annang babes rock sha but igbo babes are up to dat standard as well. They are caring, beautiful, good cooks, neat and can handle a man too...lol. Urs is gud dat u are married but I still dey pray make God keep my own for me becos I still have two more years to go...she knws herself if she sees this post. Bros u too mch

I will agree with you ...I will give you one from my side you give me one from your side

I just love periwinkles soups

It makes a man dick stand up
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 12:12pm On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. that's not enough reason to generalize, esp in a forum like this. them go soon bash you.

Nne

I did not generalize biko... I just said 90% and not 100% please don't misquote a mosquito like me

Don't I have the right to personal opinions

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by ChristyG(f): 2:19pm On Jan 27, 2015
murimoney:
First of all I will state those I can't marry and my reasons
Yoruba this tribe is just a no no for me, am from the south and their culture don't tally with mine at all as in I admire the beauty of their women but their behavior is one thing that scares me away, talking from what av seen, as I was born in d west n bred n live around them I know what they are capable of, fetish ooh yes, most are bad cooks, aldutery is a common thing and mostly they are very lousy! Sorry if u feel am wrong don't try to correct me, this is what I know n dont tell me I live in a bad environment.
all south except my state at even a slim chance well the reason is not only that I never lived in the south n I have only visited my state only twice since I was born n I can't even remember, but the reason is i find it interesting to try a different tribe entirely, at least have seen my parents the same state and town, but not that theirs is not good in fact theirs is great but I would like to try something else since I know what that of like my parents would look like.
Hausa well this tribe I could try but, seriously, I dont like their lifestyle had one as a neighbor, really bad cooks, never like their cooking the sight alone is a turn off coz as u see me so I love to eat, espicially good food since I don't know how to cook, I don't want to add a bad cook to myself, who go teach my kids how to cook? Me or my wife wey no sabi cook or I go come dey buy food chop everyday? their manners especially EATING lemme don't go there and lastly very jagajaga set of people wey no like to go school their papa just dey born them full ground. Talking from experience!
The tribe I can n will make sure I marry by GOD'S Grace I pray to GOD for a better one.
IGBO whether my parents gree or not nor be say I dey form but honestly I admire these set of people Most have met n lived around are Good cooks yes! Am a lover of food a good one for that matter, good behavior, they know their limits, bounds and very respectful. One thing I admire about them is how they take care of their own, they know what is called family and mostly educated and oriented people. My reasons might feel a little bit of bias, but I honestly post this because of what I know, I read and study people alot, and PS don't try to correct me. cool
Mods this topic deserve FP!
yawnnnns,just tell us u are Igbo and stop with the id1otic analysis

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by ChristyG(f): 2:36pm On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:


Nne

I did not generalize biko... I just said 90% and not 100% please don't misquote a mosquito like me

Don't I have the right to personal opinions
the feelings are very mutual,dat is why most yoruba ladies dont go for igbo men,most of them are full of sh1t,aroggant and proud as phuck.the extent he can go for money,he would probably use u and ur children for money rituals,not to talk of his mean and wicked family members.that was how they turned on my aunty bola when her hub
by died.my opinion o.
it is better for a yoruba lady to remain single than to marry ibo,all dat sh1t talk about how caring they are is hogwash,it only happens when d lady is ibo

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:


Nne

I did not generalize biko... I just said 90% and not 100% please don't misquote a mosquito like me

Don't I have the right to personal opinions
. Nna we ain't quarrelling biko.
you have right to personal opinion.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 27, 2015
ITbomb:

Stop following and liking my posts o.
I SAID I DON'T WANT
. sorry, are you OK at all?.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 3:45pm On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. Nna we ain't quarrelling biko.
you have right to personal opinion.

na ebe kwanu


nwanne m nwanyi, why should we ?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 3:46pm On Jan 27, 2015
ChristyG:
the feelings are very mutual,dat is why most yoruba ladies dont go for igbo men,most of them are full of sh1t,aroggant and proud as phuck.the extent he can go for money,he would probably use u and ur children for money rituals,not to talk of his mean and wicked family members.that was how they turned on my aunty bola when her hub
by died.my opinion o.
it is better for a yoruba lady to remain single than to marry ibo,all dat sh1t talk about how caring they are is hogwash,it only happens when d lady is ibo

so all the children in igbo land has been used for ritual like what is applicable in soka, dearie we are no quarrelling, igbo men rarely marry outside, if they do its eyes right to south south region thats all...this is due to cultural similarity

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 27, 2015
ChristyG:
the feelings are very mutual,dat is why most yoruba ladies dont go for igbo men,most of them are full of sh1t,aroggant and proud as phuck.the extent he can go for money,he would probably use u and ur children for money rituals,not to talk of his mean and wicked family members.that was how they turned on my aunty bola when her hub
by died.my opinion o.
it is better for a yoruba lady to remain single than to marry ibo,all dat sh1t talk about how caring they are is hogwash,it only happens when d lady is ibo
just leave d dude...I see the way he insult yoruba ladies,I don't wanna derail d thread myself
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by ITbomb(m): 4:43pm On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. sorry, are you OK at all?.
Just checking on your siggy
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jan 27, 2015
hifaif:
I can marry anyone from anywhere as long as I want her and she wants me.

Why? Because I wouldn't be able to help falling in love with the person I would fall in love with.


Just passing.........

But!

Could not resist your comment. Those are beautiful words fit for "hall-mark" cards. Patent it.

It is true tho, an Asian man is falling in love with me

I worry he will get his heart broken.

Oi. Wettin be this ooooo Ha ha! I am learning how to speak nigerian english. Haba! grin grin






*i know lots of eyes are rolling but oh well*
Lalalalala

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 27, 2015
Xiadnat:



Just passing.........

But!

Could not resist your comment. Those are beautiful words fit for "hall-mark" cards. Patent it.

It is true tho, an Asian man is falling in love with me

I worry he will get his heart broken.

Oi. Wettin be this ooooo Ha ha! I am learning how to speak nigerian english. Haba! grin grin






*i know lots of eyes are rolling but oh well*
Lalalalala

Thanks, sweet. I will patent it. Never knew it was that nice. Aren't you a Nigerian?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by gracefams: 5:18pm On Jan 27, 2015
[quote author=Adaobi12 post=30172296]. that's not enough reason to generalize, esp in a forum like this. them go soon bash you.[/quote. He's well known for his tribalistic comments most especially in the politics section against the Yorubas, I guess their his greatest nightmares, it's just a pity the stupid man his close to his 50s but whine like a teenager. What a shame!
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by khia: 12:14am On Jan 28, 2015
Ipledge:
this not a caucatian hair

What is caucasian hair, are they the only ones who have straight hair? Did you always long for straight hair or is this something you started craving once you got to JFK?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by gracile(f): 12:25am On Jan 28, 2015
zick19:
Yes, coz i hate girls of my tribe..... My future wife is gonna be from Delta, no doubt about dat.
what tribe are you?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 12:53am On Jan 28, 2015
khia:


What is caucasian hair, are they the only ones who have straight hair? Did you always long for straight hair or is this something you started craving once you got to JFK?
do you have straight hair?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpia100k: 1:31am On Jan 28, 2015
Ipledge:
just leave d dude...I see the way he insult yoruba ladies,I don't wanna derail d thread myself

no be aunty obi dey pursue am for this thread?

na two of them dey form coven to discuss Yoruba ladies.

God punish devil o, in Jesus Name.

Amen.

anyway, back to topic or your preference for Caucasian hair.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 1:35am On Jan 28, 2015
tpia100k:


no be aunty obi dey pursue am for this thread?

na two of them dey form coven to discuss Yoruba ladies.

God punish devil o, in Jesus Name.

Amen.

anyway, back to topic or your preference for Caucasian hair.
i don't like caucatian hair again grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpia100k: 1:36am On Jan 28, 2015
why not?

just kidding though.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 2:01am On Jan 28, 2015
tpia100k:
why not?

I am selling it though, this is not the time to refuse to buy. . . . . . . . .
i like caucatian apart from the hair,if that's what u intend to hair,so u think I can marry those people in ur pix because of their nigerien hair
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Truckpusher(m): 2:15am On Jan 28, 2015
I want a South African girl or Zimbabwe and if possible two - Their backside is quite intimidating to say the least shocked

You can conveniently sleep on it without anyone complaining about waist pain. grin

Mondisweet, any hope ? .......Help a brother ,at least for once cheesy

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:02am On Jan 28, 2015
Truckpusher:
I want a South African girl or Zimbabwe and if possible two - Their backside is quite intimidating to say the least shocked

You can conveniently sleep on it without anyone complaining about waist pain. grin

Mondisweet, any hope ? .......Help a brother ,at least for once cheesy
i no u be thief before,so am not surprised grin

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