Cry no more babes... Jst try n move on. The guy was a wolf in a sheep's clothing... Next tym plz look bfr u leap

RotrEmmanuel:
SMH... They is one thing u need to understand my dear, a good guy will never hunt for ladies online that they haven't seen or have character study together.. All guys on dating sites are Players and none of them is ready for serious relationship, that is the same reason why their offline friendship always fail.

I just feel both of them decieved themselves by LUSTING for each other.. I repeat, that girl was foolish to call it love after sex chatting, online unclading, and the rest.. Please and please, Decent guys can't be found in online dating fora.

Just be of good character in your nieghbourhood, Real men will hunt for .

Hah dont be like that!
There are good and decent guys online, I think the problem in OP's case was that she gave in too early. She failed to study the guy in question. The guy might not be a player, maybe he didnt just like what he saw when he saw her in person or maybe there was a character she exhibited that he really didnt like and cannot put up it, I dont know. Just saying.

This simple act that could be exhibited by any guy even the ones you meet in real life doesnt mean you should generalise all guys online aint decent, come on!
At the bolded, OP didnt say they met on an online dating site, but they met ONLINE, so now, are you saying you aint decent? Since you are online and you are a guy

Sorry dear! Something might be wrong with him...have u tried calling him or texting him? If yes, then I guess u just av to move on. Oh well, some men were just born jerks

Sorry dear, such is life just try and move on, it is not d end of d world. Crying will not solve d problem, but wait first y are u na crying u enjoy him and he also enjoyed u na case close. and we ladies should try hold ourselves and avoid meeting someone 4 d first time he is house.

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please I need advice

So sorry... Sometimes the good girls meet the bad guys while the good guys meet the bad girls... That's one thing I've come to notice about relationships... Cry your heart out, after that dust yourself and continue life...

EroticAngelina:
Oh dear wipe ur tearz. wats done z done. so go nw and test urslf, and nvr make dat silly mistake again! e-dating z bad!

Some guys will still dump a girl even though they didn't meet online, it happens. E-dating isn't bad, the guy was just a good player.

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

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I didn't ask for his money and we didn't go on any kind of shopping.I have never even demand for recharge card from him.Anyways,thanks a lot for your commen

And what is wrong in that? Forgive yourself and move on. Shine your eyes next time.

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

Firstly,sorry Miss you are a cheerful giver.....Secondly the guy in question was only interested in ur part and u gave it up cheaply..that kinda aucks...he has no interest in you so there's no point for him keeping in touch

Thirdly,Shet happens...its life...donr beat urself up any it...it can happen to anyone..all you can do is learn it lesson and continue with ur life...dont dwell to much on this....he's preparing you for a better guy that's coming along

Don't dwell to much on peoples comment more may scold u real hard...all they are trying to do is for u to become a better version of urself....learn ur lesson and live a happy life....Shalom

reminiscing:

I didn't ask for his money and we didn't go on any kind of shopping.I have never even demand for recharge card from him.Anyways,thanks a lot for your commen

In Jesus's voice, "your sin has been forgiven, go and sin no more".

cherryice:


Hah dont be like that!
There are good and decent guys online, I think the problem in OP's case was that she gave in too early. She failed to study the guy in question. The guy might not be a player, maybe he didnt just like what he saw when he saw her in person or maybe there was a character she exhibited that he really didnt like and cannot put up it, I dont know. Just saying.

This simple act that could be exhibited by any guy even the ones you meet in real life doesnt mean you should generalise all guys online aint decent, come on!
At the bolded, OP didnt say they met on an online dating site, but they met ONLINE, so now, are you saying you aint decent? Since you are online and you are a guy

some of your facts are very true!!! I'm Decent, maybe because my aim online is not to hunt for ladies be it dating sites of news blogs.

Why can't someone study his/her client first before stooping low


OP, work on your weakness and stop trusting u meet online, unless u guys have common history to share.


almost 90% of women molestation are linked to online friends this days. why can't people learn

op.. permit me to say this. what if ur just over reacting. what if ur mind is jst playing tricks on u and ur just seeing wat u want to see.

maybe because u feel guilty for having sex with him so quick now it looks like he is avoiding you or something. just give him sometime and trust dat it might not be the case. but sorry if dats exactly what he did.

its part of life don't beat urself too much and learn from it. these just goes to show u dat next time be extra careful and don't let ur emotions take total control.


PS: there are still decent honest and good looking guys out there

Seriously, you should request this thread closed. You have gotten what you need otherwise this thread will get messy.
Take heed to all the good advise here and make sure not to come back that you fell for the guy a second time.
Please move ahead and stop wearing your heart on the internet.

EroticAngelina:
Oh dear wipe ur tearz. wats done z done. so go nw and test urslf, and nvr make dat silly mistake again! e-dating z bad!

And where do you get that theory from? If it never work for you doesnt mean it wont work for another person. This is a typical example of e-dating that work https://www.nairaland.com/2116018/how-ended-up-marrying-lady

My immediate elder sister met her husband on facebook also. So if you dont know much about something, it's better to keep quite instead of committing fallacies.

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

Obviously you're very decent, for you to feel so very bad for your mistake. An average lady wont even care, they will only move on as if nothing happen. But just get that behind you, he dnt deserve you and i'm very sure that the right person will surely find you very soon. I'll inbox you, pls be very strong.

Op...my honest advice is : 1) Take some time to cry well. It will help release d emotions 2) Next time, be rational in dating and define ur boundaries.........emmmmmm, personally I don't "e-date", I don't "phone-date" I don't "Chat-date".

It was gonna happen sooner or later...
U slept wit him on a first date,, So?
He didnt bother chatting with u aftawards,, So?
He has changed in d way he talks 2u,, So?

I dnt see why u want any advice if u ask me, Sex outsyd marriage is a sin whether on a first date or afta 6yrs of dating.. This is nt a big deal abeg.. U guys had fun and he is moved on, u shld do same as well. If ur nt able to control urself is cos it happened on a 1st date and he is nt responding fyn again, dat shldnt b ur worry at all as long as it was protected.. Its simple Move On, u knw y? Cos there is ntn anyone can do to undo d did... and if it was nt a protected sex, my advice is u get tested...
Wish u my goodluck karma...

Regards Pius..

Dammyllionaire:


Obviously you're very decent, for you to feel so very bad for your mistake. An average lady wont even care, they will only move on as if nothing happen. But just get that behind you, he dnt deserve you and i'm very sure that the right person will surely find you very soon. I'll inbox you, pls be very strong.

Thank you so much

jauntty:
Op...my honest advice is : 1) Take some time to cry well. It will help release d emotions 2) Next time, be rational in dating and define ur boundaries.........emmmmmm, personally I don't "e-date", I don't "phone-date" I don't "Chat-date".

jaunty,tanks for the advice.God bless

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

The guy seemed to dislike something about you, maybe you are defitely not what he is looking for but just move on. You will defitely find love and your type, broken relationship is better than battered marriage. Besides, you were also not a virgin since he didn't disvirgin you.

Dammyllionaire:


Obviously you're very decent, for you to feel so very bad for your mistake. An average lady wont even care, they will only move on as if nothing happen. But just get that behind you, he dnt deserve you and i'm very sure that the right person will surely find you very soon. I'll inbox you, pls be very strong.

You r a very matured person.

Hope you don't have HIV sha o! Go and test yourself and repeat in 6 months.

First few dates should be in the open and not at home.

Anyhoo... I guess peeps have said enough.

I am not good at giving advice.
All i want to say is that these are the kinda of guys that make ladies feel that these online meeting is always a scam.
It has happened, but make sure u ask him why he is acting the way he doing right now. Then move on and do some other things with your self.

Please don't look back you don't need any explanations from him he has your number if he wants to reach you and i suggest you don't pick his calls either. This is where you begin to forget him any guy shows up date them not sleep with them save yourself for the real deal the man who can appreciate your worth and treat yourself right there are many wolves out there. What they like or not like is not your concern, your concern is you like yourself and you take fabulous care of yourself spiritually, emotionally and financially. I wonder if you know how special you are.

Your pussy stinks or stank then. Pls always make sure you are super clean. Next don't just give in to sex so easily. Make sure you thoroughly understand the person first.

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

Swear that you never chop a guy money before run away.