This thing has really be bordering me for a very long time now, and today when I actually shared the topic with my friends, we resulted in a long argument/debate.

Many of them agreed in taking their lovers to hotel as the best option. But it must not be in their matrimonial home.

While I personally disagreed with them, because am sure biblically adultery has nothing to do with where you have the sex, but with whom.

So the point here is... Is it the scene of the crime as people highly concentrate in condemnation of having sex in matrimonial home that matters? OR The sinful act involved?

Please this thread is strictly for married Men/Women and reasonable/responsible singles. Thanks

why were you stressing on reasonable singles
I agree with you. Its the act that is wrong. If the person likes (s) he should take the lover to the moon

[quote author=ArchEnemy post=30210316] why were you stressing on reasonable singles]

Because I want reasonable minds to speak, and the thread is not for children on NL

Whether the act is done in a hotel or in a matrimonial home or even in a church, as long as you are performing an act which is a sin against God and your spouse, you are commiting adultery. There is no need for self deceit. The bible made it clear; "Do not commit Adultery". It never gave excuses for anyone based on where it is carried out.

[quote author=pafestula post=30210542][/quote]Issokay Sir

I agree with Sophie,

However if the man is in a polygamous relationship or his wife has given him permission to cheat, where he commits his wrongs doesn't matter. Does a married man have to be monogamous?

Sophyrocks:
Whether the act is done in a hotel or in a matrimonial home or even in a church, as long as you are performing an act which is a sin against God and your spouse, you are commiting adultery. There is no need for self deceit. The bible made it clear; "Do not commit Adultery". It never gave excuses for anyone based on where it is carried out.

Seconded... exactly what I told them, but many of our people believes so far it is not done in matrimonial bedroom... they are safe.

Your bible has already given you d answer. Its d act itself. When u join your body with a prostitute, u become one wit her. I believe that all d demonic problems the lady has will automatically become yours. Pls b wise. God bless u

pafestula:


Seconded... exactly what I told them, but many of our people believes far it is not done in matrimonial bedroom... they are safe.

They will believe the act is safe somewhere else because the curse of hypocrisy is the problem with Nigerians. Its just like you trying to justify stealing because its done in a church or places not frowned upon. You steal, you have stolen no matter where you stole.

Though both are bad but I personally feel that it's more painful when it happens in one's matrimonial home.

Imagine a father bringing/sneaking a woman home. its a disgrace to the woman in front of her kids, neighbours, family and friends.

softysparky:
Though both are bad but I personally feel that it's more painful when it happens in one's matrimonial home.

Imagine a father bringing/sneaking a woman home. its a disgrace to the woman in front of her kids, neighbours, family and friends.

Abi o..

Lagunna:


Abi o..

Yes naaa. Imagine coming back home and your son begin demonstrate how one uncle arrange your wife on top your bed.

softysparky:

Yes naaa. Imagine coming back home and your son begin demonstrate how one uncle arrange your wife on top your bed.

Haaa.
That one will be strong o.

Sin is sin irrespective of location it is committed


adultery
dumping infants on the streets
child trafficking
prostitution
ritualism
murder
rape
paedophilia
beastiality
kidnap
filthiness
corruption
cursing
fraud
squander
greed
innate wickedness
creativity in crime

etc nigerians are all guilty of everyday all fall into the same category

Hmm....

SAMBARRY:
Sin is sin irrespective of location it is committed


adultery
dumping infants on the streets
child trafficking
prostitution
ritualism
murder
rape
paedophilia
beastiality
kidnap
filthiness
corruption
cursing
fraud
squander
greed
innate wickedness
creativity in crime

etc nigerians are all guilty of everyday all fall into the same category

How you left out fornication/pre-marital sex is a mystery to me

Sophyrocks:


They will believe the act is safe somewhere else because the curse of hypocrisy is the problem with Nigerians. Its just like you trying to justify stealing because its done in a church or places not frowned upon. You steal, you have stolen no matter where you stole.

You really nailed it. Thanks

crackhaus:

How you left out fornication/pre-marital sex is a mystery to me

adultery also consists of fornication and your point is?

SAMBARRY:
adultery also consists of fornication and your point is?

You're right, adultery is fornication and I have no point - forget I quoted you

crackhaus:

You're right, adultery is fornication and I have no point - forget I quoted you

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