i really need help!!! please somebody tell me wat to do when u lose ur loved one

Take heart life goes on, cos even if u cry from now till 10 yrs time the person will not come back to life. so learn not to think too much, occupy ur day with other friends and try contibuting in table discussion by so doing u will feel less pain of ur lost loved one.
Hope this help.

sorry to hear that. sad to say the memory and pain never goes away. just pray for yourself in the area of healing and get doing things you ought to do and get on with your life. you have your life ahead of you.

we lost my Gran and mum some few yrs back. i know they are with Christ i still miss them and the pain i just cant describe. especially that of my mum. you cannot forget uniquely nice people. infact you should never forget your loved ones. if you have the means do something to make their memory live longer than them.

may God help you and pour His healing balm on you and yours. Christ is always friend of the wounded heart. may He make you whole my brother

I seriously doubt Enockia lost his loved one in the manner people are thinking.

He's probably referring to his girlfriend who dumped him after he cheated on her with her friend. He's been moaning everywhere since the alleged incident and breakup.

bros, take heart. Next time try not to get caught by the "before I knew it" bug.

Knowing it isnt that hard.

cry then
cry some more,
then cry till ur too tired of crying,

if u do this for a while u'll get tired of crying and start living!!! Life goes on, who knows, it just might get better. The sooner u create new memories the old ones fade away

t4tgirl:

cry then
cry some more,
then cry till ur too tired of crying,

please ya @poster I didn't mean to laugh but this poster was quite funny okay here is my piece of advice. cry yes you heard me right just as t4tgirl said Allow yourself to grieve Don't be afraid to scream, cry, or get angry These things are part of the normal grieving process Let it out. Don't give up. As your grief process progresses, you'll have good days, Although it is necessary to grieve, there comes a time when you need to move on. You will get back to feeling like yourself, and you will feel happiness again. You will be almost good as new, but to be honest, there will always be some sad part of you that always occasionally show up and give you a pang of momentary sadness. but then again that is part of life. You really never get over the loss of a loved one, but as the saying goes Life goes on am truly sorry I feel your pain bcoz I have been through the same process

Only time can heal u its ok to mourn or cry take ur time ,dont let people rush u by telling u to move on with ur life as its always not that easy,try to spend more time with some close family and friends and do things that u like to will keep u busy.talking about it with anyone that will listen, it will also help release the sadness by sharing them than keeping it to urself,

Call the loved one many names to decrease the pains.

Jesus is the greatest comforter ;come to Him through prayer .He come comfort u.

Just try and be strong, believe in the bible hope of resurection.talk 2 sm1 bot it,cry when u are in mood to cause it helps 2 lessen d tension in you.

I just guess u have to deal with it somehow. . . . Life is not always fair but try & be fair to urslf. Cheer up, life does not end there.