what would you do as a guy if a lady tells you that she had a child for another guy after engagement? would you still continue or quit the relationship?

WAEC.
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No probs, another lady will have a child for me. E no hard!

Hiannnn! Dats incredible o.

Na red card straight away, but God forbid bad tin o

Wetin wan cos am? I dey craze? Na brk up sharp sharp . . Not because she had a child bt d fact dat she hid it to hersef until we're engaged

my advice:

its better to call off the engagement....that may be just one of her secrets....why would she hide such an important part of her life...it proves u dont know jack abt her.....she would feel like a stranger to you atm

hmmmm!

home sweet home.

enoqueen:
hmmmm!

home sweet home.

How does this relate to the question?

demelza:
How does this relate to the question?

stay at home till another guy comes around.

It is never too late to stop the marriage cos what gives assurance that she doesn't not have more than 1 kid?

afolag:
WAEC.
MOD hit enter mke dis tin jump to d FTP I wan mke naija pple gve opinions.

na farano and lalasticlala sweet work be that.

kallmemrB:
my advice:

its better to call off the engagement....that may be just one of her secrets....why would she hide such an important part of her life...it proves u dont know jack abt her.....she would feel like a stranger to you atm

you are right. girls like hiding their secret for too long. some even reveal their secret after marriage and that is the worst.

am so gonna call of d engagement faster than Buhari's speech, not because she had a child but cos she kept it a secret 4rm me till she feels i won't b av a choice. dont get me wrong, i love kids and would av still luv ha if i had known.

olexjay:
Hiannnn! Dats incredible o.

Na red card straight away, but God forbid bad tin o

That red card would be the size of a giant billboard. I'll cancel everything cancelable, before I discover shes a male man.

braine:



That red card would be the size of a giant billboard. I'll cancel everything cancelable, before I discover shes a male.

mesoade:
Wetin wan cos am? I dey craze? Na brk up sharp sharp . . Not because she had a child bt d fact dat she hid it to hersef until we're engaged

what if you love her so much?

teekul2:
am so gonna call of d engagement faster than Buhari's speech, not because she had a child but cos she kept it a secret 4rm me till she feels i won't b av a choice. dont get me wrong, i love kids and would av still luv ha if i had known.

you can still take the child as your own since you love the lady. the important thing is that she told you before marriage and not after. you can still move on with her.

If she can keep that a secret even while agreeing to marry me, heaven knows the kind of secrets she would be keeping while saying "I do."

I no want. We'd part ways jare.

braine:



That red card would be the size of a giant billboard. I'll cancel everything cancelable, before I discover shes a male man.

lol female pretending ever since 1900

clevvermind:
what would you do as a guy if a lady tells you that she had a child for another guy after engagement? would you still continue or quit the relationship?

Contract terminated. I will say "oops!, I just remembered that i have given a ring to another lady"

clevvermind:
you can still take the child as your own since you love the lady. the important thing is that she told you before marriage and not after. you can still move on with her.

i would av luv 2 but i cant forget d fact dat she once lied 2 me. i wont lie 2 u abt anytin, so i excpect u 2 do d Same wit me.

yomi007k:
No probs, another lady will have a child for me. E no hard!

FINAL ANSWER...

enoqueen:
hmmmm!

home sweet home.

But harmattan don pass nah..

See a doctor .

Just here 2read comments, shikina

clevvermind:
you are right. girls like hiding their secret for too long. some even reveal their secret after marriage and that is the worst.

These set of ladies are the most dangerous. They give men high bp. Most are beautiful though but the stress ain't worth it

Its possible she couldn't say it earlier because she was afraid of losing you.

Love can make us do the unbelievably crazy things.

If you found her worthy enough to engage her…emmmmm then you will love her still.

Its better she told you than you finding it out #my 2cents

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Better still talk about it and ensure there are no more surprises still in the pipeline

I know of a lady in my area in warri she gave birth to two boys out of wedlock. When she got married she never told her husband that she had given birth before. D family of the lady kept d secret for long finally one thing do two things breeze blow fowl yansh open. No be small kasala wey happen.

@clevermind I will cleverly disengage her! Reason not because of d child but because she was bein half smart..

Before we get so intinmate to d point of engaging u, simple courtesy demands you ought to have shared ur 'not so pleasant' past with moi.

Gbam!!! CourrrRrrt

@sneak3
You are right. Prevention is better than cure.

mytime24:
Just here 2read comments, shikina

i want to read your comment.

nobody wants a tokunbo. brand new tins.

clevvermind:
what would you do as a guy if a lady tells you that she had a child for another guy after engagement? would you still continue or quit the relationship?

then she will tell you it was a mistake but she told her friend she misses her baby daddy!

no be me and una!