Edusouls:
shhh you can stay and manage ur life,dont put so much trust in a woman, cos when the dissapointment comes, it will be heart failure for you....

Sori oh........ because I must trust my incoming wife anytym, anywher nd anyday. Dere mayb a lot of women outsider dere bt dere is only one woman 4 me. So others may nd can disappoint bt she (my incoming wife) can't. Tnks

cococandy:
lol we all know men can't survive when their wives die. That's why they remarry in less than 6months.

remarrying most time is never the answer. there is this guy in my former hood who sent two different women packing. he later owned up that living makes no meaning two him. he seems to be looking for that connection he had with his late wife in the women he sent packing. not easy on both side though.

@matyns303 wrote one of the most constructive replies to a topic I'v eva seen

rokiatu:
wow this is super amazing. God bless you and your wife manh.

Thanks, we are not legally married tho. So am not sure I can call her my wife, we have been dating for four years now.

I am currently away on a course, and we are both still very young. Hopefully within months of my return we will get things official.

martyns303:


Thanks, we are not legally married tho. So am not sure I can call her my wife, we have been dating for four years now.

I am currently away on a course, and we are both still very young. Hopefully within months of my return we will get things official.

All the best my dear.

Ezeanna:

Na wa o....
Part of your furniture? Just pray your wifey doesn't stumble upon this post or you go know the true meaning of inyanga dey sleep, trouble come wake am.

Dont get it twisted my friend, what I meant is this, take for example you take down ur flat screen TV down from d wall where it normally is in ur sitting room. Any time u walk into ur sitting room, u will noticed d void cause by d absence of ur TV. Her absence causes a void. and even if my wife stumble on this and takes offence, she has already 4given me of all my sins even b4 I commit them. Dats how sweet she is * grins*

I can't

mumumugu:
As long as i got a side chick. I can survive a year without her

akuna man

I can do almost everything for myself...but the one thing ...d one thing I find sooo hard....that I depend on her...is when I am watching football.....I never get up before the game is over.....and if not she...who else can I trust to ehmmm.....keep refilling my glass with ice cold beer? But that's just me...to each his own!

Adaezeagu:
akuna man

lwkmfh!!!!

Originalsly:
I can do almost everything for myself...but the one thing ...d one thing I find sooo hard....that I depend on her...is when I am watching football.....I never get up before the game is over.....and if not she...who else can I trust to ehmmm.....keep refilling my glass with ice cold beer? But that's just me...to each his own!

So, you mean to say you have not sent her packing because of her bar tending skills?

mumumugu:
As long as i got a side chick. I can survive a year without her

I stand corrected, but in a real marriage (one where everything is good but the man still insists on having a woman by the side), a side chick can never ever replace your wife.

There are just somethings your side chick will never do, it's then you'll start missing your wife... That's why men always say that there's girlfriend material and then there's wife material.

tulk2mi:

Dont get it twisted my friend, what I meant is this, take for example you take down ur flat screen TV down from d wall where it normally is in ur sitting room. Any time u walk into ur sitting room, u will noticed d void cause by d absence of ur TV. Her absence causes a void. and even if my wife stumble on this and takes offence, she has already 4given me of all my sins even b4 I commit them. Dats how sweet she is * grins*

lolz......
I hear you... Wifey must be doubly sweet for her to enjoy being classified in the same category with her hubby's TV set.

Can't say I envy her!

veave:




So, you mean to say you have not sent her packing because of her bar tending skills?

lol....i knew you will say something

u must be a very young man and a dreamer, when you grow u gather more experience of life...

esoboy875:

Sori oh........ because I must trust my incoming wife anytym, anywher nd anyday. Dere mayb a lot of women outsider dere bt dere is only one woman 4 me. So others may nd can disappoint bt she (my incoming wife) can't. Tnks

3cycle:

As a prostitute, yes they can.

Explain that please.

How do you really mean? and I want an answer and I want it now.

Tashaamania:

why you go dey propose with abokii ring kwanu?

Love dey see road again? abeg any ring wey I carry come, make you first talk say i gree, den I fit begin plaster you with those 18 and 20 carat diamond.

At least make I first confirm every every,you sef you dey feel me na?

mumumugu:
As long as i got a side chick. I can survive a year without her

....username at work

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

God bless ur mom plenty plenty for dat. It proves she brought up decent men

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

with men like this, there won't b stories of divorce again.happily we shall all live.

ejikeme:


lol....i knew you will say something

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

This post is Gold.... and I will archive it...

By the way, thanks MarvellousGod for making me see this...

Truckpusher:
Love dey see road again? abeg any ring wey I carry come, make you first talk say i gree, den I fit begin plaster you with those 18 and 20 carat diamond.

At least make I first confirm every every,you sef you dey feel me na?

Tashaamania:

You dun show me your 32 o.

Truckpusher:
You dun show me your 32 o.

shey you no like am?

Niggas here be forming macho macho! Na their type dey tell madam to hurry and come home.

...nairalanders be pretending since 1 AD

Tashaamania:


shey you no like am?

Why not ?
Only a frustrated man frowns when a woman flashes her teeth.

Ezeanna:


lolz......
I hear you... Wifey must be doubly sweet for her to enjoy being classified in the same category with her hubby's TV set.

Can't say I envy her!

Oh she knows shes got so much value in my life, just try to get above the classification.

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

...if there was a love option on nairaland....i would love ur post...

mumumugu:
As long as i got a side chick. I can survive a year without her

Read read ur bible...u need jesus..