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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:33pm On Feb 01, 2015
commanderquash:
As you have rightly said, it's a solvable issue.. The thing is that, it's the man that can solve the issue himself, firstly, he needs to know that he isn't satisfying u coz he doesn't last long, secondly he needs to take it upon himself to improve, i hope u are getting me, i mean he needs to have the mind set to prolong the duration for at least 10mins....Naturally, men aren't designed to last long but a man can last long if he have the will power to do so following simple techniques..... Let me ask a question here, have you discussed the issue with him and made him see reason with u?

Yes i have to which we got herbs but it didn't change anything. Maybe the herbs was fake, don't know. I don't want to put pressure on him, like i said earlier its the early stage of our marriage. I don't want him to feel like he isn't man enough or maybe i might want to cheat or presently cheating thats why i took this upon myself so i can just present the solutions to him indirectly there booting our sex life. I hope you understand me better now.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 2:35pm On Feb 01, 2015
alberto2k:


I guess u finally went to church this year grin
I dh house ni grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by commanderquash: 2:37pm On Feb 01, 2015
prettyjo:

I Dont believe in medicinal herbs unless its from a certified company,but how long will you dwell on that?
why not try watching pornography together,he will learn a lot from there.
lastly encourage him and Dont make him feel less of a man

Indecency won't work! Don't even go near it!

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by prettyjo(f): 2:39pm On Feb 01, 2015
[quote author=commanderquash post=30328476]

Indecency won't work! Don't even go near it! [/quote
its true,but you never could tell.
it might be of help to them.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 3:02pm On Feb 01, 2015
Rikidony:
HE NEEDS ERADIPLUS THEN angry angry


Pls break it down. What do you mean by ERADIPLUS ?
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 3:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
prettyjo:

I Dont believe in medicinal herbs unless its from a certified company,but how long will you dwell on that?
why not try watching pornography together,he will learn a lot from there.
lastly encourage him and Dont make him feel less of a man


I don't think porn would work. That would work in learning new styles and turning him on. He gets turned on, we try different styles but lasting long is the issue. Besides they take hard drugs before engaging in the act

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 3:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
commanderquash:


Bananas and pineapple will surely help, get him to eat this on daily basis for two weeks and see the magic coupled with some techniques, i bet u will always push him away or beg him to even ejaculate....



Hmm, thanks for the tip. Is there a special way he would take it? What are the other techniques? Pls kindly let me know. Thanks
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
Ok
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:08pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Two words for you


Sex manual.

Here is one(chapter 10)

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by adexsimply(m): 3:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
Dild0 cool
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


Yes i have to which we got herbs but it didn't change anything. Maybe the herbs was fake, don't know. I don't want to put pressure on him, like i said earlier its the early stage of our marriage. I don't want him to feel like he isn't man enough or maybe i might want to cheat or presently cheating thats why i took this upon myself so i can just present the solutions to him indirectly there booting our sex life. I hope you understand me better now.

Be careful with herbs. They can be toxic to body organs.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Ilekeh(f): 3:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Lol lemme guess. You were one of those virgins till wedding night?

Mrs. No sex before marriage?

This is just my guess.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by canalily(m): 3:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
Does that call for public adviceundecided both of you dont satisfy yourselves

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by timilehin007(m): 3:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
she shud buy a DlLDO
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
This is one of the things I fear most in marriage cry cry cry cry

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by lovinam: 3:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
You need to talk to him about it. Try to engage in pre-intimacy for long. Also stop giving him plantain.
pumacy:


@lefulefu

He hardly take sweet things. He abstain from adding sugar to foods that doesn't necessarily need it eg yam. He is a water freak. He drinks loads of water.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
What is your problem with excessive s e x?Always blaming the man for sex failure! If he cannot satisfy you you should try to do that by yourself! Please, go get some s e x t o y s to help yourself out! angry lipsrsealed

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 234GT(m): 3:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
Ask him to suck you down there and you will be satisfied.

Secondly, the next time he wants to bleep you, make sure you have sucked him and he has come at least once before he puts his cock in your punnany.

Funmi's coloumn in saturday punch will help you guys too!

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Melahou(m): 3:13pm On Feb 01, 2015
Let him take sex enhancing drugs...after two rounds you will come here and complain that it takes him 4hrs to come

He could go on herbal drugs to boost his sexual performance
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
Try and make him relax before the main thing, pre-intimacy is most essential, learn how to stroke his D, suck his D, caress him very well, look into his eyes while you suck him, With this he's P should be erect very well like rock of olumo, during the copulation, learn how to make him pause for a while when he's jerking, you can gently shift your V away from his D so that he can pause for a while, engage him with lots of kisses then, bite on his nipples then continueeee.. once he's about to come or coming, push your groin against his, let him know you enjoy him so much. immediately after he come, engage him again with kisses and stroke his D again..



If you still can't understand all these steps, Allow me to have him for just a Day

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ikenna374(m): 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2015
Ur husband kee? U just noticed? I guess he has dough n it blinded u. So babe, go get ur toys. Mayb his too busy makin it, or ur beauty just expired. Pim Pim Pim BOOAR
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by nuras: 3:16pm On Feb 01, 2015
Just go to hospital
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 01, 2015
Anyway, does he stay glued to his laptop or tablet? Does he self service? Does he drink wines or soda? Does he watch movies rated 18+? Does he drive long hours in traffic? Does he enjoy pap, custard or oats? Does he have females in his office?

Does he go to night clubs? Do you pre-intimacy before acting? Are you heavy?
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 01, 2015
I think u should read d perfect couple on sexuality section u wl learn alot
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by DPointMan(m): 3:17pm On Feb 01, 2015
Carrots & Cucumber could also help do the magic. And he should reduce sugary things. Also, you can help him changing positions during intercourse, try different styles, the momentary break in transmission can help in prolonging ejaculation. #MyPersonalOpinion.

All the best.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by olamonsor2: 3:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
Go an get Agbo.. Jedi opa eyin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
Your Problem Is Orgazm. Let Him Engage You In A Long pre-intimacy 4 U 2 Reach Orgazm. Then D Penetration Is Only Going 2 B 4 Belle.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by swtme(f): 3:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
U both should go to d hospital together
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
Does he come fast when using condom?
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by michaelbiz: 3:19pm On Feb 01, 2015
commanderquash:


Indecency won't work! Don't even go near it!

While I would like to agree with you, I think the guys out there should be allowed to answer the question better about the subject matter and the "p0rn" issue you raised.

This same thing happened in my university way back and the girl got married to the love of her life only to find out he needed to 'see something more exciting' than his wife to give her a halleluyah intimacy.
At first, we thought it was a joke.
The guy was just a gentle guy who probably doesn't even care about those things.

At some point in his marriage, he was devasted only to - quietly - ask himself if he wanted to push his wife to crawl into bed every time feeling sad or man up and face the challenge. My dear, if only you know what p0rn does to some guys, you won't understand its a medicine on its own.
He simply learnt from what he saw. #gbam

***seriously, this is not a joke. Dead serious***

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 01, 2015
Does he drink? If yes, help him to put a stop on that..on your part, when things are getting very heated, don 't dwell on his more sensitive areas, shift attention to exploring every other part of his body...that will hold him back from exploding and start over again building the momemtum...hope this helps....but hey,what do i know?
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 01, 2015
dovelike:
This is one of the things I fear most in marriage cry cry cry cry
Ashewo

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