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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by fexyrich(m): 12:10am On Jul 03, 2015
Don't ever advice a married couple to watch pornographic movies 2geda..especially in this situation..it would even make the woman desire to have sex outside her marriage esp when she begins to see how porn stars are active in bed,, she would want to look for a man outside who can also handle her lyk a pornb star..Especially now they are having this problem..NOte:pornography is a relationship and marriage destroyer and one of the major causes of cheating.it is not advisable at all.[quote author=prettyjo post=30328518][/quote]

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by torddy4u(m): 8:50am On Jul 03, 2015
Well,I think tht alwaz normal in early few months of marriage,he may be feeling tht u r a sister or over familarity,but in this case d woman need to be attractive not looking worst than he meet u,do not nag about d issue,but u r in charge now make him to do it d way u want...u kn wat I mean.cuz now he has some many things on his mind wch s*x is d last.so u hv to shift s**x to an agreeable level.on d side of d man,he may feel tht he doesn't need to kill himsef wit s**x,thereby lost interest in such.by d way...to hv a long s*x,there r technix to follow eg:if d man remove his mind while hv d s**x.if d man doesn't hv a navel contact.etc reach me on torddy4u@yahoo.com for more info(am married wit a son)
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 03, 2015
i dey come, make i quickly piss

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 5:21am On Jul 04, 2015
daily intake of Water melon juice + pure honey will surely help him.
Change styles frequent that will not will allow him to ejaculate easily.
Google wil help u too with meaningful tips.
GOodluck
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by henri2398: 12:44pm On Mar 10, 2016
To satisfy a woman in bed you need to keep these things in your mind:

• Give her breasts more attention
• Give her a center of gravity orgasm
• Surprise her with a quickie
• Gently pull her hair
• Talk dirty to her
• Nibble on her neck
• Bring her to climax with oral
• Touch her hot spot midaction
• Kiss her during sex
• Be more aggressive


You can suggest your husband to do the above mentioned things or you can also suggest him to read this - General problem that men faces during Sex and their solution

Hope this will help you out. Enjoy Sex!!!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Donemmy(m): 6:23am On Jul 09, 2016
Let him feast on a combination of banana [a lot of banana], pineaple & water melon then augument it wit bitter kola prior to action time & if possible place him on Adam's desire
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by macotrading72(m): 5:55am On Aug 07, 2016
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
I still find it hard to believe a woman saying her man can't satisfy her in bed, it kinda beats me, satisfaction on the female part is not all about insertion/ penetration, when a man knows he has such problem should think of better way to satisfy his woman, for example going down on her or better still get a vibrator or Love Machine and pleasure her with it end of story pending when they both find lasting solution to his problem.
I don't know about other men but this is my take on this if me I won't have any problem using even strew to suck the living day light outta her .......... I rest my case.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Rex123(m): 6:15am On Aug 07, 2016
Lol
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by JustHere2Observ(f): 9:06am On Aug 07, 2016
Prepare kunu aya aka Tiger nuts juice for him and let him eat lots of watermelon.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 11:38am On Aug 07, 2016
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
blend the green part of a watermelon and give two spoonful of the juice to your husband everyday. Thank me later.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ogoplus: 3:39pm On Aug 07, 2016
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Let your husband start with Google.....I don't know how open both you are discussing issues like this.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by dacoolestkc(m): 11:53am On Aug 08, 2016
Moana:
Insert bitter kola in his anus
you got to keep kidding me
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 1kinggy(m): 4:58pm On Aug 08, 2016
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

I'm beginning to think his case is psychological. He needs to take hisome mind off releasing when havingoing intercourse. Also when he's approaching a release, he should not continue the fast strokes, he needs to sloooow down. By timing his fast and slow moves, he can delay it a bit till it becomes part of him.

Some herbs can help, he can talk to those women selling local formula around, they have herbal options.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Dbrainiac1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2016
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:08am On Aug 11, 2016
nma24:
blend the green part of a watermelon and give two spoonful of the juice to your husband everyday. Thank me later.

Thanks dear. Kindly fill me completely on this.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:30am On Aug 11, 2016
pumacy:


Thanks dear. Kindly fill me completely on this.
We all know that watermelon is a natural aphrodisiac.... Just imagine how packed of vitamins the green part is. You can mix d juice with a lil honey to sweeten it a bit. Also try and make him take Banana/Yoghurt smoothie, that will also help.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by cotmag(m): 9:17am On Aug 11, 2016
Blend the following together and let him take 2 spoonful morning and night
1. Garlic
2. Onion
3. Water melon
4. Lemon juice
5.Ginger root
6.Pure honey

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by emerem: 6:50am On Sep 08, 2016
descoay:
This is not a serious matter. Let your husband take manix with milk for 40 days. Alternatively let him take a tablet of Vivera Sildenafil Citrate one hour before the action. There will be a lot of improvement and you will be sexually satisfied and happy in your marriage.

Please my good people, my friend recommended MANIX capsules for me when I complained of minor erectile dysfunction, but I have not noticed any improvement at all for the past three days am on the drugs. My problem was ; sustaining erections. I hardly sustain my erections as my heart is always weak to concentrate on the action, but it seems worst a day after using the MANIX capsules. Please has anyone used it and what do I expect please am worried. I have kids, so my problem is not sperm count.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by master247(m): 9:22am On Sep 08, 2016
Nonybb:
[b]Hello Dear Lady, my contributes might be painful to you or you might find it too gross to grasp. The issue with your husband is that men that m@sturbates frequently before they got married often have this problem. Men do easily m@sturbate and once they form that addict it ends up making them have sex like chickens. Sex is an internal chemical reaction and stimulation so the issue with your husband is that his brain has been adjusted for long to climax at a certain time range due his long years of indulgence to m@sturbation. Look at the SOLUTION... Let him involve the techniques of penetration and withdrawal. Anyime he penetrates you and about to climax, he should do everything possible to hold it, then withdraw. By that mechanism, he is strengthening his sexual control and his brain cell would adopt to it. Men who m@sturbate frequently usually have quick ejaculation because they do it out of quick pleasure, not knowing that the brain adapt to that range of duration and stick with it for life. Let him involve you in a long pre-intimacy for 45 minutes, then penetrate you and withdraw, penetrate again and withdraw. Do the first sex count. We call it sex count because as you bang your partner, and penetrate and withdraw, you count it. Start with 10. Do 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9..10 and then withdraw. Start all over again and before you know it you are already use to doing 50 counts. I did 200 counts with a partner, she climax, shout, moan and nearly explode. Since that day I stick to 100 counts[/b]

This lady is not the type that your 100 jerking recommendation will satisfy.

Beside, I do jerk 1200 before cum, at around 800-850 my wife is satisfied while I go up till another 300-350 jerk b4 cum.

1. Start with pre-intimacy, let your man learn how to give you serious and complete romance of your body for about 10mins minimum. Let him and guide him to play with your clictoris, and make sure that he dominates the acts.

2. Speak to his hears when ready for penetration like "honey can you try and jerk me 100, times before you cum? start with that and increase gradually as he improve.
tell him to count for you to hear 1 2 3 4........... change position intervals
You will be surprised how he will improve.
I jerk nothing less than 1200 times but I dd not start like that, my wife was patient with me and now she is the one to beg me to cum.Mind you, my wife is very active. we do engage ourselves at least 1hr real sex and we want to come again and do. So it's a real work any time.

If this is not effective enough, substitute step 1 with

You dominating the pre-intimacy. Suck his dick and make sure he cum first, restart and move to step 2.

3.Make sure you do it at least 3 times wkly and monitor his diet.

Another thing I want you to know is that masturbation doesn't make man to loose prolonged ejaculation.Infact, in my own experience I masturbated a lots before marriage to the extent that I dd not have sex for years even with my wife before marriage, I dd not know how active she is nor she knew mine and it dd not affect my performance on bed. Even though I stopped immediately I got married.

Study your man, read sex magazines/ technics. Google them, and be patient with your man to master them.

You can pm me for more

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by babysophie(f): 11:40am On Sep 08, 2016
Sex is not food. Inasmuch as he releases fluid enough to make u pregnant then i fink dt shouldn't be an issue.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by BlackMbakara1(m): 12:01pm On Sep 08, 2016
Kindly have him do the following:

1. Exercise a lot

2. Eat "Sour Sop"

3. He should try and avoid having his knees down (a trick when i was single) lol

4. Engage in alot of pre-intimacy before proceeding and withdraw a bit after couple of thrusting with fingers doing the other tricks.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 26, 2017
Hi Pumacy, did you actually solve this ?

And if Yes, how did you solve it? Seems like your issue has been going on since 2015.

Would really like to hear from you.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by MariamAlheri: 9:17pm On Mar 26, 2017
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

Give him FIN drink, I heard it helps.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Trailblazer8197(m): 11:31pm On Mar 27, 2017
I think I can help your husband with a herbal remedy. I tested it and it worked for me...infact it was awesome! But it has to be taken for 2 weeks or so.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by tabithababy(f): 4:42am On Mar 28, 2017
The op said she can't leave her boyfriend ( now husband) because of sex. Really Only to realize sex is very important in marriage. As for me, my husband must have a big peniiiiss and must last long in bed. First thing first undecided
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 1234onyekwe: 6:08am On Mar 28, 2017
commanderquash:


Indecency won't work! Don't even go near it!
what u do with ur hubby in ur matrimonial bed is worse than pornography, so why term as indecent.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by harveyspec: 6:53am On Mar 28, 2017

i hail u bros.
just get Tramadol 4rm any phamacy, 100mg shld b gud 4 u, bt if u knw u av a very strong blood u can go 4 200mg, add it wit any multivitamine of ur choice n u're gud 2 go. unlike other performance enhancement drugs, u'll never feel any reaction(unnecesary erection) until u're ready 2 go.

you wan kill person abi? tramadol nor be wetin them dey use play

Do you know the effect of 100mg or 200mg. you didnt say anything about taking it with or without food or the time to take it

that it suited your body doesn't mean it will suit others

Mods have to find a way of deleting such advice
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Sammiejokes(m): 7:46am On Mar 28, 2017
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
Sis this is the fact, encourage your husband to consistently patronize a good alagbo( herbs makers) the Togolese alagbo, he should drink their mixture for 3 months like three times a week. He should eat at least one bitter kola a day. Kindly testify before the house in three months time. I hope your husby is humble enough to do this or you can buy it home for him with his consent.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 28, 2017
tabithababy:
The op said she can't leave her boyfriend ( now husband) because of sex. Really Only to realize sex is very important in marriage. As for me, my husband must have a big peniiiiss and must last long in bed. First thing first undecided


Chaiii, you wee be very sweet oh tongue
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 7:08am On May 12, 2017
Hi Pumacy,

I think it's more like a psychological issue, in that you've tried the herbal remedy and it didn't work. By my experience, some "vanilla's" are more sweeter than other's in varying degrees - no offense meant please.

I normally last about 20 mins or more for my first orgasm, and doesn't stop till the 2nd one (totalling 40mins or more for a session). However, I met a very beautiful milf down the line, and she clearly told me her 2 previous ex don't last 2mins with her. I rebuffed it, and started working on her 'vanilla' with the pre - intimacy stage. But when l entered her 'vanilla', the sensation was like it was coated with immense sweetness, which l haven't experienced before.

I lost control momentarily, and had to 'withdraw'...whilst going back to the pre - intimacy stage with my tongue. I kept 'withdrawing' and had to repeat these steps about 5 times. One major key was her 'patience', but she later explained she experienced orgasm when l was using my tongue and fingers on her 'vanilla'. The moment she grabbed my 'rude boy' during the pre - intimacy stage, l knew it's time to delve in again.

The point is the man's 'rude boy' mustn't shrink while stimulating the sensitive part of the woman's 'vanilla' -
starts with letter "C". The man can try and maintain the 'rude boy' rigidity with his hand by stroking it, whilst using only his tongue on the 'vanilla' in case the woman's hand can't get to it.

On the other hand, infuse a bit of cinnamon spice into his meals, in addition with drinking green tea (minimum 4 times a week). Avocados and loads of vegetables must be considered too. Dark chocolate helps too, provided you can get hold of it. All these natural additives would not only strengthen his libido, but would allow enough blood to flow into his 'rude boy'.

I can't suggest viagra, due to it's side effects. It's a drug substance that porn stars use to stay long during their session. I do hope you can try all these steps (withdrawal + pre - intimacy of the C), cause enjoying an intense session is a serious business. The one to enjoy it most is the woman, not the man. I hope it works for you and your husband... wink! I wish you all the best.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by MYDEBBY(m): 8:54pm On May 12, 2017
Please just go to forever living products office and buy maca root supplement and ginseng for him, or better still buy Vega supplement, and give him samsu oil to rob at his dick your body go tell you bet me

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