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His Wife Does Not Work ! by harbibi: 5:55am On Feb 04, 2015
Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P):

P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

Whom do you think works more, from the story above

The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles. By: Daily Health & Beauty Tips

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by delishpot: 5:57am On Feb 04, 2015
harbibi:
Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P):

P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

Whom do you think works more, from the story above

The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles. By: Daily Health & Beauty Tips

True
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Mynd44: 6:45am On Feb 04, 2015
But I still will want her to work and achieve her childhood dreams. Everyone has that dream occupation they wanted and it will be my job as a partner to help her fulfil it. If the dream is only a dream, she must have things shr wants to do with her time and life.

The argument about house chores holds no water because I intend to do it with her. Not because of anything but it is part of me contributing my quota to taking care of our home.it is me telling her I have got her back and she does not have to do all the work herself as we are in it together. It is me reassuring her that I will rather do things together with her that for her or have her do things for me.

It is my responsibility, she is a helpmate not a slave. She is my wife not my maid.

When it all comes down, a quickie in the kitchen is a lot more available and when it comes to the main getting down, there will be no complains of tiredness because the work has been shared *wink*

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Nobody: 10:42am On Feb 04, 2015
#GBAM#Mynd44 don talk am no matter how rich my husband is I will like to work,there is this joy of earning your own money regardless of how small it is.
Females should not be deprive of this joy
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by NickiRoman: 7:11pm On Feb 04, 2015
Mynd44:
But I still will want her to work and achieve her childhood dreams. Everyone has that dream occupation they wanted and it will be my job as a partner to help her fulfil it. If the dream is only a dream, she must have things shr wants to do with her time and life.

The argument about house chores holds no water because I intend to do it with her. Not because of anything but it is part of me contributing my quota to taking care of our home.it is me telling her I have got her back and she does not have to do all the work herself as we are in it together. It is me reassuring her that I will rather do things together with her that for her or have her do things for me.

It is my responsibility, she is a helpmate not a slave. She is my wife not my maid.

When it all comes down, a quickie in the kitchen is a lot more available and when it comes to the main getting down, there will be no complains of tiredness because the work has been shared *wink*
I understand where you are coming from, I think he is referring to the illiterates and also educated men who don't want their wife to work because they see themselves as the"bread winner" but don't give much appreciation to their wife's cause they feel their just "House Wives".
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by harbibi: 7:16pm On Feb 04, 2015
I am also of the opinion that every woman should have a source of income no matter how small. It builds her self esteem and also earns her respect from all, her husband inclusive.
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by LordReed(m): 7:04am On Feb 05, 2015
Mynd44:
But I still will want her to work and achieve her childhood dreams. Everyone has that dream occupation they wanted and it will be my job as a partner to help her fulfil it. If the dream is only a dream, she must have things shr wants to do with her time and life.

The argument about house chores holds no water because I intend to do it with her. Not because of anything but it is part of me contributing my quota to taking care of our home.it is me telling her I have got her back and she does not have to do all the work herself as we are in it together. It is me reassuring her that I will rather do things together with her that for her or have her do things for me.

It is my responsibility, she is a helpmate not a slave. She is my wife not my maid.

When it all comes down, a quickie in the kitchen is a lot more available and when it comes to the main getting down, there will be no complains of tiredness because the work has been shared *wink*

And what if her dream is simply to keep house and have enough time for her family without being distracted by a 9 to 5?
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Mynd44: 7:36am On Feb 05, 2015
LordReed:


And what if her dream is simply to keep house and have enough time for her family without being distracted by a 9 to 5?
I am not attracts to such people. So I cant marry such a person and so that situation can mot plausibly come up

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by pickabeau1: 7:43am On Feb 05, 2015
LordReed:


And what if her dream is simply to keep house and have enough time for her family without being distracted by a 9 to 5?
Some have this dream and there are guys who are capable of supporting such

It is however fraught with potential abuse as you are dependent on the man
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by NickiRoman: 7:58am On Feb 05, 2015
pickabeau1:

Some have this dream and there are guys who are capable of supporting such

It is however fraught with potential abuse as you are dependent on the man

Hmmmn,That's true being dependant on anybody breeds contempt
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by LordReed(m): 8:06am On Feb 05, 2015
Mynd44:

I am not attracts to such people. So I cant marry such a person and so that situation can mot plausibly come up

Neither am I but I think we should not try to shoehorn everybody into the "you must get a job" mold.
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by LordReed(m): 8:09am On Feb 05, 2015
pickabeau1:

Some have this dream and there are guys who are capable of supporting such

It is however fraught with potential abuse as you are dependent on the man


Darn right. There is even another side to the abuse and that is some of such woman become so idle they begin to do all the wrong things, drugs, alcohol, gossip mongering, adultery, gluttony and whatnot. I won't support such rubbish.
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by pickabeau1: 8:23am On Feb 05, 2015
NickiRoman:
Hmmmn,That's true being dependant on anybody breeds contempt

Exactly it is independent of gender

LordReed:

Darn right. There is even another side to the abuse and that is some of such woman become so idle they begin to do all the wrong things, drugs, alcohol, gossip mongering, adultery, gluttony and whatnot. I won't support such rubbish.

Yes while more common with ladies
Men too who are dependent on their wives get involved with sleeping around and watch football highlights all day

In my opinion a woman who has to take time off work for family reasons should have a target

Have kids quickly or space well
Keep relevant with trainings, certification or volunteering
Resume to work

The major issue is the economic situation where jobs r scarce
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by slimyem: 8:43am On Feb 05, 2015
Work is a lot of things but I'd prefer to the definition as a physical and mental effort directed towards "earning money" regularly. Otherwise,it's mere activity/chore that alternatives could be found for.
this has been overflogged.cool
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Specialist900(m): 8:51am On Feb 05, 2015
LordReed:


And what if her dream is simply to keep house and have enough time for her family without being distracted by a 9 to 5?
do we really have such ladies in Nigeria today?
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Ishilove: 6:42pm On Feb 05, 2015
Mynd44:

I am not attracts to such people. So I cant marry such a person and so that situation can mot plausibly come up
What manner of ibon is this?!? shocked shocked sad

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Mynd44: 6:49pm On Feb 05, 2015
Ishilove:

What manner of ibon is this?!? shocked shocked sad
Sleep typing na.

What you should be worried about is the"Travesty of Intelligence" (Lemme borrow from Uncle Wole) that happens on home page tongue

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by AdeniyiA(m): 7:43pm On Feb 05, 2015
Ishilove:

What manner of ibon is this?!? shocked shocked sad
AK49 cheesy
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Ishilove: 7:56pm On Feb 05, 2015
AdeniyiA:

AK49 cheesy
Ibon bazuka grin cheesy
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Feb 05, 2015
Mynd44:

Sleep typing na.

What you should be worried about is the"Travesty of Intelligence" (Lemme borrow from Uncle Wole) that happens on home page tongue
grin

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Amya(f): 9:09pm On Feb 05, 2015
Being a house wife is also a full time job. Where I have a problem with housewives is where they're doing that not for themselves or their kids but because the man of the house insists she's good for nothing else.

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by LordReed(m): 7:34am On Feb 06, 2015
Specialist900:
do we really have such ladies in Nigeria today?

Oh yes there are. Some of them are not able to realise that dream because of economic conditions or the need to appear as an independent woman but those of them fortunate enough to marry well off men will show their true colours.
Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by cococandy(f): 7:44am On Feb 06, 2015
Amya:
Being a house wife is also a full time job. Where I have a problem with housewives is where they're doing that not for themselves or their kids but because the man of the house insists she's good for nothing else.

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Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by Specialist900(m): 10:41am On Feb 06, 2015
LordReed:


Oh yes there are. Some of them are not able to realise that dream because of economic conditions or the need to appear as an independent woman but those of them fortunate enough to marry well off men will show their true colours.
yeah. Economy will force them to work and support the family. I was only asking because I've not seen or heard from any lady with such views.

I even have a friend who's been looking for a way to do something and support the family cos she's not comfortable just laying idle

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