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Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by obowunmi(m): 9:21pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
mutter: Not abusing you dear. Here you are bragging about a husband who doesn't talk to you. Not abusing you, just saying it's not normal. You appear to be confident about accepting abusive behavior and it shows in your responses. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by Nobody: 9:57pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
babyosisi:Thank u my sister. Tell d truth to our nollywood-watching sisters who think that life is lived on prescription. Real thinkers & real men dont gossip. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by richyblink1(m): 10:12pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Thanks for the compliment 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by richyblink1(m): 10:14pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
bukatyne: Amen! And yours too |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by richyblink1(m): 10:16pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jadelyn007: Thanks! Smiles |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by mutter(f): 10:19pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
obowunmi: You know that is the way you see it. What do I need with a man who rattles on none stop and just talks allot of crap or lies. My husband is not a many of many words but steadfast as a rock. We don`t have secrets we share all our experiences yet he does not talk much. What is wrong with that. Quite honestly sometimes I wish he would talk a bit more but much better than a man that talks none stop.. But then my husband would never talk ill of anyone or let you do the same. You just can`t gossip either 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by veave(f): 11:29pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
obowunmi: Jesus! How can you say this about another person? Do you know her in real life? Even if you do... please, dont say what can cause fight abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by veave(f): 11:31pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
richyblink1: God bless you. I wish i had your strength to deal. |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by veave(f): 11:42pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
jadelyn007: Nne, it doesn't have anything to do with supportive family. Something can happen to someone, you will not even see the mouth to tell another person. You will even be too co.fused to remember that you can actually be liberated from it... Na God dey help... |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by baralatie(m): 12:18am On Feb 12, 2015 |
kemachuk:he built a wall around himself!it is not a problem as long as he understands roleplay but for him to accept to communicate as you put it.you have to be witty(he will know that you are forcing him to talk and he won't mind) only pick the communication lines that he cannot avoid but make a contribution and always enjoy that particular moment you indulge yourself. after that moment leave him and go and do something else. don't overdo nor over talk. |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by Nobody: 12:37am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter: Mine too Talkative men irritate me Most intelligent and focused men don't talk much,they just plan and execute and you are shocked and full of amazement That is my man I am the chatterbox and he doesn't mind me The foolish ones talk up a storm and it's all talk There is one childhood friend of mine that is still looking for a wife,I suspect his talkativeness has scared all the girls away and I just didn't know how to tell him till recently he told me a pastor he met told him to learn to talk less I said in my mind ,he sure is right,you need to zip it a times He can keep me on the phone one full hr and 45 mins of that time was him just yak yaking and I will be looking for a window of escape The downside to men of few words however is that you almost have to be a mind reader sometimes and over the years I have become one I can pick out when something is troubling him just by looking at his face 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by richyblink1(m): 6:44am On Feb 12, 2015 |
veave: Amen! Bless you too. The strength is within, it is called the strength to carry on against all odds. It is one strength God empowered us with to carry our families along. |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by Nobody: 8:33am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Everyone is different and everyones needs are different and that is why you MUST always choose someome who you are compatible and comfortable with. Some people like to talk and some people dont. There is no hard and fast rule, so long as you are not hurting other people with your words No doubt, talking helps you to bond and talking is a form of communicating. You cannot effectively communicate if you dont talk @poster there is a diiference between your husband not wanting to talk to you at all and him not interested in your topics. The former is a problem. If its just that he is not inteststed in Kim or Beyonce, then there are a thousand of other things that you can discuss. Look for a common ground and gradually take it from there. |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by jayne8585yahoo(f): 9:34am On Feb 12, 2015 |
richyblink1: wow wow wow~ i am exactly like your wife, we are lovely people just that people misunderstands us, we great thinkers. i like telemundo natgeowild and so on, i recently entered facebook after so much yabbing from friends and families they see me as too full of myself but God made it wonderful by giving me someone like you an opposite of me who is an extro extro extrovert. so we go out more often, socialize and recently i am even the one that is initiating social activities self. you are right again it is from my family, e.g. my father has never eat out or even gone to beer parlour since after marring my mother. he drinks beer but he buys it and take it at home, my husband will even prefer we go out for weekends and lodge in hotel every weekends, so you see. it has made me to view this life in a different angle and i am thankful because had it been i married someone like me hmmmm, people will not visit us, and no one is an island, continue with your work, all is well. thanks for doing what you are doing to your wife. |
Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by bukatyne(f): 11:34am On Feb 12, 2015 |
richyblink1: Amen |
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