.WARNING::THE BEST AND THE MAIN THING TO DO IS TO TELL THE PARENTS,TO FREE YOUR CONSCIENCE,.. IF NOT,YOU WILL REGRET IN FUTURE,SEEING THEM SPOILED AND BECOME NUISANCE.. YOU WILL WISH YOU TOLD THEM EARLIER....PLAY YOUR PART DEAR!!!

espn:
before man nd GOD can u swear with ur entire life and the future dat remains unknown that u haven't flogged someone who is not kid before?

Yes I can swear I have never done that and you better believe it. However I have spoken and scolded them where they did wrong. Praised them when the did something good.

player007:
Why are you people saying he has no right to punish them because they are not his kids? How would you feel if it were your own children that were caught doing such, and and your neighbour walks up to you and says ah baba/mama lagbaja, i saw them having sexx wich eachother that day oh, just didn't want to discipline them. You know they are not my kids?

Lets see.....
So you get to your neighbour's place and catch their children "knacking" themselves, you pick up a cane or your slippers, land a few good strokes, accidentally hit the kid on the head and he slumps and never wakes up. What do you do bruv? Sounds like something out of a movie? Trust me it happens and you are have now committed an offence and would be charged. you might get away with manslaughter. THEY ARE NOT YOUR WARDS. You do not have the right to discipline them. Report them and move on with your life....

mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

u are a fool

Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

First, establish a relationship with the children, then call each of them separately to advice them about the wrong in the things they were doing. Then, let them know that sex is the preserve of married couples ONLY, and that whoever indulges in such without being married will face severe punishment by God. This is to bring to their knowledge that sex is wrong when you are not married, and especially as they children of same parent.
Now, after you have gained their confidence, let them know that there's something that their mummy and daddy needed to educate them about, and that at the appropriate time, you will lead them to their parents for the lesson. In all of this, show them that you love them. Okay.

Then, you will now start to work on their parents. First, ask their parents if they've ever observed and funny and unnecessary behaviour among their children. This will draw their curiosity towards you wanting to hear something. You will not tell them what you have witnessed between their children, but gladly inform them that sex education is not wrong if they teach their children about it. At this level, they will become more apprehensive.
Finally, tell them that there's something you want them to know about their children, which you will not tell them yourself but will do if they will allow you to invite their children into the matter.

When the children are finally brought in, due to the education you've already given them, they will now realised their error and will tell their parents all they have been doing behind them. Don't forget that these children must have seen their parents doing it previously or they must have learnt it from bad company which they are now practising. For a loving parents, they will thank and even praise you for your wise counsel, and I tell you, this will mark the beginning of these parents to take a closer and careful observation of their children. I am sure they are the careless ones hence this could be happening under their nose without their knowledge.

Anyway, people may not buy this counsel of mine, but I assure you that it will work. GOD bless you.

Holywizard:
if on a very gud day i touched de kids when they're on de right path eeeh...and they reported it to their parents. Hell will loose on the entire street because dey will nt try 2 hunt me down only, but make sure everybody start seeing me as a child abuser

Didn't you know all this before you decided to flog the kids? ..... and isn't this why you should have reported the kids to their parents? I'm almost sure the kids are still carrying on and if in a few years time there is pregnancy you will have no problem in letting the parents know about this incident.

If they are my kids,i will love to know so please tell their parents.

j

Let them be

A child belongs to a village. I agree.

The laws in Nigeria and all over the world are the same.
It is a criminal offense to beat them.

Now for all of you praising the OP. Just answer one question. He beat them for one single act he caught them doing. What has he achieved?

Pain for an instance, probably hitting on naked children- which is perverse.

But what has he achieved- the kid`s will be more careful about hiding it in the future.
He cannot go to their home and monitor them.

You should rather be angry with the OP for not telling the parents. It is only the parents that can be able to control it effectively. Even probably sending one of to boarding school or a relation.
However he has left the kid`s exposed to the dangers of this abomination. I wonder how many times they have committed the same offence since then.

Now to you crowd that want to raise the village- ask him to go and tell the parents. Then you are contributing to the raising of the children.
Hailing him for flogging the children is not the right approach.

As a parent I would be mad at you for not telling me at once. He should have done that.
What those children did would have been criminal if they were adults. But the OP has committed more than two crimes.
- beating children
- beating them naked.
- aiding and abating and concealing an offence.

So you see the OP neglected his actual duty, which was to report the kid`s and went into doing something he was not meant to do.

Remember I never said that the kid`s did not deserve a beating and certainly they would have gotten a good trashing from their parents.
Yet I also believe that it was the neglect of their parental duties that led to that.

And finally a little bit in my own affair.
For those calling me a child. I would like you to know that I my first son is 31 and in a very good job. My next two are studying in elite uni`s and the rest are coming up.
I am a very strict mother but also one with heart. I command respect from my children and high moral standards but I do not need to beat them into it.
raising black kid`s in Europe, keeping them off the streets and down to earth, off drugs, alcohol and so much more is a very difficult task. If my method has worked out for my kid`s then it cannot be so bad.

Now I have had several African kid`s stay with me, the longest was for two years. Many of them run to me when they have conflicts with their parents and want to leave home and get housed by the authorities. Some are even brought to me by the authorities

When they come to me I put them up and listen to them, I explain to them why their parents are so strict and I also help the parents to understand the children and how the feel.
See what I want you to understand is not that I am doing some kind of charity- certainly not! I love kid`S and always have an open door and ear for them.
I just want you to understand that many parents are loosing their kid`s because they cannot find the healthy balance for bringing up kid`s that are growing up in the conditions exciting today. The african way ! the african way! and then the kid`s are away!

spare the rod spoil the child...flog them more ...I need to stretch my hand...all the floggings they gave us some people should taste it too...but KONJI NA (someone complete this for me lemme warm soup first)

ojoe88:
u are a fool

Young man judging from your profile pic, I am old enough to be your mother!
You see apparently all the flogging your parents gave you never helped make a decent young man out of you.

My kid`s would never ever talk like that, not even to a child.
Now put your tail between your legs and hush off

Gosh the standard of education these days! Young kid`s that cannot even read and think objectively.

Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

Please let their parents know as soon as possible, but they should keep you out of it by not telling them you did. They can refrain from questioning them for now because they will deny rather they should work at catching them red handed while trying to indulge in the act because they will still want to go down that way again.

If to say na maheeda Dem trash wit cane maybe she for no craze like this... Smh. The parents have a right to know. As long as your spanking was limited, without scars, it should be the least of dia concerns. But those kids would hate u till dey get older and
o

Missy89:
why are you flogging and punishing kids that are not yours?

Sit them down and counsel them then mind your business

In Africa, Nigeria especially, 1 person gives birth to a child, the whole community brings him up. If I was caught doing such or any other wrong thing for that matter and a neighbour flogs me, as long as no be the kain flog wey tear all my body, my parents will thank the neighbour sef

Inform their parents ASAP.

Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

do u grow up like that?, You are beaten for every mistakes? That is called child abuse bro,you think beating a child without knowing the real cause of the mistakes/behaviour is the right thing? A child is more likely to learn the right thing,when he or she is talked to,not beaten!

Am sorry bro, you are the teenager here, oh teanager(according to your spelling above) and you can never! grow up!

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

hey missus,i dunno why am defending ya,but your comment and replies here are spot on! You are mature

crazysaint:
who else read this bulcrap

i did,and ain't bullcrap

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

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I laff when u sed "No matter what they did there is no justification"... So I ask YOU, what silly justification could exist for such despicable act

Let's put on our thinking caps when commenting on issues.

My worries! was it an unprotected sex? sex education should be taught, parents should know and do the needful, they need to be closely watched...@13 Puberty has set in as a girl and a year later in a boy, then @10 i'm short of words, they both should be cautioned

Smh at these 'you dont have right to flog them' shouts.
This is one of the mentality the current generation of parents have adopted ; the dont touch my child parents.
This mentality is part of the reasons for the growing decadence in our society.
I could remember while i was growing up, we had this general fear of doing anything wrong.
Not just the fear of being reprimanded by our parents but also neighbors alike.
But nowadays, most children feel 'untouchable' cos of the percieved "nobody should touch my children" mentality.

Op this is a very sensitive issue which you have to thread carefully on.
I caught my neighbours daughter aged 13 one day in my former house having s.ex with an adult in the annex toilet. I called and warned her. I later went to her elder sister's husband whom she lives with, told him what I saw and I advised to keep monitoring the girl in order to keep her on line.
I was surprised that some minutes after, this same husband called me to come and repeat what I told him earlier. I was surprised, yet I repeated when I told him. The girl immediately countered me that I was the one having and forcing her in the toilet for s.ex. Shocked was I and before you can say Jack the sister's husband descend on me, called other people and I was almost killed. The police were invited and was taking to the station in handcuff. To cut a long story short, a top officer from the area command was called by me. He mandated the IPO to thoroughly and diligently investigates the case. Eventually the truth was revealed, with a lot of begging for forgiveness from people I have to drop the case.
In this vain I will strongly advise you that you should forget about the incident, none of the kids are yours, the society is so bad and corrupt that any step you take to correct same may be read and termed wrongly.
Be careful and think deeply before you act.

chidyhels:
Who are these 'You shouldnt have flooged them' people

Op...Go ahead and involve their parents

I was part of a bible club holiday teaching for children of primary school age
It baffled me when these children started dropping condoms, pornography, etc after different sections of counselling.
The confessions were

I just don't understand what they mean by "he had no right to flog them..

Rhemmymatician:

In Africa, Nigeria especially, 1 person gives birth to a child, the whole community brings him up. If I was caught doing such or any other wrong thing for that matter and a neighbour flogs me, as long as no be the kain flog wey tear all my body, my parents will thank the neighbour sef

Exactly!
But that culture is fast changing now.
Nowadays, some parents are ready to eat you up, if you dare as much as hit their kids, not minding whatever reason they were reprimanded.
Though some folks take it extreme.

mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

someone like u wil blame our leaders for nt beibg righteous, bt u knw notin bt ryteousnes 4 sayn its wrong to flog kids for havin sex. I fear for d futurw oooo

litaninja:


Lets see.....
So you get to your neighbour's place and catch their children "knacking" themselves, you pick up a cane or your slippers, land a few good strokes, accidentally hit the kid on the head and he slumps and never wakes up. What do you do bruv? Sounds like something out of a movie? Trust me it happens and you are have now committed an offence and would be charged. you might get away with manslaughter. THEY ARE NOT YOUR WARDS. You do not have the right to discipline them. Report them and move on with your life....

Still don't agree with you. Our fore father's will always say that Oju merin lo n bimo, sugbon igba oju lo n to. If those kids grow up and end up rapeing other people's children then you have a case to answer. Both to man and God. So because its not your own child the neighbour is sleeping with that's why you think its not your problem right?

THIS ? OF URS IS VERY ANNOYING?
Y NOT? I AM BEGINNING TO SUSPECT U WALAHI

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

oga, this is Nigeria not obodo oyinbo, beatin is part of trainin in africa. if na me hen i go too beat them their mama go say Thank you #supportTKOMZY

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

Since "they're not his kids" according to you, why do he have to report them then?. Why do he even need to do anything about it?. I would like to know the logic behind this opinion of yours.

What are you waiting for?pls do nform thier parents,abomination

Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

Don't tel der parents. Befriend d kids and counsel them. They are already sexually exposed so using force on them will only aggregate d situation.

Its ur job to b der counsellor to teach & warn dem abt d effects of premarital sex.