urchbarbie:
Chai. Nne. Been secretly waiting n hoping to hear d best of news from d sunday ish. Herz! Its high time u let lekan go. As Babyosisi said once, dere is no 1 particular man for u. Just hapu d tots of lekan, am sure someday uld look back n smile

Herzumpther:
That will be a difficult thing to do dear.

Biko hold me, I'm not happy at all.

Herzumpther:
That will be a difficult thing to do dear.

Biko hold me, I'm not happy at all.

Herzumpther:
And finally he decided to talk after a long silence since Sunday. He is still saying No.

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babyosisi:


This is just 4 days,don't give up on Lekan
What does your mom say?

urchbarbie:
Pls dont make me cry ;(((((<<herz>>)))
pls just tink of it as d best ok. Av got a frnd who her dad also refused her first intended. She cried loads. Today she is married to a better man, not just financially sound, he is responsible n more emotionally tuned to her.
Take is dat God is keeping u for someone better

urchbarbie:
Pls dont make me cry ;(((((<<herz>>)))
pls just tink of it as d best ok. Av got a frnd who her dad also refused her first intended. She cried loads. Today she is married to a better man, not just financially sound, he is responsible n more emotionally tuned to her.
Take is dat God is keeping u for someone better

Herzumpther:
Nne how will I start to even forget lakes? That's one impossible mission I can't accomplish.

No lakes, no Igbo man I swear.

Herzumpther:
Mum said I should relax. She said I should know that my father won't marry my husband for me and dad has lived his life so I should learn to live mine. She just kept telling me to stop crying and relax, that my father will come around with time.

Dad said he is just not comfortable with Yoruba people. I also called my uncle and he said dad is not in the position to choose for me and lakes looks and sounded genuine so I should stop crying and relax.

urchbarbie:
Kai! Dis one strong o. Am sure u av put it in prayers. If its going to be mrs herz Lekan, God wld find a way for u nne. Dont cry inu?

babyosisi:


I agree with them
Let me ask you
Is Lekan ready to walk you down the aisle soon?
How soon
When does he hope you folks get married if all went as planned

Herzumpther:
Nne how will I start to even forget lakes? That's one impossible mission I can't accomplish.

No lakes, no Igbo man I swear.

Herzumpther:
August.....once we complete our marriage course. We are yet to start but he wants it for august and catholic marriage course last for 6 months.

Dimples192:


Aaaaah baby girl I've been waiting for the good news. Look at the positive you have your mum's support and uncle so listen to them and stay positive. I believe your dad will allow this union once he realises you are serious. Let the dust settle and have patience hun. Nothing worth having comes easy. I have a feeling your being tested. Your dad is testing your man and god is testing your love for him. Good things are coming. Be happy and stay positive. Your happiness is in my prayers. < Air hug>

babyosisi:


You need to talk to your dad
Not now,not when you are emotional
what were his exact words when he spoke and what was your response
Your response is very critical
You need to give the right responses

Herzumpther:
His exact words were Herz you can't marry that man because I'm not comfortable with the Yoruba's. I didn't say anything, I just left the room.

Herzumpther:
And finally he decided to talk after a long silence since Sunday. He is still saying No.

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Bukatyne
Cococandy
Moca
Formarts...........

babyosisi:




Does your father listen to your priest?
You may have to go with Lekan and meet the priest
My fears in all this is that Lekan may resent your dad and rightly so for putting him through all this and that won't be good.

Herzumpther:
Thanks dear. I pray dad changes his mind because we can't wait to became Mr and Mrs o. Just yesterday lakes called me his heartbeat. my mother talked about testing too but I was too busy crying to even hear her out. My daddy is hurting me real bad.

babyosisi:
Even me sef don begin fall for Lekan kwa
Maybe I should start calling azubuike Lekan

Herzumpther:
His exact words were Herz you can't marry that man because I'm not comfortable with the Yoruba's. I didn't say anything, I just left the room.

Herzumpther:
Hmmm. He listens to his father a lot. Tomorrow we will go see my priest. Lakes is traving on Sunday and yes I'm standing firm, I'm not going to give this up.

Dimples192:

He is not babe trust me he's teaching you a lesson in love! You are very blessed to have such an amazing dad. He wants the best for you. This is a test for hubby cause daddy knows men talk and now he's waiting for action from this man. Your father sounds like a man's man so hubby has to man up and convince this man he is worthy of his princess. This is training him in how important you are and trust me once he gets you he won't mistreat you because he'll remember this lesson. Please let your dad do his thing. If hubby is worthy then it will be. Amen. Girl you got me all emosh

babyosisi:


You have many positives
Go with Lekan and see the priest

johnjon:


I don't get this. So your dad doesn't want you to marry a yoruba guy but he lives in a yoruba state. In short he is a tribalist and we don't need people like him in our land. If he hates yoruba people that much, he should move back to his village. Shikena

johnjon:


I don't get this. So your dad doesn't want you to marry a yoruba guy but he lives in a yoruba state. In short he is a tribalist and we don't need people like him in our land. If he hates yoruba people that much, he should move back to his village. Shikena

Herzumpther:
All this test for marriage? Is marriage this difficult? I will never forget all this till I die I tell you and even after marriage it won't leave my heart. To get married is hard o.

babyosisi:


Some don't start off rosy especially where a family member says no

Before we continue,how about lekan's parents
How do they feel about you?
Have you met them yet?

Herzumpther:
All this test for marriage? Is marriage this difficult? I will never forget all this till I die I tell you and even after marriage it won't leave my heart. To get married is hard o.