crackhaus:

That the woman I call mother painstakingly supports a man who has another family elsewhere with her hard-earned money, is none of my business?

Why do you assume the woman knows, and will still be comfortable lending him money?

I said its a possibility that she knows her hubby has another family..Not THAT She knows

So if a mother is borrowing/giving her husband money... what is the business of the child

If I hear say I believe this story.

Your father walked into a room and pretended not to know you, up to the point that he asked who your father is and even told you to come outside and you just stood there mopping? Your half sister and her mum didn't notice anything awkward? Duh!

Abeg tell your mother! Its her problem not yours thus she needs to be aware.

pickabeau1:



I said its a possibility that she knows her hubby has another family..Not THAT She knows

So if a mother is borrowing/giving her husband money... what is the business of the child

In a healthy family setting, it is not the child's business - after all, they are husband and wife.

But when this mother keeps doing this (despite her own financial difficulties) and the person she's doing it for probably uses it to directly/indirectly finance the other family, then it becomes the business of her child to protect her.

crackhaus:

In a healthy family setting, it is not the child's business - after all, they are husband and wife.

But when this mother keeps doing this (despite her own financial difficulties) and the person she's doing it for probably uses it to directly/indirectly finance the other family, then it becomes the business of her child to protect her.

No wahala

Omooba77:

She needs to tell her mum fast;this man may be planning evil to eliminate her.

Eliminate her to gain what?
Why not move in with the other desperado?
Hope he eliminates ALL HER KIDS TOO!
Or does it end with her?

Na so e easy?
Mtcheeeeeeeew

freecocoa:
If I hear say I believe this story.

Your father walked into a room and pretended not to know you, up to the point that he asked who your father is and even told you to come outside and you just stood there mopping? Your half sister and her mum didn't notice anything awkward? Duh!

As in ....

This is super story

pickabeau1:



No wahala

Or to avoid the unnecessary blackmail, he should tell her and we all live happily transparent lives after that.

I agree with the disclosure aspect

Its the repatriation of funds im wondering about

However im still wondering if this story is true

crackhaus:

Or to avoid the unnecessary blackmail, he should tell her and we all live happily transparent lives after that.

Omooba77:

I understand you;it is more pronounced in Yoruba land because of religion inclination of being a christian;an Hausa man has nothing to hide because he can marry 4 wives

I swear u jst spoke my mind..
Abeg enta any Mr. Biggs around u mk u collect Big stout wiv my name...

pickabeau1:



As in ....

This is super story

This will make a very good script, make I call Wale tell am.

freecocoa:


This will make a very good script, make I call Wale tell am.

That part was so funny

The fada must be an triple oscar winner

pickabeau1:


That part was so funny

The fada must be an triple oscar winner

Even Nollywood with their unrealistic scenes won't come up with something like that, the girl must yell "dad what are you doing here" or vice versa.

freecocoa:
Even Nollywood with their unrealistic scenes won't come up with something like that, the girl must yell "dad what are you doing here" or vice versa.

lol

pickabeau1:
I agree with the disclosure aspect

Its the repatriation of funds im wondering about

However im still wondering if this story is true

The story may or may not be true, but surely you have heard of situations where a man runs two families with either one unaware of the existence of the other.

crackhaus:

The story may or may not be true, but surely you have heard of situations where a man runs two families with either one unaware of the existence of the other.

Yes that happens

So whats the issue in this scenario


is it because he is not capable of managing two families

Since the reigning thing on NL is killing of partners for infidelity and betrayal, what we should be talking about is how this woman should go about killing the man once she finds out. Shoot him, smash a pestle on his head and tie his legs to her car and drag him on the road, should she stab him to death or be humane and just poison him?

ileobatojo:
Since the reigning thing on NL is killing of partners for infidelity and betrayal, what we should be talking about is how this woman should go about killing the man once she finds out. Shoot him, smash a pestle on his head and tie his legs to her car and drag him on the road, should she stab him to death or be humane and just poison him?

No;that doesn't solve the problem.......imagine the two of them are boy and girl and they fall in love;let her mother knows.......Incest nko

KanwuliaJara:


Eliminate her to gain what?
Why not move in with the other desperado?
Hope he eliminates ALL HER KIDS TOO!
Or does it end with her?

Na so e easy?
Mtcheeeeeeeew

The man can kill her; knowing he has other kids, if she didnot inform her mum on time and let the wind blow and allow the whole world see fowl yansh

Omooba77:

No;that doesn't solve the problem..

Not according to the lunatics, psychos and miscreants association of nairaland though.

asadike:
Yes, pls don't keep it from her but make sure your mum is not hypertensive o. Calm her down and in a quiet environment, explain everything to her. She has suffered enough to be ignored. She deserve to know d truth.

Very good suggestion; her mum needs to know

I will so tell ehnn

I'll put myself in my mum's shoes, would I love to know the truth or not? And yes, I love people telling me the truth no matter how hard or difficult it might be. Hence, coming from that perspective, I will do the same thing and tell my mum.

Omooba77:

The man can kill her; knowing he has other kids, if she didnot inform her mum on time and let the wind blow and allow the whole world see fowl yansh

His NYANSH is already open. Trust me, your mother is not naive. She is a NIGERIAN woman. Don't under estimate the power of KARMA!!!

Whether you tell her or not, if he wants to kill her. . . . Nothing prevents him from doing just that!

Your best bet?
Let him stew in his own Feces!

Ur mother,s grtest enemy is ur so called father pls be careful of him cos he can kill u to keep his secret run immediately to ur mum and relative tell them what's happening cos the man is a wicked and heartless soul he hate ur mum And ur siblings including u so he is not ur dad he is a mere sperm donor so treat him a such
Don't keep such secret on a woman that has been a mother and a father to u pls knW itis ur bizness to let d cat out of the bag as the 1st child of the familly

This is super story!!!

Biko tell ur Mum. It will break her heart yes but pls tell her.
What rubbish.

Tell her fast, if you have not done so

amacastel:
Ur mother,s grtest enemy is ur so called father pls be careful of him cos he can kill u to keep his secret run immediately to ur mum and relative tell them what's happening cos the man is a wicked and heartless soul he hate ur mum And ur siblings including u so he is not ur dad he is a mere sperm donor so treat him a such
Don't keep such secret on a woman that has been a mother and a father to u pls knW itis ur bizness to let d cat out of the bag as the 1st child of the familly

My own thought too

Bigcake:
Tell him to bribe you with a huge sum of money, i mean a very huge sum. After successful collection of the money, you can then let your mum know about everything.

The so called 'huge sum ' would be gotten from her mum since she has been financing him all these while. Its as good as milking her mum.

pickabeau1:



I said its a possibility that she knows her hubby has another family..Not THAT She knows

So if a mother is borrowing/giving her husband money... what is the business of the child

In The article, we discover that at the initial stage, her mum giving Dad cash wasn't really an issue till she discovered his other family so i guess that's when it became her concern, rightfully so cos they are family.

Springz:

In The article, we discover that at the initial stage, her mum giving Dad cash wasn't really an issue till she discovered his other family so i guess that's when it became her concern, rightfully so cos they are family.

Don't get your point