hello nairaland,

Happy valentine in arrears. We re still in the era of love, and there is this question that has me really confused and befuddled.

As a result of my post of facebook on motivation, gospel, and life, I'm seen as a mentor to many friends and followers, and some come to me for advice which by God's grace I give.

Lately, a facebook friend sent a message and it reads:

"Miss......I see your good works and words of wisdom and consolation to many confused and distracted people out there. May God continue to uphold and empower you. Please this question have been bothering me because I'm getting married in 2 months time and my fiance and I have been arguing about oral and anal sex. He said he sees nothing wrong with it and would like to do them when we get married.

I see it as a sin and a diabolic act in the sight of God. This argument is making me think he is not the will of God for me. What do you think about oral and anal sex in Christian marriages? Can christians indulge in them or not??"

So nairalanders please I'll really appreciate your brilliant contributions, I know we have matured and wise people on nairaland, so please let them come out.

Thanx...

What's the meaning of spiritually hygienic.


Btw exactly how edifying is this current obsession with sex?

Some of you are taking 50 shades of grey too seriously.

Because the main character's name is christian, so therefore?

Sexual perversion is sin before God..
If God made provision for anal and MouthAction, nature would have taught us that..
I term those who engage in sexual perversion as juvenile delinquent suffering from behavioural disorder..
How will a sane man stick his dick into a hole full of filth and harmful bacteria all in the name of pleasure??
When has the joystick become a chewing stick? Is the mouth now the vagina..
Is God wanted men to be smokers, he would have made a chimney on our head..
African ethics and norms frown on sexual perversion.. A man who insert his joystick into a woman anus has gay tendency. When no woman is around, he will stick his joystick into the hole of a man ..
Its a simple psychology. That's how gayism started. All the addicted man thinks of now is anus anus anus..

who knows if Adam and Eve did all the stuffs op mentioned??
cos people now do them doesn't mean it never existed
i don't think its a sin since they are married
missionary style can also affect one spiritually
if u think mouth action,etc ain't spiritually hygienic then the missionary style is also not hygienic
cos both can affect u spiritually





not anal sex
gross!!!!

Our problem is that we take religion too serious

itstpia8:
What's the meaning of spiritually hygienic.


Btw exactly how edifying is this current obsession with sex?

Some of you are taking 50 shades of grey too seriously.

Because the main character's name is christian, so therefore?

i dont get is dis ur contribution or ........

Blackett:
Why the fvck won't you so called Christians mind your own damn business?!?! Whatever 2 married adults decide to do in private, in the confines of their bedrooms, on their marriage bed, shower, dining table, floor, car back seat(with the ac turned on, ofcourse), kitchen, wall, is up to them. It's their sex lives. It's what they want. It's how they want to fvcking do it. . . The saddest ting about this whole issue is that those who are single are the ones poke nosing into affairs they have nought to do with!

I expect that before a man and woman decide to get married, a mutual agreement has been reached in everything including sex. If they have decided, of what business of yours is it, pls? If a lady cannot agree to adventurous styles of sex with her fiance, she should walk. What's with bringing private issues up for discussing every time?

1 Thessalonians 4 vs 11, anyone? :::"and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You
should mind your own business and work with your
hands, just as we told you". . .

heeellloooo...excuse me??...do u mind reading the post again and apply understanding plsss.....if u dont den pls dont comment thnx!

Daninya11:
Sexual perversion is sin before God..
If God made provision for anal and MouthAction, nature would have taught us that..
I term those who engage in sexual perversion as juvenile delinquent suffering from behavioural disorder..
How will a sane man stick his dick into a hole full of filth and harmful bacteria all in the name of pleasure??
When has the joystick become a chewing stick? Is the mouth now the vagina..
Is God wanted men to be smokers, he would have made a chimney on our head..
African ethics and norms frown on sexual perversion.. A man who insert his joystick into a woman anus has gay tendency. When no woman is around, he will stick his joystick into the hole of a man ..
Its a simple psychology. That's how gayism started. All the addicted man thinks of now is anus anus anus..

hhmmmmmm....am learning thnx

Hmmm, what can I say. it's a marriage, so I guess it is permissible...

I should hope so...more for oral.

Just yesterday, a JOKER PASTOR said missionary style is the only accepted 'holy' style. What brought anąl and òral again
In Islam, I think it's only anąl that is no no.

Lerra NLer

God's wrath knows no bound...for every man owes it to humanity to live righteously

Only sodomy I'm not for

Maybe. What the Bible is clearly against is premarital sex, once you're married you can do whatever you want with your body with your partner. Anal sex is gross tho, but oral is way to go... I'm not spiritual, so I don't know if it's spiritually hygienic, all I know is my wife has to be physically hygienic before I go down on her.

Good luck!

This matter strong oh

Spiritully speaking, sex in marriage is meant for reproduction. Can MouthAction bring reproduction? No. Can anal sex bring reproduction? No. So spiritually speaking they are not hygenic.
Let me quickly add also, that practicing only missionary style of sex is the reason most married people cheat cos they can't go all adventorous with their christian spouses. There other ways to enjoy transaction, while inserting the right ATM card in the right machine.
Consult camsutra pls

its wrong

thats why I am marrying a born again christian man

so I wont be committing sin

The first rule shall be " Do what thou wilth "

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Bleep as you like, so far its your lawfully wedded wife or hubby

hm

hou

zaralady:
hello nairaland,

Happy valentine in arrears. We re still in the era of love, and there is this question that has me really confused and befuddled.

As a result of my post of facebook on motivation, gospel, and life, I'm seen as a mentor to many friends and followers, and some come to me for advice which by God's grace I give.

Lately, a facebook friend sent a message and it reads:

"Miss......I see your good works and words of wisdom and consolation to many confused and distracted people out there. May God continue to uphold and empower you. Please this question have been bothering me because I'm getting married in 2 months time and my fiance and I have been arguing about oral and anal sex. He said he sees nothing wrong with it and would like to do them when we get married.

I see it as a sin and a diabolic act in the sight of God. This argument is making me think he is not the will of God for me. What do you think about oral and anal sex in Christian marriages? Can christians indulge in them or not??"

So nairalanders please I'll really appreciate your brilliant contributions, I know we have matured and wise people on nairaland, so please let them come out.

Thanx...

How can a right thinking man want to put his penis in his wife's anus? Is he bisexual? Maybe he watches too much indecency.

Gross. Better tell that woman to run for her dear life. Where do people pick up such perversions from?

Do whatever pleases u ..nd make ur marriage hold...

Lemme ask oyedepo d hell gate keeper

Nothing we no go see for 9Ja. Your husband said he want styles in sex, u said No DAT it's ungodly. Well, don't marry him. Wait for God to come and f^ck the hell out of u with different styles. Mtchew....

Sex is sex and when it's between two married people, it's no sin. Though I don't support 'annal' sex.