missclassy:
Op your girlfriend made the best decision of her life.
First of all, the guy is stronger than you, reason being that he beat you to a pulp
Your girlfriend probably feels more secure and confident being around the guy than being around you

Secondly, you displayed a high degree of immaturity and stupidity by confronting the guy in the first place even when you knew that you weren't strong enough and its good you payed for it

Thirdly, the babe is obviously tired of you. To her, you suck. She doesn't respect and value you anymore, that's why she could walk out with the guy that beat you up

Op It must suck to be you right now
Sorry but you weren't just man enough. There must be something that you are not doing right.
Don't think its just this girl. I believe the next girl you date would still take you for a ride.

Best advice: develop on your person and manliness.

Lothario:
Yesterday I got into a fight with a guy in a bar because he was taking my girlfriend number and I interrupted him and was shouting on top my voice at him to his face and also hurled insult when he couldn't take it any he punched me and I retaliated in kind we fought and I was beat up real bad until we were separated right there my girlfriend dumped me and still went with the guy I've been calling her she isn't picking my calls what do I do please I need urgent advice

Welepamilayo:
Awww. So sorry to hear. You will have to chuck it up to a life experience. A woman that will do that to you, is probably dangerous for your life anyway. You escaped at the right time. You'll meet someone better along the way. Try to avoid confrontations like that in the future. If the girl is entertaining the guy, she was not committed to you in the first place. Better to find out now than in the future. If you are in a similar situation in the future, handle it in a level headed manner. You lose more as you lose your temper. The macho thing is hardly cute in real life

Lothario:
Yesterday I got into a fight with a guy in a bar because he was taking my girlfriend number and I interrupted him and was shouting on top my voice at him to his face and also hurled insult when he couldn't take it any he punched me and I retaliated in kind we fought and I was beat up real bad until we were separated right there my girlfriend dumped me and still went with the guy I've been calling her she isn't picking my calls what do I do please I need urgent advice

ronald4lif:
She's moved on, you should too.

And next time don't get into a brawl over a woman you are not married to. You should have let her give out the number and ask her later why she had to disrespect you. Even if it were your wife there's no justification in engaging in a fight like that. Go heal your wounds and be glad she left you. The disrespect and embarrassment she made you go through is enough to dump her even if she didn't dump you first

wemmieslim:
Good girl,couldn't be more proud of her,any girl will dump your sorry ass cos u don't deserve a girlfriend yet,u need a whole lot of growing up to do,you're hereby grounded for 2years,you're not allowed to go on a date with a girl or even ask a girl out until u'v proven to be matured enough to handle a relationship, you don't have a say in this cos anything you say now will be used against u in the court Law..


Case closed

Dygeasy:
@bolded, how please?

OGeeKush:



Lwkm.. God i love this piece of $hit

wemmieslim:
Good girl,couldn't be more proud of her,any girl will dump your sorry ass cos u don't deserve a girlfriend yet,u need a whole lot of growing up to do,you're hereby grounded for 2years,you're not allowed to go on a date with a girl or even ask a girl out until u'v proven to be matured enough to handle a relationship, you don't have a say in this cos anything you say now will be used against u in the court Law..


Case closed

Lothario:
Guys thanks for ur advice I ve done so much for her things which a husband would do for a wife I was planning on marrying her after she finishes frm the university she attends BIU to top that I am the one paying her bills as someone born with a silverspoon would for somebody he loves my mum got to know I was beat and warned me to stay clear frm her and that she will arrest her if she comes back and she charged my two brothers to keep an eye on me I've made up my mind to end the relationship I sent her a text message already informing her it's over.

Blackett:
This is why:

1. Never ever disturb a guy toasting your girlfriend in your presence.
2. Never ever fight a fellow man over a girl
3. Read 1 & 2 again.

Guys, girlfriends are not wives. Stop going the extra mile for them. A girl who wants to leave you will leave you. She doesn't care that you get beat up, instead she blames you for being immature, and she is right.

So, grow the fvck up and put girlfriends in their position. You come first at any point in time.

That is why I have a problem with the too many female worshipping and female ass kissing threads perambulating this section these days. They believe it's all about them and their emotions. Those _stupid threads only show that guys of nowadays don't have any idea of what it fvcking means to be a man!