You can be together and grow old together if both of you are
willing to work it out.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in
love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their
touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous
experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s
called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”
Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing
there, doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But
after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of
love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they call at
all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens) and your
spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, you
will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage
when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am
I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire that
experience with someone else. This is when relationships
breakdown.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look
outside for fulfillment just to start that same circle all again
and later realize the former partner was way better than the
present one and then some people opt out once more to start
that same circle all over with another new person and at this
point the world starts looking at you as a clueless no good
person who can never be happy with anyone.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right
person, it’s learning to love the person you found.
Did you read that last paragraph?please get this once more;
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right
person, it’s learning to love the person you found.
Loving someone is not by accident,its not a feeling,its a
conscious decision by the people involved to be together and
weather the storms together and not looking for an easy way
out. The storms of lack,incompatibility childlessness, family
scuffle,infidelity,bitterness,and many more.
Until both of you are willing to make it work,only then will
GOD come in to make it happen. Because two people can
never work together except they agree.

Absolutely wonderful this deserves to be on the front page mod!!!! Fp please!!!!!

It's inspiring, so love the man/woman you marry and don't marry the man/woman you love.

It takes a team (Man and Woman) to conquer in a relationship.

Thanks for taking your time to read and share.