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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:06pm On Feb 21, 2015

kelvinnn:
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Na wetin me like gan gan.....be that.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nicklaus(m): 1:06pm On Feb 21, 2015

irunobo3:

Hello

take it easy girl, she's just asking a question, answer if can and shut up if u can't. Why the insult ? I see you are so pretty that you are bold enough to hide your face behind an emoticon wink

share ur pix as u quote me wink

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 21, 2015

Nicklaus:
take it easy girl, she's just asking a question, answer if can and shut up if u can't. Why the insult ? I see you are so pretty that you are bold enough to hide your face behind an emoticon share ur pix as u quote me

Pls don't waste ur time on her.. she's not normal

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by irunobo3(f): 1:10pm On Feb 21, 2015

Nicklaus:
take it easy girl, she's just asking a question, answer if can and shut up if u can't. Why the insult ? I see you are so pretty that you are bold enough to hide your face behind an emoticon share ur pix as u quote me

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by emerged01(m): 1:11pm On Feb 21, 2015

I dont know which category I fall but all I know is that I love being alone most times,i dont party,maybe because i dont drink alcohol. I don't have friends and my wife, most times complain that I don't talk to her.
most times i see people as burden. I love people that understand me,mostly I enjoy the company of kids. they are very funny and they sometimes talk to me as if I'm one of them. things that surprise most is that when I scream at them to back off they don't feel moved,they always come for me. maybe because they know I cant hurt them. Thank God last two months I have my homeboy.
I could remembered when one of our neighbours approached my wife,"why is your husband like that"? I can stay in door for weeks. am I an introvert?

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by dljbd1(m): 1:11pm On Feb 21, 2015

CHM11:
Not totally true, I'm an extrovert who loves introverted ladies.
We will get along very well so far she is not 'rude'.....that's the only thing hat scares me away from some self acclaimed introverts. They tend to gather up all their hae and explode occasionally in the face of the person closest to their heart (in this case the partner)

All in all,....for a relationship to work there must be some degree of compromise.

Hmmm
Imagine if it is the other way round: whn d guy is an introverT and the babe na extrovert. Its nt easy maintaining such relationship. It takes a mature woman to understand such a man...sadly, its hard finding such lady nowadays.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:13pm On Feb 21, 2015

Am an introvert too my boyfriend has been trying because am the type that doesn't like it when a guy is trying to be clingy grin

am always like "shebI you saw me last week,y do u wanna see me now" it's not easy especially when the other partner is an extrovert.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:14pm On Feb 21, 2015

introverts have a handfull of friends..why? because it takes a great amount of effort and time on the part of the other person to break those walls erected by an introvert,once you break that wall,a certain level of trust is built and then the introvert becomes freer with this person and along the line a bond is created..now once this person does something that breaks that bond,he/she will be shut out for a veeerry long time.So to date an introvert,you have to break that barrier by becoming good friends first for a period of time before you think of dating.Trust me we introverts can be Fun once we are comfortable with you...my few friends know im a mad man lol wink

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:15pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:
I dont know which category I fall but all I know is that I love being alone most times,i dont party,maybe because i dont drink alcohol. I don't have friends and my wife, most times complain that I don't talk to her.
most times i see people as burden. I love people that understand me,mostly I enjoy the company of kids. they are very funny and they sometimes talk to me as if I'm one of them. things that surprise most is that when I scream at them to back off they don't feel moved,they always come for me. maybe because they know I cant hurt them. Thank God last two months I have my homeboy.
I could remembered when one of our neighbours approached my wife,"why is your husband like that"? I can stay in door for weeks. am I an introvert?

Yes you are. I dnt get bored indoor

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:18pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:
I dont know which category I fall but all I know is that I love being alone most times,i dont party,maybe because i dont drink alcohol. I don't have friends and my wife, most times complain that I don't talk to her.
most times i see people as burden. I love people that understand me,mostly I enjoy the company of kids. they are very funny and they sometimes talk to me as if I'm one of them. things that surprise most is that when I scream at them to back off they don't feel moved,they always come for me. maybe because they know I cant hurt them. Thank God last two months I have my homeboy.
I could remembered when one of our neighbours approached my wife,"why is your husband like that"? I can stay in door for weeks. am I an introvert?

yes you are lol......i only go out when i want to buy something.....im always indoors with my laptop...either watching a movie,reading or playing games and of course i love doing it alone...the presence of any other human annoys me quickly.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Achilies(m): 1:20pm On Feb 21, 2015

Being an Introvert person is a blessing to me.

But being in a relationship wit an extrovert can be a pain in the ass.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Mars88(m): 1:20pm On Feb 21, 2015

lagmostkuit:
Relationship wise- i'm so boring and am too shy for my liking and maybe that's why i've not had a lasting relationship.

Social life- i'm lively among my friends who knows me fully well.

To conclude it- ORIGIN turns me into an extrovert

your conclusion is the bomb!

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by NaijaKnight(m): 1:21pm On Feb 21, 2015

SassyVixen:
Honey is there anything like an ''Extroverted Introvert''? because i happen to fall into that category,i haven't had a relationship in years but my few friends tell me i am too much 'fun' not to be in one. Funny thing is i rarely go out and i am still waiting for a cute Tarzan to swing down my door and claim me Sad

Tarzan here!

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:22pm On Feb 21, 2015

Mars88:

your conclusion is the bomb!

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by 4words: 1:23pm On Feb 21, 2015

sinaj:
m an introvert nd de always mistake me mostly for a snub...itz not bin easy in reltnshp either coz most piple bliv introverts r lovers of demselves nd find it difficult to fall in love since we are always cold nd shy

Wooooh so you're introvert. Introverts have a lot of things planned out in their minds buh need someone to help push them to achieving it. Good listeners and a lot more. Good to know you are one

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Kingsasian(m): 1:23pm On Feb 21, 2015

I use to be a "chronic introvert"and very timid too before I got into the university. Till date I stil prefer keeping to myself than going out may be its one reason why I have few friends.but whenever I am in the presence of close friends, gf and family u will think am the opposite because I love to crack jokes and to make people laugh. My exs and gf understands my other nature as well. Although I wouldn't want to date my type because I prefer girls that are outspoken.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:24pm On Feb 21, 2015

midasbliss:

Lol.

Lyk seriously

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by freegaza(m): 1:25pm On Feb 21, 2015

It is not easy...I don't have a galfriend since 2009...My first and last gf got married and since then I have been single... She is an extrovert and me an introvert... People always think am boring and soo quit...But she thinks am the best thing that has happened in her life...We are still friends her husband inclusive

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by zizytd(m): 1:25pm On Feb 21, 2015

To all the shy extroverts, we can discuss anything but we r still shy. I hail ourselves.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Achilies(m): 1:27pm On Feb 21, 2015

I don't mind having an Introvert as a girlfriend

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:28pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:
I dont know which category I fall but all I know is that I love being alone most times,i dont party,maybe because i dont drink alcohol. I don't have friends and my wife, most times complain that I don't talk to her.
most times i see people as burden. I love people that understand me,mostly I enjoy the company of kids. they are very funny and they sometimes talk to me as if I'm one of them. things that surprise most is that when I scream at them to back off they don't feel moved,they always come for me. maybe because they know I cant hurt them. Thank God last two months I have my homeboy.
I could remembered when one of our neighbours approached my wife,"why is your husband like that"? I can stay in door for weeks. am I an introvert?

Yes you are,mostly we av d same xtics...pple misunderstand us,yes i love kids too,but it gets to a time that i get tired of em'. i can stay a whole day in my room surfing on my phone,i dont watch t.v and when i do i watch discovery channel to enlarge my thinking horizon,neva had a girlfriend for going close to 3yrs now and am not searching,i just want to be alone,i dont drink,watch porn,smoke or party,am also shy associating with new pple,but am a big time flirt and also romantic.
My mum wld come to my room and check on me as i dont join d family discussion/eat @ d family table.i dont talk anyhow,but when crossed,u wld be afraid of my rage...
Wanna know you more,most especially hw you deal with your wife,i can learn alot from you,marriage is my biggest fear,i dont pick calls coz i prefer written msg in anyform;its d best medium i can express myslf(writing),i love powerbikes,i ride them in my imagination till i can afford one,pple see me as rude and snobbish most times even when my actions are harmless,alot of criticism but i learned to love myslf,but if God cld give me a understanding wife,she wont be able to live a moment without me.....that i can beat my chest...so how do you and madam cope with xamples plz?
Music and my phone has been my best buddies.i which i had cash,i would have got a passport,take a trip to an island where nature dwells,marry a foreigner and never look back....
The friends i have are those who are old enough to be my father or uncle.i dont take advice from free thinking pple

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by eldav(m): 1:30pm On Feb 21, 2015

Being an introvert is so sweet. I don't understand the fuss about partying or going from one place to another because you want to meet friends.

I only hv 3 friends, at least I try. Since I came home on holiday I haven't stepped out from home,except for errands and Church,and i'm loving it. Extroverts are really missing out cos seclusion is fun wink

About relationships, that is tiring. Getting the girl isn't the problem, staying with her is because most times I prefer some quiet.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by duduade: 1:31pm On Feb 21, 2015

ichidodo:
How to cope with an introvert 101..."Give them their space"...

yur head dey there

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by duduade: 1:34pm On Feb 21, 2015

IHate9ja1:

Yes you are,mostly we d same xtics...pple misunderstand us,yes i love kids too,but it gets to a time that i get tired of em' i can stay a whole day in my room surfing on my phone,i dont watch t.v and when i do i watch discovery channel to enlarge my horizon,neva had a girlfriend for going close to 3yrs now and am not searching,i just want to be alone,i dont drink,watch porn,smoke or party,am also shy associating with new pple,but am a big time flirt and also romantic.
My mum wld come to my room and check on me as i dont join d family discussion/eat @ d family table.i dont talk anyhow...
Wanna know you more,most especially hw you deal with your wife,i can learn alot from you,marriage is my biggest fear,i dont pick calls coz i prefer written msg in anyform;its d best medium i can express myslf(writing),i love powerbikes,i ride them in my imagination till i can afford one,pple see me as rude and snobbish most times even when my actions are harmless,alot of criticism but i learned to love myslf,but if God cld give me a understanding wife,she wont be able to live a moment without me.....that i can beat my chest...so how do you and madam cope with xamples plz?

loooooooooooool.... Ok watching this in 3D o..... Wanna learn

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by emerged01(m): 1:35pm On Feb 21, 2015

JeffreyJamez:

yes you are lol......i only go out when i want to buy something.....im always indoors with my laptop...either watching a movie,reading or playing games and of course i love doing it alone...the presence of any other human annoys me quickly.

......but I need to learn how to talk to my wife. last week,a mother in the Lord visited us, she told the woman that I don't use to talk to her. I was so surprised when the woman replied her, that she has to cope with me,that my type don't talk,that one of her sons is like that.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:38pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:

......but I need to learn how to talk to my wife. last week,a mother in the Lord visited us, she told the woman that I don't use to talk to her. I was so surprised when the woman replied her, that she has to cope with me,that my type don't talk,that one of her sons is like that.

its simple.....start tallking....especially if she makes effort to know how you feel.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:40pm On Feb 21, 2015

Trust me every very active nairalander is an introvert let not pretend
Once u don't like being the center of attention u ar an introvert
Don't deceive ur sef
Introvert ar very funny when they ar with friends. give me 4minuite and I will tell u if u ar an introvert or the opposite

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by eldav(m): 1:42pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:

......but I need to learn how to talk to my wife. last week,a mother in the Lord visited us, she told the woman that I don't use to talk to her. I was so surprised when the woman replied her, that she has to cope with me,that my type don't talk,that one of her sons is like that.

I'm afraid you can only do so much. People like us don't talk anyhow or always. But I also found out that if you have something in common with the person it helps in the communication aspect. Try and see her as your friend and find out things you two have passion for and build on that.

You may not be perfect at it,because sometimes the wave of silence will come and talking won't be so interesting, and other times it will pass. Just make do with what you can come up with because this nature can't be changed. I've tried and I know.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nobody: 1:43pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:

......but I need to learn how to talk to my wife. last week,a mother in the Lord visited us, she told the woman that I don't use to talk to her. I was so surprised when the woman replied her, that she has to cope with me,that my type don't talk,that one of her sons is like that.

Yes i get your point,u still dont need to talk much,all you need is action,draw her close,look into her eyes,make her feel special and she wld keep coming back to you
How do i know? av been there

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by emerged01(m): 1:48pm On Feb 21, 2015

JeffreyJamez:

its simple.....start tallking....especially if she makes effort to know how you feel.

that is one of my problem. my situation grow worse when I'm feeling bad,that is when I prefer to be left alone,that is when I can keep mute. now she has developed a trick. whenever I'm in that mood, she will give me my baby to carry. Lol! I will surely smile to homeboy.

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Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:51pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:

that is one of my problem. my situation grow worse when I'm feeling bad,that is when I prefer to be left alone,that is when I can keep mute. now she has developed a trick. whenever I'm in that mood, she will give me my baby to carry. Lol! I will surely smile to homeboy.

now since homeboy makes you smile,you can use that opportunity to develop small talks...she is your wife.

Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by Nickymezor(f): 1:56pm On Feb 21, 2015

emerged01:
I dont know which category I fall but all I know is that I love being alone most times,i dont party,maybe because i dont drink alcohol. I don't have friends and my wife, most times complain that I don't talk to her.
most times i see people as burden. I love people that understand me,mostly I enjoy the company of kids. they are very funny and they sometimes talk to me as if I'm one of them. things that surprise most is that when I scream at them to back off they don't feel moved,they always come for me. maybe because they know I cant hurt them. Thank God last two months I have my homeboy.
I could remembered when one of our neighbours approached my wife,"why is your husband like that"? I can stay in door for weeks. am I an introvert?

Yeah I think so...

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