I was here early this week to say how my wife left me over an sms she saw.

Today her lawyer contacted me and stated that she has finally filed for divorce. I am devastated at how unforgiving she became, and how matters escalated badly.

I have attached a screen shot so you guys can judge.

I want to believe she acted this way cos of an aggression she has long being nursing.

Kindly Advise on any possible remedy.

Sorry, I had to take down the screen hot, cos of her mobile number. See the conversation below.

Me::I hope and pray that when she finally goes, you won't be far gone from me. Am sorry baby. It's beyond me.

Her: I don't want it to look as if, am an intruder... But I hope u av concience charles an ur 5n as well.

Her: Charles u knw wat, u are odviously hurting me... Am sick an tire of all this ur atitude... If u knw u can't c me, stop posting me around.. Am really tire. despite all this , yet i still keep my self for u. I think am not ok... Cos if I am, I shouldn't be doing all dis... Thinking abt de way am being treated, it hurts too much...

I don't gerrit

Sorry, I find it hard to read and understand rubbish

Edit your writing, correct your grammar and improve on your written english and perhaps I would be able to decipher this bunch of mumbled sentences

Where the screen shot ooooo

With just a blink of eye screen shot disappear

Hmmmmmmm... I guess African women are been Americanized now... All dis foriegn soap opera on TV seems to make them believe divorce is the next stage after marriage

I thought u said in ur previous thread that u will never allow her enter ur house again.

charles009:
I was here early this week to say how my wife left me over an sms she saw.

Today her lawyer contacted me and stated that she has finally filed for divorce. I am devastated at how unforgiving she became, and how matters escalated badly.

I have attached a screen shot so you guys can judge.

I want to believe she acted this way cos of an aggression she has long being nursing.

Kindly Advise on any possible remedy.

Sorry, I had to take down the screen hot, cos of her mobile number. See the conversation below.

Me::I hope and pray that when she finally goes, you won't be far gone from me. Am sorry baby. It's beyond me.

Her: I don't want it to look as if, am an intruder... But I hope u av concience charles an ur 5n as well.

Her: Charles u knw wat, u are odviously hurting me... Am sick an tire of all this ur atitude... If u knw u can't c me, stop posting me around.. Am really tire. despite all this , yet i still keep my self for u. I think am not ok... Cos if I am, I shouldn't be doing all dis... Thinking abt de way am being treated, it hurts too much...

Charles u no try at all. I wonder why u got married in the first place. U r married yet u still keep a "baby". Is ur wife not supposed to be ur one n only "baby"? It didn't end there, u were hoping and praying that when ur wife finally goes,ur "baby" wont be far gone from u. Is that the lie u churned out to ur "baby"? That Ure expecting ur wife to leave so she ( ur baby) can move in. And I'm guessing she(ur baby) believed u. Some ladies sha. Charles' baby Ure not looking like an intruder. U r an intruder. And Charles even after ur wife discovered this nonsense,u couldn't even beg, u came to naira land to disgrace urself the more. No sign of remorse. I hope ur soon to be ex wife will leave with all Ure worth so that the next marriage u get into, u will sit up.

esof1:
I thought u said in ur previous thread that u will never allow her enter ur house again.

Men.

Charlie why you no marry your baby see as you dey suffer yoursef now.

Why are u complaining here again? Thought u said u won't allow her into Ur home again. U allowed Ur pride to destroy ur less than 3months marriage. Go and marry ur side chick na.

Jackeeh:



Charles u no try at all. I wonder why u got married in the first place. U r married yet u still keep a "baby". Is ur wife not supposed to be ur one n only "baby"? It didn't end there, u were hoping and praying that when ur wife finally goes,ur "baby" wont be far gone from u. Is that the lie u churned out to ur "baby"? That Ure expecting ur wife to leave so she ( ur baby) can move in. And I'm guessing she(ur baby) believed u. Some ladies sha. Charles' baby Ure not looking like an intruder. U r an intruder. And Charles even after ur wife discovered this nonsense,u couldn't even beg, u came to naira land to disgrace urself the more. No sign of remorse. I hope ur soon to be ex wife will leave with all Ure worth so that the next marriage u get into, u will sit up.

200000000000000000 likes for you.

Charles!!! How many times did I call you.
You left your wife (80%) and chase after 20%. Do you In your dreams think that 20% is greater than 80%.
live with it, you made your choice
BTW I love your wife

Kikikiki sharlie sharlie

If more women will stand their ground like this and know their worth, men will learn to keep their diccks in place before thinking of marriage.

Abi, how hard can it be? Stay single if you know na olosho you wan do till you die

Anyways, Charles, you have laid your bed, lie on it!

Charles009, what would you do if you were in her position?

Lol you got what you deserve, enjoy your baby. Useless man.

Answer this question, yourself.
Doesn't it sound threatening? How do you explain "when she's finally gone"

I bet your babe can't stand your wife in anyway cos it's often that way for men who stray

Water don pass garri. Be a man, sign the papers like a REAL MAN you are

[size=18pt]Charles you again?!! [/size]

You were encouraging your babe to hang on as you wish your wife will soon leave and you were hoping that she (side chick) won't be too far gone by the time your wife left .

And you expected her to stay after seeing that message?

Was she supposed to spend the rest of her living in a marriage where she's sure her husband secretly wishes to be with someone else?

And to think you had the guts to be mad at her when you're the one at fault. Jeez.

What happened to begging and trying to make it up to her?
But of course why would you? You weren't repentant

Such silly entitlement.
And you even think she's not justified to want out of the Union. Like you're God's gift to women or something.

chimkaire:
Answer this question, yourself.
Doesn't it sound threatening? How do you explain "when she's finally gone"

I bet your babe can't stand your wife in anyway cos it's often that way for men who stray

Water don pass garri. Be a man, sign the papers like a REAL MAN you are

wise woman she is. If she didn't leave,the man and his mistress would have done away with her in due time to make space for the mistress.

He's not heartbroken that she left. He's just pissed she trampled on his ego and walked away before he could fling her aside himself.

Those kind of guys that think a relationship should only go the way they want.

What a silly man >:


Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

missclassy:
Sorry, I find it hard to read and understand rubbish

Edit your writing, correct your grammar and improve on your written english and perhaps I would be able to decipher this bunch of mumbled sentences

Trust me, classy ladies don't talk like this

Bro Charles, you made your choice, so might as well live with it.

I still dont understand why you posted the above?
Do you want us to condemn and blame ur wife for asking for divorce?
Mind you, her action is only a reaction to what you did...so, my dear, man up and face it.

All the best.

Bro Charles, you made your choice, so you might as well live with it.

I still dont understand why you posted the above...

Do you want us to condemn and blame ur wife for asking for divorce?
Mind you, her action is only a reaction to what you did...so, my dear, man up and face it.

All the best.

missclassy:
Sorry, I find it hard to read and understand rubbish

Edit your writing, correct your grammar and improve on your written english and perhaps I would be able to decipher this bunch of mumbled sentences

What's gotten into your head? Are you the only educated person on Nairaland?

Please if you don't understand what he wrote, move on! Stop acting like an evening-schooled-bitçh!

Yes he bluffed big time, BUT! He didn't beg you to decipher anything.

Imanuelle:


What's gotten into your head? Are you the only educated person on Nairaland?

Please if you don't understand what he wrote, move on! Stop acting like an evening-schooled-bitçh!

Yes he bluffed big time, BUT! He didn't beg you to decipher anything.

Whatever

By the way why bother quoting me. Why didn't you just walk past my post

missclassy:

Whatever

By the way why bother quoting me. Why didn't you just walk past my post

I'm allergic to stupidity!

Imanuelle:


I'm allergic to stupidity!

Goodluck being allergic to yourself

I think what hurt your wife most was the fact that you are cheating on her with a baby that went to one of these "almajiri" (or whatever they are called) schools.

Choi! "Am really tire, really sick n tire"

missclassy:

Goodluck being allergic to yourself

I'm done with you already. No further replies.

With all the mentioned above, you have no case. If you really want your wife you have to beg for her forgiveness. If not, remember, side chick no dey last long.