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Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by yuzjet(m): 9:22am On Feb 22, 2015
1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.

2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within.

3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have. The marriage is her priority.

4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back.

5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement.

6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy.

7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and children (even if she wants to have some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you.

8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.

9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach after all, right?

10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again.

11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage

12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.

13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try.

14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.

To sum it all up. If ur wife does what mostly girlfriends do according to this article, that means you married a girlfriend material, but dated your wife.

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Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by kelvine(m): 9:32am On Feb 22, 2015
You have said it all,wish I could add something new. The girl you date is single and free,the woman you marry is taken by you(ooops that's the summary).

Note that the above is the ideal situation, some marriages are unfortunately almost the opposite of the above.
Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by ChiSun27(m): 9:39am On Feb 22, 2015
No 14 says it all...that is just the reason why a struggling guy doesn't need to engage in multiple relationships because it will end up draining your pocket but rather just focus on that one person that truly loves you even when the chips are down.
Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by yuzjet(m): 9:39am On Feb 22, 2015
kelvine:
You have said it all,wish I could add something new. The girl you date is single and free,the woman you marry is taken by you(ooops that's the summary).

Note that the above is the ideal situation, some marriages are unfortunately almost the opposite of the above.

Exactly.... Most men married a girlfriend.

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Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by yuzjet(m): 9:42am On Feb 22, 2015
ChiSun27:
No 14 says it all...that is just the reason why a struggling guy doesn't need to engage in multiple relationships because it will end up draining your pocket but rather just focus on that one person that truly loves you even when the chips are down.

Absolutely. One just needs to pray for the one u focus on to be the one. Cos if not, heartbreak of the first order always awaits.

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Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by ChiSun27(m): 9:49am On Feb 22, 2015
yuzjet:


Absolutely. One just needs to pray for the one u focus on to be the one. Cos if not, heartbreak of the first order always awaits.


My bro...u no lie oooooo!!!

That heart break of the first order no be wetn person suppose experience at all...it can kill bro especially when you have given the relationship your all and all of a sudden an axe is used to damage your heart..

But then it makes us stronger at the end....that's why we don't take sh'its anymore... cool

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Re: Differences Between Girls Men Date And Women Men Marry by yuzjet(m): 9:51am On Feb 22, 2015
ChiSun27:



My bro...u no lie oooooo!!!

That heart break of the first order no be wetn person suppose experience at all...it can kill bro especially when you have given the relationship your all and all of a sudden an axe is used to damage your heart..

But then it makes us stronger at the end....that's why we don't take sh'its anymore... cool

We call it sh'ts, but in reality, it's life. Life fvcks everybody.

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