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mennn i kant say if mine is workin or not so i nid ur views on this, as well, well i am into one which is 1yr 3months, shes based somewher and i am based elsewher, we c like 1ce in 2-3months and durin that time,i happen 2 see that she gets alot of toasters and guys arund everywher in her phone,some even claim 2 b her missin rib abi na shes his missin rib, so annoyin,i happen 2 b in a serious relationship rite in my home town so it dosnt really bug me bt i really love her as well,she claims they are only wastin their time and does her best 2 keep me away from her phone but no matter how she tries i stil get to check whatsup wit her,she doesnt even delete the msgs, she is the daughter of a wealthy man in her state so i guess thats whats kippin me wit her, she lacks respects,maners everytin i enjoy nothin just the beauty, all d same we just still dey 1kin so what kind of relationship is this,she claims she love me most

And if that is the case what is wrong if the girl is having another serious one?

wow - all i can say is there are some pretty encouraging women out there!!

I believe long distance relationships do work but it takes commitment, strong will by GOD'S GRACE and of course blind Trust like some other posters have said. I myself, have been in one for the past 2yrs now and in the last year i've seen him just once. It could be really painful because you can't see the one that you love, touch them or feel them. I can't quantify the phone bills i've invested in dis rlship, i don't even want to go there. I have been faced with so many temptations here and there, almost fell into one when me and my bf had a serious issue( he also almost fell for temptation himself the same period as mine), but thank God we were able to conquer them and are still waxing strong. I get to see him again in few months time, yeehh!

Well, for those in it keep on praying and hope for the best cos the joy would eventually come when you and your SO will finally be together in each other's arms with no distance barrier to battle again.

Keep the faith!

spend 1500# on calls everyday

Caspery:

I believe long distance relationships do work but it takes commitment, strong will by GOD'S GRACE and of course blind Trust like some other posters have said. I myself, have been in one for the past 2yrs now and in the last year i've seen him just once. It could be really painful because you can't see the one that you love, touch them or feel them. I can't quantify the phone bills i've invested in dis rlship, i don't even want to go there. I have been faced with so many temptations here and there, almost fell into one when me and my bf had a serious issue( he also almost fell for temptation himself the same period as mine), but thank God we were able to conquer them and are still waxing strong. I get to see him again in few months time, yeehh!

Well, for those in it keep on praying and hope for the best cos the joy would eventually come when you and your SO will finally be together in each other's arms with no distance barrier to battle again.

Keep the faith!

Yeah right!!! Lmao,

it can work but only depend on the two people involved in the relationship, they must be commited, faithful to themselves, and understand the situation they find themselves, they must communicate often, it require time, money and commitment to make it work