Since, my wife finally decided to proceed with divorce. Life has become unbearable.
I wouldn't like to continue living in the past, Her mind is so made up. it amazes me how a woman who was so into me, could become heartless to the same man she claime she loved. so i have to accept her decision with both hands.

I have been depressed, not concentrating at work, to be fair, its not easy with me .I have been seeing a new woman each night since she left, in my quest to find consolation. I need help. What can i do to get over the decision that my wife has left for real.

I know of the hazards, but i tend to think a lot, when am alone.

You need to find consolation in Almighty God

oga cover yourself with the blood of Jesus.

I will suggest u get a family member to live with you for the main time, so you don't get lonely. And try to draw close to God, find solace in Him. God help you.

Oo please I need 10 plots of land here

Charles, only those who feel it, know it. Having those ladies are helpful but also drilling holes in the purse. Only time and therapy apart from pretty ladies help in these cases. You are doing just fine, hang in there and never make any commitment to any of those ladies no matter how pretty. Time is a medicine.

Do you use condoms?

Fanatics will start spewing religious rubbish now

@Op talking to someone about it will really help or stop being alone, move to your friend's maybe for a while

Op, first of all I think you are putting all the blame on your wife and its making you play the role of the victim.
She must have left you for a reason. I know you feel she did wrong but Its good you figure out the actual reason she left you and deal with it.

Secondly, I know you are really sad and depressed and this shows that you truly love her and want her back. But you are going about it the wrong way.

I believe you should just dust of the pain and move on with your life. I know its hard to forget about her but you just have to move on.
The kind of life that you are living is definitely not the best. You can be better.

Do you have a male friend, someone you are close to?
I think its good you talk to him about this cause it helps in relieving the inner pain you feel. You really need someone to help you through this phase of your life

Op, there is still someone out there that you can love just like you loved your wife. Just get yourself together and be a better person.
I know you would still find love someday.

Thanks and God bless

Bros, I suggest you get a girlfriend but don't promise her anything. That way, you avoid contracting disease. What am I even saying? Which lady can one trust these days sef

Time will heal you. You are going through a normal cycle. No big deal. Soon you'll get tired of them and stabilize.

Badt guy...you wife wan divorce you and where your grieve carry you go na another woman bed.

Did she wanna divorce you cos of your infidelity?

Most men would rather find inspiration at the bottom of a bottle...s*x won't even be a thing on their mind. The opposite is true for ladies thou

its not easy but ur excessively doing it

See a psychologist!

Op take am easy oOo, aids/std re real

Dont worry, u will soon sleep with all the ladies alive and start panshing female cadavers

Continue until u catch an STD that will take all ur time to treat. This way u wil forget her faster.

cheii..
i feel for dis lady who made up her mind to let go of d marriage dat
she'd so much wish to build. u ar one person who knows what went wrong
before her love quenched. a woman can actually love like no tomorrow but
d moment she decides to put an end to d whole drama.. there would be no
second tots.
bros, sorry ehn.. but instead of exposing Ur life to virus by sleeping
wit a a new lady eachday, who knows U might contract an infection.. I'd
rather advised U kill Urself and end d pains... this is my first time
hearing dat promiscuity cures pain. this shows how much U had loved
her.. jst take my advice. it is well!
honestly U needed not to feel depressed or whatever U ar feeling like. she left and U continued with d life dat U so much desired to live. how abt ''Ur baby lover'' frm Ur previous thread? dont U think it will be worthy U bring her in and continue Ur adultery? so U actually came to NL to gain an applause.. when will Ur kind begin to show some respect to matrimony? atleast add values to d one who chose to bear Ur name?

Op,
For now, all the advice peeps are giving you will only fall on deaf ears.
Go to a nice boutique, buy new wears (wrist watches, shirts, trousers and all that).
Dress better than you used to....

Stop sleeping around and derive your pleasure in something else, like the above.
Tell your friends about how you feel lonely and depressed whenever you are alone. I'm sure this will help you heal a little.

You can only heal if you derive happiness elsewhere...
Accept the fact that your woman is gone and move on...
Enjoy!

Bros, go counselling. Pls meet a therapist. U need professional help. Alcohol or sex are wrong ways to handle traumas.

continue until you catch HIV. I'm very sure your wife divorced you because of your cheating habit.

charles009:


Since, my wife finally decided to proceed with divorce. Life has become unbearable.
I wouldn't like to continue living in the past, Her mind is so made up. it amazes me how a woman who was so into me, could become heartless to the same man she claime she loved. so i have to accept her decision with both hands.

I have been depressed, not concentrating at work, to be fair, its not easy with me .I have been seeing a new woman each night since she left, in my quest to find consolation. I need help. Whoat can i do to get over the decision that my wife has left for real.

I know of the hazards, but i tend to think a lot, when am alone.

are you for real??