he is working, he is good looking he has a very bright future yet he doesn't have a girlfriend
families & friends are starting to see him as a loser
I spoke to him about it & he said "guy, i like take my time pick a wife material cuz any girl i date now my intention na to settle down with her, hopefully.

am worried because i can envision girl pretending into his life

all i can say is dat he should pray for mrs right

rawpadgin:
he is working, he is good looking he has a very bright future yet he doesn't have a girlfriend
families & friends are starting to see him as a loser
I spoke to him about it & he said "guy, i like take my time pick a wife material cuz any girl i date now my intention na to settle down with her, hopefully.

am worried because i can envision girl pretending into his life

Yup, He might be an easy prey for pretentious ladies for a whole lot of reasons

Welcome to the club.


When he's truly ready he would pick a wife.


One of the excuses guys within this age bracket give themselves is that they've not found the right person, but honestly, partly speaking from experience it's not true...he's still single because he's still very comfortable with his own idea of comfort- being a good looking, working, unmarried guy. The moment he starts seeing it as a discomforting, less than appealing situation...Trust me, he would get down and pick a wife in no time

However, this is not an absolute supposition, there's always an exception to every rule and generic behavior, so your friend may or may not be am exception

My kind of guy.

I remember in school when it was like I had difficulty puking (not getting) girls, girls that I got didn't want to go down with me. I always wondered what my friends were doing that I'm not doing when they were boasting of their conquest even within 24 hours after first meeting. I decided to investigate
I came to realise that I was the cause of my supposed problem. I was rather choosy while my friends took everything they see. I saw two of them with slutty girls that I personally did not think were worthy of my precious dick. My problem was that I was going for homely churchy girls and they would want to test the strength of the feeling before committing.

Well to cut the long story short, I decided to lower my spec to avoid missing out. But that was then sha.

There are some guys who are not just keen on testing, they want to be sure that the person they are dating is really the one. They can wait as long as possible to be sure

Dating, marrying is over rated. He should live his life jare, so far he's not gay.

He got a job and families still call him a loser? Is there something that you are not telling us here?

Because this described majority of male folks abroad.

ronald4lif:
Why don't he have a girlfriend? Fear of rejection I guess? The worse thing about fear is fear itself. I always had fear of rejection in the past until I decided to overcome it. He should try walking up to a girl and strike a conversation with her. Remember they don't bite, worse scenario is she says no to his request.

All he has to do is start up a conversation and the rest will fall into place. I don't mean corny pickup lines. I mean an honest conversation. He could try these suggestions; once he notice the "green light signals" (eye contact, touching hair, and so on), walk directly up to the girl and introduce yourself. He can start by asking if you can take her for a drink or an eatery. If she says yes, ask her name. If she's interested, she'll ask the same. If she doesn't ask, it's not the end of the world; just keep the lines of communication open.

Keep the conversation interesting, focus on her and really listen to what she says. Then you follow up with another question that links with what she just finished saying. Whatever she says you pick up something interesting from it, spontaneously. Perhaps you can ask do you have a job, studying, course, hobbies etc etc.

At the end of the convo you should endeavour to collect her digits. There are many ways you can do that gentlemanly and a higher degree she would obliged. You can say I had a great time talking with you and I ll like to see you again. Why don't you give me your number so that we can do this again?

But if he has a female friend he's interested in having a relationship with, he can ask her out for a dinner or to go watch movies. Gradually make her feel at ease whenever he's with her, get to build her trust and once he realises she's relaxed and cozy around him then he can ask her out. Make he no pressure her on replying immediately, give her time so it doesn't sound creepy. It will be ideal to ask her out in person but he can ask her out over the phone or social platforms like facebook, for a shy person. Confidence is the key word here and he shouldn't lose eyes contact when talking to any girl. He should stay thematic at all times.

Let him just man up and said to himself yes I can get this girl, for when the spirit is weak the mind becomes helpless. Let me end it here for now. All the best to him.

thanks to u, but he's problem is not & has never be the ability to approach girls, rather he doesn't want to delve into another relationship that wouldn't metamorphose into marriage

Richy4:
He got a job and families still call him a loser? Is there something that you are not telling us here?

Because this described majority of male folks abroad.

I didn't say they "call" him a loser, i said they "sees" him" as a loser

Girlfriend na achievement, huh?

There is a stage you get in life, your next move is to patiently find a wife. Not just a girlfriend for dating sake.

Time is no longer on his side. But let him cool down nd select a good girl so he wont regret later.

jmoore:
Girlfriend na achievement, huh?
There is a stage you get in life, your next move is to patiently find a wife. Not just a girlfriend for dating sake.

yea true bro

30?



When Guys are now marrying @ 21


His mate don born like 4kids

Lord seyad

Na Normal tin Na!!

You wey rush into anytin cos of family Pressure go Rush out.

Lordseyad:
30?



When Guys are now marrying @ 21


His mate don born like 4kids

Lord seyad

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rawpadgin:
he is working, he is good looking he has a very bright future yet he doesn't have a girlfriend
families & friends are starting to see him as a loser
I spoke to him about it & he said "guy, i like take my time pick a wife material cuz any girl i date now my intention na to settle down with her, hopefully.

am worried because i can envision girl pretending into his life

I kno men that are 40 and NOT married.

Google pay 85$ per hour my last pay check was $8500 working 100 hours a week online. My younger brother friend has been averaging 12k for months now and he works about 22 hours a week. I cant believe how easy it was once I tried it out. This is what I do
www.jobspase.com

rawpadgin:
he is working, he is good looking he has a very bright future yet he doesn't have a girlfriend
families & friends are starting to see him as a loser
I spoke to him about it & he said "guy, i like take my time pick a wife material cuz any girl i date now my intention na to settle down with her, hopefully.

am worried because i can envision girl pretending into his life

if truly he is good looking
do u mind telling him to pm me

[quote author=justmag post=31060827]


I kno men that are 40 and NOT married.[/quote not my friend's portion

Sparkles003:



if truly he is good looking
do u mind telling him to pm me

how beautiful are u
pm me ur number so he can chat with u on whatsapp

30 no babe? Dat na serious condition o. Na say ur face dey reject mirror or say ur pocket flat? Guy, e never too late, buckle up

[quote author=rawpadgin post=31067417] how beautiful are u
pm me ur number so he can chat with u on whatsapp[/quote

RELAX...
some are even 35 ,no ladyfriend ...
Please focus on resounding achievments 1st.
WOMEN can be a source of JOY as well as destruction.

BY D WAY when did GIRLFRIEND ,become a DEGREE or Achievement to live with...

Am even THINKING of DUMPING MINE soonest.

Oh Please!!!! Is having a gf an assurance of eternal life? Is it the ticket to heaven? Or would it guarantee his name entering the forbes billionaire list? If the answers to these questions are no, then free the brother abeg! Not all guys make a fuss about chasing girls. When he is ready to settle, he will settle. At least he didn't say he has issues meeting with girls.

Na so dem harass my life untop gf matter....didnt start a serious one myself till last year at age 28.

ronald4lif:
Why don't he have a girlfriend? Fear of rejection I guess? The worse thing about fear is fear itself. I always had fear of rejection in the past until I decided to overcome it. He should try walking up to a girl and strike a conversation with her. Remember they don't bite, worse scenario is she says no to his request.

All he has to do is start up a conversation and the rest will fall into place. I don't mean corny pickup lines. I mean an honest conversation. He could try these suggestions; once he notice the "green light signals" (eye contact, touching hair, and so on), walk directly up to the girl and introduce yourself. He can start by asking if you can take her for a drink or an eatery. If she says yes, ask her name. If she's interested, she'll ask the same. If she doesn't ask, it's not the end of the world; just keep the lines of communication open.

Keep the conversation interesting, focus on her and really listen to what she says. Then you follow up with another question that links with what she just finished saying. Whatever she says you pick up something interesting from it, spontaneously. Perhaps you can ask do you have a job, studying, course, hobbies etc etc.

At the end of the convo you should endeavour to collect her digits. There are many ways you can do that gentlemanly and a higher degree she would obliged. You can say I had a great time talking with you and I ll like to see you again. Why don't you give me your number so that we can do this again?

But if he has a female friend he's interested in having a relationship with, he can ask her out for a dinner or to go watch movies. Gradually make her feel at ease whenever he's with her, get to build her trust and once he realises she's relaxed and cozy around him then he can ask her out. Make he no pressure her on replying immediately, give her time so it doesn't sound creepy. It will be ideal to ask her out in person but he can ask her out over the phone or social platforms like facebook, for a shy person. Confidence is the key word here and he shouldn't lose eyes contact when talking to any girl. He should stay thematic at all times.

Let him just man up and said to himself yes I can get this girl, for when the spirit is weak the mind becomes helpless. Let me end it here for now. All the best to him.

A professor in womanology right?

He should think of having a wife not a girlfriend. His mate have kids already.

Sparkles003:



if truly he is good looking
do u mind telling him to pm me

How good looking are you yourself? Hope not a beast looking for Ramsey Nouah?

RedBenson:


How good looking are you yourself? Hope not a beast looking for Ramsey Nouah?

would you like to come to No 15 issac john GRA ikeja,
to find out?

If he doesn't have a gal friend atleast he can afford EVA soap ma broda believe me EVA dn cheap nw 50 naira shikena

Even dos with facial challenge have girl friend
OBJectivity and ATIKUlate comes to ma apkajiymoni mind