So, I have always had a rule of never getting too close to any of my friend's girlfriends/wives. I put up this rule when I was in school, and i discovered that most of my friend's girlfriends were always falling in love with me. So, I decided, if I spent no time at all with my friend's girl, there would be no chances of this kind of thing happening. But this time around, I slipped and let my guard down...And what is even worse is that I am the one that is attracted to the girl this time around.


Actually, the dude is my drinking buddy, I rarely used to go to his house, till they moved close by my house. So, sometimes, when he wants to escape from the house, he would beg me to come over, and lie to his wife that we have to handle a business, so he would be able to leave the house. The girl kinda dresses skimpy in the house, and doesn't care to dress properly when I come around (even though I am always there just briefly). And the girl got some b0bbies on that chest...*coughs.


So, I know you guys are wondering what the problem is. The problem is, I don't trust myself. The girl once complained to the guy that I hate her (maybe cos I don't talk much) and the guy always disturbs me to talk to his wife more. I mean, all his other friends play and gist with his wife, but I don't know how to do all that small talk. There are some times that I would have to drive the guy back home drunk, and I am just scared that I might just make a move, and worse, the girl might just play along.

kill urself
.
.before ur frd kills you

oluswaggz:
kill urself
.
.before ur frd kills you

lol! Very funny.

bro, if na joke, stop am...... ain't good at all...

kay29000:


lol! Very funny.

wen a wise man talks it usually sound funny atimes.
but bro if I won't be equivocal with you here I wud say u stay off her.

zick19:
bro, if na joke, stop am...... ain't good at all...

Stop am? How am I meant to stop how my body feels? I am asking for advise here, it is not like I woke up one morning and said..."Oya, 'body' make sure you get attracted to Tochukwu's wife."

You don't have to break your moral principles just because you want to be like other guys who gist with their friend's wives. Remain calm and keep your distance. Temptation comes in subtle ways.

you need deliverance

funmilayo32:
you need deliverance

You see why so much sexual crimes are committed in this country? When people seek help, they get answers like yours.

kay29000:



You see why so much sexual crimes are committed in this country? When people seek help, they get answers like yours.

there many girls why you chose your friend own? you are very rude

The Correct topic shud have been you are distracted by your friends wife...if I were you leave that friendship afterall what starts in beer palour, ends in beer palour....stay clear of him or his wife, I dey imagine say na ma wife you wan make move on,I go just buy Joy Soap for you and give yah Acid Bath...

funmilayo32:


there many girls why you chose your friend own? you are very rude

Did you read through my post at all? If you didn't, please do.

Thread closed- This OP is a Troll.

Hello OP. What you are experiencing is a normal male reaction to a delectable lady. But it is still okay now since according to u, its just physical. And since the lady is obviously out of your reach my advice to you is to steer clear of your friend and his wife and let out your sexual frustration elsewhere.

Qmab:
Hello OP. What you are experiencing is a normal male reaction to a delectable lady. But it is still okay now since according to u, its just physical. And since the lady is obviously out of your reach my advice to you is to steer clear of your friend and his wife and let out your sexual frustration elsewhere.

Thank you for this sane and responsible comment. People like you are rare on Nairaland.

I fit gun you down if I see you!

Chai! Please did you just listen to your self!

Anofia.

You fit kill that your friend na!

you can stop it by riping off your heart, i promise you wnt tink about it again. Just do it, and you ll see american wonder

u are attracted to your friends wife, because u wanna be attracted to her.u have the power to control ur feelings and not ur feelings controlling u.look before u leap.them no dy use two legs cross gutter o ma guy.

Go ahead bro, u hav my support.

Steer clear.of both of em..ur friend will kill u o

U need to be at d next holy-ghost congress

Dont try it o. If you like your self. From the look of things, sure you are considering making that move. Get ur self a girl friend or wife. I do feel that way sometimes , so I won't blame you. Stop going to your friends house. At least for a while.

As its been said before, avoid going to their home for as long as you can, likewise any occasion where she will be. That would also mean telling your friend that you will no longer serve as his alibi to steal him out of his house.

Are you in any relationship? Maybe you just need someone to channel your affection towards.

Report yourself to your friend.

oluswaggz:
kill urself
.
.before ur frd kills you

Read my mind

You're the guy a lady talked about here that tried hugging her in the kitchen, the good news is that she said she's gonna report you to her husband because you're not a good friend

You r talking lyk a child frm a broken home, dat is y u dnt see evil in breaking pple's home..

Enough said.. resist d devil nd he will flee frm u.. so many fishes r in da river, go nd find urs to eat

Werey!
Make a move on her then. You won't be the first guy to do that.

Don't try it bro.