Goodevening peeps in d house!I wuld luv 2 share somefin dat has been bordering me 4 quite some time now&wish 4 ur candid advice.I am a young Graduate in my mid 20's,Tall,Handsome,Intelligent,charming&very hard-working(I leave home 4 work as early as six in d morning&back by ten in d night) but still I have got one problem&dat is FINANCIAL BREAKTHROUGH.presently,I earn #80,000 a month but still can't show 4 it.I have been very supportive of ma family being d first son&its already weighing me down financially.So d question is dis,do I reduce d way I give 2 ma family members xpecially ma parents as I luk 4war 2 planning ma own life?pls ur candid advice is welcome

favoryte33:
Goodevening peeps in d house!I wuld luv 2 share somefin dat has been bordering me 4 quite some time now&wish 4 ur candid advice.I am a young Graduate in my mid 20's,Tall,Handsome,Intelligent,charming&very hard-working(I leave home 4 work as early as six in d morning&back by ten in d night) but still I have got one problem&dat is FINANCIAL BREAKTHROUGH.presently,I earn #80,000 a month but still can't show 4 it.I have been very supportive of ma family being d first son&its already weighing me down financially.So d question is dis,do I reduce d way I give 2 ma family members xpecially ma parents as I luk 4war 2 planning ma own life?pls ur candid advice is welcome

You can do less
Help one of your sister or brothers through school
Hopefully the will reduce your support
My heart goes out to you
I wish you the best

Do you still live wit ur family ?

pinkycute:
Do you still live wit ur family ?

No.I live alone.

U hv to reduce, mk dem understand u hv a lot of projects to carrry out. Mk ur sibblings understand wt u too.

Do it wisely. God help u bro

u just have to reduce and make dem understand before u get married. I dont know how ur family is but they may start giving ur wife problems thinking she is d reason behind u not giving to them lyk before. You have think of u building u own family n how give as much as u can. Make dem understand and i think they shd, afterall they want the best for u. Dont they?

My guy u ar not alone. M also almost same age wit u.

U can't kip feedin ur parents/ family or givin dem money everytym from 80k. Dis is wat u shud do: establish dem n concentrate on ur life.

Lemme tell u how I established mine.

First I started fish farmin 4 my dad on his land but d old man cudnt manage it, d tin crumbled

Next I saved n bought a land n gave my mom abt 50k to do vegetable farmin on it. (Investing in my future n also solvin d problem of dia need) I didn't giv d money to my dad again cos I knw women ar better wit management. Also wen eva m broke, she do giv me money from d farm. N d woman is doin well wit d farmin for abt ova a year now.

Once u set dem up, u can concentrate on ur life n stop spendin too much on dem. Just maybe occassionally.

Sum businesses parents can handle:

1. Any type of farmin

2. Store (buyin n sellin business)

3. Laundry/ barbing (for ur siblins)

4. Photocopyin/ business center

5. Photography (for ur siblins)

If u start carryin d load of ur family, d tin may stunt ur financial growth. U got to be wise. N I can't tell u not to take care of dem, its ur responsibility.

Note: it was/ is not easy sha o, but anytym u wanna save n u need sum austerity measures, u gat to discuss wit dem n explain in details. So de don't see u as bein wicked n also to get dia support n prayers. ( I must tell u, most parents wish/ mean well for dia children)