DollyParton1:

No really, the mum is the wife and not the maid... why can't she sit and have convo with dad's friends , What are they talking about? Dad's side chic? If she excuses them, it should be because she wanted to and not because she has to......

SirShymexx:


Alright, no probs.

But be more womanly next time.

SirShymexx:


It's an unwritten rule, and dads likewise do the same whenever mums and their friends are having a conversation.

It just shows being respectful.

MarieSucre:
Hope you'll do the same. The world needs more men like you.

aim5:


Quite a few soliders in the ancient Benin Kingdom were in fact Esans. But stay on topic and stop stating stupid examples. Women today are not enslaved, in fact most get by just cause of their beauty.

SirShymexx:


Lool. Are you sure about that?

SirShymexx:


It's an unwritten rule, and dads likewise do the same whenever mums and their friends are having a conversation.

It just shows being respectful.

MarieSucre:
Its an analogy not a direct parallel. 2, you're not Sir Shymexx. I stopped addressing posts to you the moment i noticed you watched a lot of boondocks.

MarieSucre:
woooooow. are you this dense. This is not Saudi Arabia. There is no gender segregation on an OPEN INTERNET FORUM. The key word being "open" here. I dare you post such on Yahoo news and watch as they rip you apart.

SirShymexx:


It's an unwritten rule, and dads likewise do the same whenever mums and their friends are having a conversation.

It just shows being respectful.

MarieSucre:
woooooow. are you this dense. This is not Saudi Arabia. There is no gender segregation on an OPEN INTERNET FORUM. The key word being "open" here. I dare you post such on Yahoo news and watch as they rip you apart.

DollyParton1:


Good.... this is how you should have put it initially....

aim5:


WTF. Boondocks? Anyways I hope you actually grow out of this feminist stage and become a respectable human being. Please?

MarieSucre:
I hope you will stop directing posts at me till 1, you stop using swear words like an american-wannabe. 2, you stop with your condescending posts like your ancestors-wanabe:-)

SirShymexx:


I'm out, man.

The other chic done lost her marbles...or perhaps she's on her period, who knows?

Cramps can be a biitch sometimes.

aim5:


You're so sexxy.

MarieSucre:
Thanks hon. You're not so bad yourself.

aim5:


You've never seen me so you can't say that.

MarieSucre:
You butted into quite a lot of convos yourself too coz your history is riddled with 'quotes'. But of course it becomes 'ema-baba' convo when someone calls you out on your archaicly ridiculous misogynistic bullshit. and stop with fossilic diss of 'period cramps'. being a western-wanabe is not a good look. only children use insults to win.

Justfollowit:
‘Foreign women are the best'

I laugh in Swahili

On a more serious note

Divorce her or get rid her. She is not human and therefore shouldn't be treated as such.

MarieSucre:
You never indicated in the first post of yours that i quoted that the man might be drunk. even at that what business does a drunk man have with having sexual intercourse? If you're comfortable with performing important activities under the influence why not go to the bank for some cash or go sign some important documents involving your properties and remember to blame everyone else but your drunken state after they've taken advantage of your vulnerability. And what do you mean the law has made girls irresponsible? I do not support violence from any gender infact I do not support violence irrespective of your gender, race or religious affiliations. #violenceisviolence. Talking about bullshit and taking responsibility, rape statistics show that 86% of violence directed against women come from men. how about doing something that can actually impact society positively by being a strong advocate against gender-based violence than bitchin about some imagined control you're losing. thank you.

SirShymexx:


Lol. I hear that. The white knights done mess up the game, but they still ain't getting pu.ssy - and even when they get it, someone else is always sharing it with them. I honestly can't deal with these folks, trust me.

Pu.ssy is the most powerful weapon women have...once you negate it, they'll ultimately become weak. That's what a lot of guys don't understand. And you can never make women happy - pleasing them is a myth. Ain't no one got time for that shiit, there are too many chics out there looking to mingle. Why sell ya manhood to one?

The system is just crazy. But there are always ways around it...you just have to be extremely careful and play ya cards right.

VickyRotex:



None of my business Bro... we aint fighting here...

VickyRotex:



None of my business Bro... we aint fighting here...

igbsam:


I came here to look at people's profile picture

and to read comments

and to occupy frontpage

and to look at the thread

and to see the silly man whose wife is beating him

and to see the op that posted this topic

and to see the mod that moved it to the frontpage

and to see how many views the topic gets

and to see who gets the highest number of likes

and to see how people will yab each other

and to see those that will shout GEJ till sh.it comes out

and to see the sai buhari crew

and to see the adverts people

and to see myself.

venatus25:
I really like your comment...
Just sounding like me I'm tired of always commenting within the topic. Like me na phine gal profal pishures cally me com here o

FAJFARM:


Apparently, you are related to Shekau. Social networks don't fit pple like u. Instead save your internet money and give it to d poor

Apparently, you are related to Shekau. Social networks don't fit pple like u. Instead save your internet money and give it to d poor

kandiikane:
you're making excuses for her.

missjenna:
Op, I read your post and I have to say that I am sorry you found yourself in this situation.

First of all, the fact that you have endured through the beating and you have controlled yourself from hitting back all this while shows how responsible and mature you are. I wonder how many Nigerian men would let their wives hit them and they wouldn't hit back. Irrespective of her race.
Having said that, I think from everything you wrote, your wife is only annoyed because of the fact that you are giving financial assistance to your brother
Well said.

Op, let me ask you this question, how huge is the money that you are disbursing to your family. Perhaps its a bit too much and hence your wife finding fault.
I believe you and your wife should sit together and talk things through.
Explain to her why you have to help your brother. Tell her that if not from the help your brother rendered to you, you wouldn't have met her in the first place

Your wife is a business minded woman. She believes the business won't grow as it is supposed to, if you keep on giving money out
I think you and your wife should sit down and plan your spending
You should agree on the amount of money you would dissipate to your family
I think she should understand

I also believe your wife gets angry because of the fact that you don't inform her before you give money to your people
You both run a partnership business with the same account number so its best you inform her before lending out money

Op I believe your wife loves you and you love her equally. Please don't let this issue lead to any problem in your marriage.
Your wife is hot tempered and you should talk to her. Caucasians tend to respond to talks
Sit her down and advise her to improve on herself. She can be better person.
Or better still, get the services of a marriage counselor

Op, I hope I helped.
I wish you success in both your marriage and business.

Thanks and God bless