Evina:
Oh please! I'm beginning to think some people are taking advantage of the attention given to victims of abuse who were bold enough to come share their story with us on Nairaland, recently.

Now, it seems people just want to show their twisted erotic writing prowess and get the FP attention.

Enough threads have been created! Why don't you share your story in the existing threads? At least you have people with similar experience there who can give whatever advice you need.

Evina:
Oh please! I'm beginning to think some people are taking advantage of the attention given to victims of abuse who were bold enough to come share their story with us on Nairaland, recently.

Now, it seems people just want to show their twisted erotic writing prowess and get the FP attention.

Enough threads have been created! Why don't you share your story in the existing threads? At least you have people with similar experience there who can give whatever advice you need.

Amya:
KashyBaby. One time, our help reported me to my mum. I was probably seen in an uncompromising situation with a male. Guess who was punished and called a LovePeddler? I was 7. I just learnt to deal with it by keeping mute.

This was many years ago, I possibly won't recognise the man if I see him.

pickabeau1:
Don't speak like that

It could discourage people from sharing their pain




Amya
Let me call others to speak on this

MizMyColi
Kachisbarbie
Tallesty1

KashyBaby:


Aaaawww....but the thing is...u shouldn't let other men treated u like tat after tat incident... But as uv said u had it as well with different men...so, tell me how u deal with it? Why u let them hit u? U get me?

Evina:


I am NOT insensitive! I mean what I typed! Go through the Op's past topics and see for yourself. She is quite good at entertaining people with her wild imagination.

Cc: caveatemptor.

Evina:


I am NOT insensitive! I mean what I typed! Go through the Op's past topics and see for yourself. She is quite good at entertaining people with her wild imagination.

Cc: caveatemptor.

MizMyColi:
@Pickabeau1

I'm with Evina on this.
Something about the OP, in relation to past topics doesn't feel right.

This looks more like a bid to garner entertainment as opposed to empathy.

I might be wrong though.

Amya:


Jeez! dude! I was a kid.

pickabeau1:
We have a right to our opinions

KashyBaby:



Naaaah...was a "kid" is not an excuse...U let these monsters smashed u...and u allow them to used ur fragile body....wat were u thinking?? Accrdng to ur blog, Even ur aunt's husband Used u and ur not a "kid" anymore,mind u...so maybe this case is a "rape with consent "...juz sayin

rofemiguwa:
U are being insensitive actually, went tru her other post, there is nothing unreal about being depressed or having some odd exeriences such as the older coule chyking her.. Everything she haS written about do happpen to pple. Infact do happen to onepperson. Being abused is not sometin to be toiled with. I had a friend that was abused, when she tried to tell her parents, no one belived her cos of the character of the person involved. She grew upp with so much hate, she was always deppppressed. Last I heard she slit her wrisT and wrote a sucide note. Everyone now started blaming themselves for not beliving her and giving her a chance. It was already too late.she was six feet under.

When ple find the strength to talk about their ppast, don't rub salt into injury by questioning their motive. They shrink back into their shell and will never get help they need.
Opp see a psychologist and get some therapy sessions. U need to vent and heal.


In order news that shappppe you website is confusing. Dunno where to view their product abi is it my fone.

MizMyColi:


True.

Amya:
Funny he wasn't the only one. My dad's stepbrother, my dad's boys, neighbours like the guy above. My Aunty's husband when I was 14. First time I'm disclosing this. I hope it finally gives me peace and closure.

ifyalways:
Amya and her stories.

How far with the Senator abi Diplomat who wanted a three.somes with you ? Not forgetting your Port-Harcourt aunty whose husband in obodo oyibo is interested in you.

Yeye dey boom.

ifyalways:
Amya and her stories.

How far with the Senator abi Diplomat who wanted a three.somes with you ? Not forgetting your Port-Harcourt aunty whose husband in obodo oyibo is interested in you.

Yeye dey boom.

Amya:

It really wouldn't be so hard for you to give me the benefit of doubt. What if by the slightest of margin all I've posted is the truth and you're being a jackass for your incessant doubt.
Now listen, I'm not looking for attention online. I'm not looking for traffic for my blog, My blog is political. I'm not serious about it, in fact the last time I updated the blog was many many months ago!
90% of my posts is in the 'politics' section!
This post took a lot of guts from me as there are some people on this forum that know me in real life!
The only reason I came out to say this to inform mothers that there's a chance there kids are getting abused under their noses because they're too trusting. I have a niece and nephews and I'm very protective of them. I quickly disengage any lingering hugs or lap seating from family members cos that's how it starts.
I read a story this morning here on Nairaland about a guys that was molested and while reading it, I had a flashback to my own experience, and tears started streaming down my eyes. Few minutes later I typed my own story. I understand his trauma cos I'm still traumatised from those experiences.
There should never be enough of these stories as it's an eye opener. I'm not looking for pity. I'm not a troll. Never been one.
If my stories look to incredulous to believe, then just turn a blind eye and move to other thread. By discrediting my story and my person, you may unknowingly maligned the minds of people who would have been truly helpful or helped by my story.

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ifyalways:

Benefit of doubt given. More heart breaking, gut wrenching, soul lifting, sweet and sour stories please.

I'm all ears .

pickabeau1:
Don't speak like that

It could discourage people from sharing their pain




Amya
Let me call others to speak on this

MizM.yColi
Kachis.barbie
Talles.ty1

Sorry for the late response Sir.
Busy day

Kachisbarbie:


Sorry for the late response Sir.
Busy day