After conception, 9months of pregnancy, after childbirth and 2months or so maybe in the process of childbirth, the infant tears her which means no sex for some months to allow it heal. My question goes to Fathers, How do u cope during those times, fullfilling your conjugal rights?

Don't tell me you can't do without sex for 3months. U can make love to your woman during pregnancy

@ op, the joy of the new born will overpower ur libido for some time, sex no go dey for ur mind.

am here to learn

Elsquidme:
After conception, 9months of pregnancy, after childbirth and 2months or so maybe in the process of childbirth, the infant tears her which means no sex for some months to allow it heal. My question goes to Fathers, How do u cope during those times, fullfilling your conjugal rights?

it's not necessary you must insert whenever you want to make love with your wife, explore every other means and use your or her hand for finishing touches.


#hopeyouunderstand

greatgod2012:




it's not necessary you must insert whenever you want to make love with your wife, explore every other means and use your or her hand for finishing touches.


#hopeyouunderstand

really?

MrPresident:
@ op, the joy of the new born will overpower ur libido for some time, sex no go dey for ur mind.

ARE YOU SURE??

You are wicked o. After all what she has been through what is on your mind is sex. smh

Masturbation or MouthAction

lao:
You are wicked o. After all what she has been through what is on your mind is sex. smh

by the way did you say am wicked? secondly you call that wickedness?

Elsquidme:
After conception, 9months of pregnancy, after childbirth and 2months or so maybe in the process of childbirth, the infant tears her which means no sex for some months to allow it heal. My question goes to Fathers, How do u cope during those times, fullfilling your conjugal rights?

with all that your wife is experiencing,you are not thinking about her health and the baby.
the problem you have is y.ans.hing!
na was o!
small!small
no kill yo herself o!

lao:
You are wicked o. After all what she has been through what is on your mind is sex. smh

you can imagine!
kai!!!

We resume sexafter 6 weeks due to doctors instruction.

Elsquidme:
After conception, 9months of pregnancy, after childbirth and 2months or so maybe in the process of childbirth, the infant tears her which means no sex for some months to allow it heal. My question goes to Fathers, How do u cope during those times, fullfilling your conjugal rights?

First of all, unless there is a medical reason, there is nothing stopping intimacy during pregnancy. When Jnr was taking his time, the Dr even reccomended it as a way to induce labour. It didn't work sha - maybe I needed to go deeper - eventually he was medically induced.

Secondly, abstinence for any period whilst your wife is unable or uncomfortable should be something accepted willingly - joyfully even - as part of your service to her.

Thirdly, you don't have rights in the way you make it appear. Is your wife a leasehold property (actually don't answer that ). Your wife also has rights and you both have responsibilities. And "your rights" should always be considered in light of your spouses wellbeing and the longer term good of the marriage.

Fourthly, others have touched on alternatives - where you are both comfortable and happy to do so !

Fifthly, enjoy your marriage


TV^MIC

Elsquidme:
After conception, 9months of pregnancy, after childbirth and 2months or so maybe in the process of childbirth, the infant tears her which means no sex for some months to allow it heal. My question goes to Fathers, How do u cope during those times, fullfilling your conjugal rights?

From experience,u can hold it 4 several months cos u knw ha condition.Nt when she is ok n she denies u,dat's where WW3 go start o

Elsquidme:
really?

really

As far as i'm concerned, there is no harm in his question. I wouldn't have taken it easy on him, if because of his wife's condition, he is or about to do away match. He could be a first time dad, and could as well have high libido, there is no fault of his in all that, his question shows he's not willing to cheat on his wife, regardless of his high libido, which is commendable to some extent. If his wife agrees, i'm still on my first post on this thread.


And for those saying upon what the wife has gone through, what if it's the wife that is demanding for it, at least, i know some couples who resume to bedroom activities faster than what is expected, based on wife's demand. There's even a particular couple who resumed just after 10 days, and it was the wife that initiated it. Does that means the wife doesn't know what she has gone through?
Abeg, each to his own.
No two marriages are the same, let every couple enjoy their marriage the best way they could.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012:



really

As far as i'm concerned, there is no harm in his question. I wouldn't have taken it easy on him, if because of his wife's condition, he is or about to do away match. He could be a first time dad, and could as well have high libido, there is no fault of his in all that, his question shows he's not willing to cheat on his wife, regardless of his high libido, which is commendable to some extent. If his wife agrees, i'm still on my first post on this thread.


And for those saying upon what the wife has gone through, what if it's the wife that is demanding for it, at least, i know some couples who resume to bedroom activities faster than what is expected, based on wife's demand. There's even a particular couple who resumed just after 10 days, and it was the wife that initiated it. Does that means the wife doesn't know what she has gone through?
Abeg, each to his own.
No two marriages are the same, let every couple enjoy their marriage the best way they could.
May God help us all.

Very true. I like this.

Elsquidme:
Very true. I like this.

How u no go like am

Dyt:


How u no go like am

because I like am