Hello, a very close friend of mine gave birth and the mother came for omugwo. But ever since they got married her mother hates the husband, thinking the birth of a child would bring them together as she came to the house to care for the new baby. They manage to stay 3weeks with out having problems, but because of their differences the bubble burst and they quarreled heavily.to the extent her hubby sent her out of his house. How do you think their differences could be settled?

Settled ke? After sending the old woman away? He could have endured and tolerated her the way he would hv done if it were his own mother. Though most mothers can be very troublesome at times! But what is Love if it can't endure?

pwerrymansion:
Settled ke? After sending the old woman away? He could have endured and tolerated her the way he would hv done if it were his own mother. Though most mothers can be very troublesome at times! But what is Love if it can't endure?

exactly...there z no solution note: ayam h i g h

She should go back and apologise to him for disrespecting him in his house, that would be a good place to start, or she should never go there again.

As a matter of fact, the man is irresponsible.
A wise man will try to find out what grudge(s) his
mother in-law has against him and resolve them instead of engaging in unnecessary quarrels with her. In fact, it is the height of disrespect for him to have sent the woman packing in that manner. Would he have done same if she were his mother?

I don't support any form of disrespect to in-laws from either a man or his wife. Treat them with both love and diplomacy and prove to the world that you are younger and supposedly still
possess more active brain cells.

Timbuktou:
She should go back and apologise to him for disrespecting him in his house, that would be a good place to start, or she should never go there again.

Word perfect! And woe betide the wife if she maintains communication with the mother !


TV

If i know that you never like me from aeons,your stay in my house will be as short as the time you spent hating on me.
A man can not just wake up in the morning and send his MIL out for no good reason.She must be a troublemaker and her troubles should be sent back to her base with her.

donpeey22:
As a matter of fact, the man is irresponsible.
A wise man will try to find out what grudge(s) his
mother in-law has against him and resolve them instead of engaging in unnecessary quarrels with her. In fact, it is the height of disrespect for him to have sent the woman packing in that manner. Would he have done same if she were his mother?

I don't support any form of disrespect to in-laws from either a man or his wife. Treat them with both love and diplomacy and prove to the world that you are younger and supposedly still
possess more active brain cells.

Do men like you still exist?

TV01:

Word perfect! And woe betide the wife if she maintains communication with the mother !


TV

Oh, that's a given.

Timbuktou:
She should go back and apologise to him for disrespecting him in his house, that would be a good place to start, or she should never go there again.

O really, wat if it was d other way round...could u have advised the husband's mother to do the same thing