It sounds very strange and unusual but it happens for real and has been experienced by me (I'm sure many guys might have one point in time experienced such). However, there are many ladies whose behaviour become more and more bizzare when you fail to do the needful yet they claim SEX is not LOVE

While growing up, my friends always assert that one has to be very perceptive and tactful especially when dealing with ladies who claim they are NOT interested in sex but I used to think it was sorely for their own self-interest; and concern only to relieve their sexual urge not until I got to realize that many ladies truly claim they want NO sex yet they will take you for granted or dump your as.s when you fail to take advantage of their desire for sexual intimacy especially when sex is being initiated by them (anyway you might call this a maximal generalization about Nigerian ladies)

When it comes to dating, sex was always the last thing on my mind but the moment I realized I was being referred to as a VERY DULL DUDE by various species of ladies, I had to upgrade my OS from version 2.5 to version 7.5

I have once been dumped by a lady I loved so much just because I failed to do the needful even when she needed it. She stopped visiting, stopped her frequent phone calls and her love for me headed on diminishing returns. I keep wondering why ladies claim relationship is NOT about sex yet they take you for granted, and in some cases dump you without rolling those dice.

However, most ladies don't totally respect or succumb under a guy's authority, in as much as he's being deprived of what random guys out there are also being deprived of. You do the needful she shows little seriousness and affection afterwards; you do otherwise, she sees you as a dull niqqa and wouldn't think twice before dumping your as.s

Even those who are guilty of this act would storm on this thread and begin to call ladies who are guilty of charge all kind of abusive or insulting names.

Now the question is, Why Do Ladies Claim SEX Is Not LOVE But Dump Guys Who Refuse To Have Sex With Them ?

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

TrishaP:
I'm going to agree to disagree with that.

b4 nko ? Why wont you disagree with the write-up

tosyne2much:
b4 nko ? Why wont you disagree with the write-up

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

Mhizkel:
The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship

falconey:
can i have that sister's number? am the kind of guy for her. Maybe the dude is impotent or something, i dont think he has a device between his legs.

falconey:
i do

NairaMode:
I think most of the guys lie about this.

Most girls would be happy if a guy doesn't bring up the issue of sex or a no-sex relationship.

No one wants a slack pus.sy before marriage.

JayKayMaybachz:


What are you talking bout sef....?

tosyne2much:
Dey dia make pant dey wear you